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Boy Trouble.


Question Posted Monday August 16 2004, 11:58 am

Well, I like this boy, say his name is Bob. But he has a girlfriend, named let's say Lori. Now Lori is one of my good friends, and Bob is like, my best male friend, but I really really like him. And he flirts with me a lot like online, and in person when Lori isn't there. Now I don't want to ruin their relationship, but they never see eachother and stuff, I so know eventaully, they'll break up. Should I just wait for them to break up, because I know he likes me, and he knows I like him, or what. I am s0o Confused. <33 Thank you!

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sk8ermonkey75 answered Monday August 16 2004, 4:46 pm:
you should never go out with him, i know what its like to be that friend lori, cuz that happened to me and i was totally in love with the bob. it not worth losing that friend , well then again .

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spoiledx3shortii answered Monday August 16 2004, 2:02 pm:
Sorry to have to say this but.. you may not have a chance to go out with him.. if they do break up, Lori is going to be upset.. (probably) and even if she says you can go out with him, it will hurt her more.. One rule in friendships is - You cannot/should not go out with a friends ex..
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crazy_beautiful_ answered Monday August 16 2004, 2:02 pm:
well you could wait and give their relatioship time but when they do break up Lori mite get pissed if you go out with Bob. If they dont break up i say move on and stop waiting. Theirs plenty of guys out there.

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unreachable answered Monday August 16 2004, 1:17 pm:
Like everyone said, give them time. if they eventually DO break up, you need to talk to 'Lori' about it because if you start dating, it might hurt her. Just let things cool for awhile and if she`s ready to let go, you can start dating.

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BrOk3n_sMiiLe_x answered Monday August 16 2004, 12:56 pm:
i can see yooh like him alot but yooh should wait nd give it time to break up .. if they neveer see eachother nd its not ogin well it will happen in its own time but if yooh mess it up now then yoh couls lose one good frined or mayb even two so jus be careful .. nd wen they break up give it a lil time to yooh kno get over the break u nd then yooh kno start omething .. well i hope i helped nd if yoh need me im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ]
[ . megan . ]

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Mackenzie answered Monday August 16 2004, 12:54 pm:
Yes; wait foR them to bReak up! If you'Re so shoRe he likes you.. once he ends his cuRRent Relationship, theRe's a good chance he may come to you!! Best wishes!! Hope I helped!! =D

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liddylflirtx3 answered Monday August 16 2004, 12:30 pm:
I think you should wait until "Bob" decides between you and "Lori". Since Lori is one of your good friends, you definitly wouldn't want to hurt her, so wait patiently until they break up, and try not to drop any hints to Lori that you like her boyfriend!

Good luck! =)

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ManDA_Lee answered Monday August 16 2004, 12:22 pm:
well boy trouble,
i would have to say. give it time. if you try to take advantage. u might get him. but you will lose your good girl friend.

xox manda xox

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superstar10 answered Monday August 16 2004, 12:15 pm:
well you can just wait until they break up so that you dont have anything to do with it. or you can just talk to bob. tell him the truth in how you feel. but tell him everything. i hope i helped....goo luck i know you will do the write thing...

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MCRRocks102 answered Monday August 16 2004, 12:12 pm:
Juat ask him online why he is flirting with you and if he says he isnt then say bullshit becuz u always do.....do you like me or sumthing .then write becuz.......i kinda like you.okay cya

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LilCutePinkAngel answered Monday August 16 2004, 12:08 pm:
i think you should wait cuz she's a good friend of yours. but make sure that when they break up that it's ok for you to go out with him otherwise you could have a really mad friend.

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Dom answered Monday August 16 2004, 12:04 pm:
I think you should wait cause they might just had a fight or something like that you dont know about and they are just having time off between each other if you go up to bob right now and