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Hey I have to get braces in about a month and Im really scared cause I cant imagine having metal on my teeth lol. I just wanted to know from 1-10 how bad it hurts and how long about do people have them on?

well when you first get them on they hurt! but after a while you get used to them like I did. when you get them tightened they hurt then it goes away. if you really don't wan the pain take advil, since it's a painkiller. i have to have my braces on gor two years. i like them cuz you get fun colors to put on your braces. when you get the chain near the end of the time you have to have them on it will hurt. i would rate the how much it hurts at the most a 5. have fun and show off your braces!!! don't hide them.

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Ok this guy i really liked danced with me in slow and fast songs at a dance we had. I then found pout that i really like him but it was summer the next day ans schol was out so i have been thinking about im all summer. but i don't know if he likes me or not plz help me.

well you should talk to him and not let him get away. see how things work out between you two. go see a movie or something.

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i plan on having this hardcore party at my new house when its done being built. all the people im friends with are into really hardcore music and skateboarding and having fun. but i want the party to be really awesome, not just sitting around the whole time talking. i know i should have music and food, but what else can i do to make it really fun? if the party gets boring, everyones gonna wanna start drinking or smoking and thats not good. all of the "spin the bottle" games are getting old. and i dont want everyone at school talking about my party if its lame...

well you can get movies that you know your fiends will like. you could also have one of your friends help you set up a mini skatepark in your backyard or frontyard.

I hope you have a great party
-Stephanie

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Well, I like this boy, say his name is Bob. But he has a girlfriend, named let's say Lori. Now Lori is one of my good friends, and Bob is like, my best male friend, but I really really like him. And he flirts with me a lot like online, and in person when Lori isn't there. Now I don't want to ruin their relationship, but they never see eachother and stuff, I so know eventaully, they'll break up. Should I just wait for them to break up, because I know he likes me, and he knows I like him, or what. I am s0o Confused.

i think you should wait cuz she's a good friend of yours. but make sure that when they break up that it's ok for you to go out with him otherwise you could have a really mad friend.

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I like this girl and i think she likes me she gives me clues that she does but im not 100% sure I like her but i have a g/f and i dont want to make it obvoiuouse that its me who wants to know if she likes me how do i find out if she likes me without her knowing i want to know??

well if you like this girl then ask one of your friends to walk up to her and ask if she likes you. if she does then be friends with her cuz your in a relationship.

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Hey every1! im new to this site! well..I'm 14 and I live in Utah. I have this white discharge that my mom said it will go away once I get my period but I have had my period for at least a year. Is this discharge normal?

Help!

yes it's normal. it lets you know that your peiod is coming. jus get some pantiliners for it.

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hey...this is gonna be pretty long im guessing so ill rate 5's to whoever takes the time to answer this..thanks.

Okay..so i met this guy who i fell totaly inlove for and cared about him sooo much. he knew that i was moving to a different country soon, and it started affecting our relationship badly. one night we got in a fight and were on the verge of a break up after i found out he told people he dindt like me anymore. i called him up and told him im comming to him as a source of it all and i need to know if he still likes me or not, and that i dont want him to lie to me , or fuck with me, just tell me the truth. well that night he never gave me a straight out answer if he still liked me or not, he was really quiet, and every time id cuss he would ask me to stop cussing. but i jsut kept on yellin and crying and tellin him i cared a lot, and i just need the truth, then ill leave him alone if thats what he wants. well he said he had a lot to say but he needs to figure it out nad he'll call me back. i said okay. this was around 11 at night or so. but he dindt call for like 2 hours, and i got worn out and tired so i went to bed. he called around 5, but i dindt pick up cuase i was sleepin and my phone was on silent so i missed it. i keep thinking to waht if that was the call that would fix my relationship with him. the next day, i called him back but he wasnt home. I called my "bst friend" and aksed her what she was up 2, and if she wasnt busy i needed to talk to her (i wanted to tell her hwat happened) and she goes "oh actually im just with ur boyfriend right now nad we're just chillin with some other people" I had NO problem with that whatsoever caust i trusted her completely with everything i had..and it takes a long time to gain trust with me cuase i been backstabbed way too many times..so this gurl had my trust completely, and i trusted my boyfriend and i understood that maybe he needded some time to think things over and stuff..well my best friend, all the guys think shes one of the hottest girls ever, and pretty and perfect and eveyrthing..blah. anyways, my boyfriend calls me from my best friends cellphone later on that night and i pick up and he talks to me and hes like "hey....im really sorry but i dont think we shuld be together anymore..u cna hate me if u want, u hvae every right to, but i still wanna be friends. i really dont want to..i just think this is comming to end.." and i was just like "alright, bye" cause i was really upset!! i mean i loved this boi!! and he broke my heart in thousand pieces!! and so i knew hed be with my best friend for the next few hours, so i called him around 12 am, and i was like "hey..i think i deserve to know why" and he was like "know why i broke up with u" and i said yes so he tells me all this crap about hwo he thought i was somebody else who i wasnt and how he met someone special who is so perfect and amazing and how i deserve better than him and it ended and that he has unrealistic expections of ppl. basically a bunch of BS and he never gave me a real answer. so w/e. it NEVER evven crossed my mind that my best friend was his new special someone!!!!! I found out that she hooked up with him the night we broke up! she gave him head, he fingered her, and ate her out and she gave him a hand job!! ON the FREAKING night we broke up1!!!!!!!! i was like omg r u kidding me.. but when i told her i was hurt she freaked out on me and told my ex that she cant like him cause of me! and so my ex freaked out on me and got pissed cuase supposebly hes in love with my slutty ex best friend..and i still cared a lot about my ex, like damn i care so much for him.so i told her she can do whatever she wants, and to not involve me in it..but i couldnt really get mad at her and let her know how much anger i have, and how betrayed i felt and how i would never trust her again..so i reminaed silent, which was a mistake. now them two are fucking going out, and she lost her VIRGINITY to him. i dunno what to do. i cdant say anything now, but i feel so betrayed bt here. should i still let her know that im realy hurt and i have a lot of anger! cuase when she has problems with my ex and is sad she comes to me and tells me about them and i dont wnt to hear it, he was MY ex!! and when he does cute stuff she tells me and im like how much more unsensitive cna u be? but i just sit there and listen..i dunno. shulld i tell her off and break friendship off completely? cuase i have no trust for her. and baout him, what do i do. cuase even after it all i still love this boi like no other and care os much and really dont want to lose him..even as a friend..i hookked up with him one time after we broke up..and i was crying cause i was drunk and i told him evertthing i felt and we stood infront of the mirror and my make up was completly smirred and we were huggin really tightly and he goes look at us, look at the mirror and we both look, and then he turns his head away, kisses my forhead and he syas i cant look at u this way i cant look at us cuase then its gonna hurt more..and i was way drunk and i dindt say anythin just kept crying. and we just stood there..so i duno cuas ei still care lots about him and i duunno if i shold just act like i dont care anymore and eventually stop..or should i still care for him and talk to him and be friends..cause being friends with him hurts me somuch cuase i see him with her and it makes my heart crash to a thousand more pieces evry time. and also his birthday is comming up soon, and i dunno if i should get him something or not? and if i should..what? hes a bab boi skater type..so u cant really get nice things, and i dont want to get it over done to make him think im obsessed with him.

I AM sorry this is soo long!! but i really needed to elt it all out! thanks for whoever replys! ill rate 5!! xoxoxoxoxo thnaks!

i don' think you should be friends with her, after all she stole your bf. she doesn't deserve someone like you.you can get your ex a gift if you want, i wouldn't cuz i would be pissed off at him and wouldn't want n e thing to do with him or his new gf.

Good luck
-Stephanie

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i collect hentai for a liveing! but i dont masturbate to it or anything... my sis sais im a big pervert and my mom doesent mind. im verry interested in that kind of art. is it wrong to do this?

no there's nothing wrong with collecting hentai artwork. if you like it then there's nothing wrong with that. different people like different kinds of art. it doesn't matter what other people think or say, just ignore them.

-Stephanie

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ok i've posted before about how i like my bff guy friend. and i thought he liked me back i mean flirt totally and he always talks to me on aim and everything was going great! and then his sister tells me he likes his old girlfriend again. i have nothing against his old girlfriend (besides the fact i like him.) i mean i really really like this guy. more than any other guy i've liked before. what should i do?

i think you should tell him. if you really like this guy and want to be with him then you should tell him how you feel. maybe he likes you but doesn't know if you like him too. so tell him.

Good luck
-Stephanie

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Hi i am having a problem with my ex boyfriend becouse he brok up with me becouse he liked his ex boyfriend but when he told me it was a big shok and then he flew away the next morning and i was all a lone and i had to dill with it on my owne but my friends wore very helpful to me. I still love himbut i want to get over him help me

well if ya wanna forget 'bout him then have a girls' night out or hit the mall or movies with ur single friends.

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Do guys like to be kissed with or without lip gloss? Wouldn't that be gooey and slippery? How can you tell if your lip gloss will taste good to him?

umm...don't wear lip gloss, it gets in ur mouth and doesn't taste to good. some guys don't like it at all so don't wear it.

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hey im skinny...but like my thighs and stomach and upper arms are flabby!! i wanna get fit and tonned for skool which starts sept 8th...lately ive been jumping on my trampoline ALOT!! will that help?? where will it make me fit..will it help my stomach and stuff..just a big trampoline..

no the trampoline will not help. i have the same problem with my stomach, thighs, and upper arms. so what I started to do was to do 20 pushups in the morning after breakfast and 20 at night after dinner. 50 situps in the morning after breakfast and 50 at night after dinner. and 30 crunches after I eat lunch. so far it is working out great.

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ok well sunday my friend came home from vaca. and the guy i liked and he liked me kinda liked her.(if that makes sense)so anyways he told me that he would be better off with her than me. so i said ok and decided to move on cuz i new that we could never be. so i did. and on weds. i told him that i liked someone else. and he just started like flipping out. cuz i thiink he was jealous and he is over my friend and likes me again. but its to late and i told him that. i told him that i already like someone else. but then he told me that he wasnt gonna let me throw me and him away. and hes really mad that i like his friend and everything. i duno what to do. cuz i really dont wanna hurt my friend. but then the guy i like i already told him everything that went on between me and the other guy. and i already told him know ahwile back when he asked me out. please help me.
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well who do u wan to be with? who do u like better? who treats you better? who is nicer? go throught the pros and cons if u have to.

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i typed at the end of my answer...

sometimes that happens to me i guess it just gets cut off sometimes.

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I recently went to doctor for my back I have been having shooting pains and such. I am almost positive I have the disease. They have to test me for Bone disease, Muscle Disease, Cancer, and Brain Tumors. Anyways, does anyway know how to dull pain without Ibuprofen? I have growen immune to it. Please Please Please! Fibro is extremely painfull!!!
Thanks!
Megan-

well ask your doctor for some painkillers or something to help. if he doesn't want to give you painkillers then go to the drugstore and get the icy/hot patch for your back. or you could try bayer back and body.

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theres this kid i really like and he likes me too so he asked me out last night and i said yes. then today hes like i like yoo more as a friend so want to be just that so im like sure , but i dont know how to act towards him now, do i be friendly or ignore him, i dont know what to do.

if i were u i'd be friendly. he said he wanted to be friends with you so don't pass up the chance to hang out with him. it's either you hang out with him as friends or you don't hang out with at all.

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i always get acne everyday! in the morning, i wake up and theres another one! i've tried everything! i tried this benzclin (not sure how its spelled) which was prescribed by the doctor, i've tried proactiv, shiseido, clean & clear, neutrogena, clique, mary kay, and even toothpaste! nothing seemed to work. i feel so embarased to go out. i cant do anything. i feel like crying everyday and i have zero self confidence. please help me. i want my acne out now:(

go to a dermatoligist and tell him that you tried everything. the thing that worked for me when nothing else did was stridex.

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Can anyone either explain (or refer me to a website) which explains the theory and logic beinh the HTML hex code color names?

I know that is has something to do with shade, saturation, hue... something like that. I looked for something online but couldn't find anything.

I don't want a listing of all the colors and their codes.

here is a really good one:
www.lissaexplains.com
i use that all the time

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how do you know when you are truly in love with a guy and how do you know when it is the right time to tell him?

you know when you are truly in love with someone because that person makes you smile, makes you feel special, and is always there for you. you know it's the right time when you really love him.

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I have dark hair around my bellybutton and when I wear a two piece swimsuit, you can sorta see it, and it bothers me! I don't want to shave it! I dunno why I have hair THERE... any advice would be greatly appreciated!

i have hair there too. don't shave it, it will get worse. you can wax it, it will hurt but at least it will be gone.

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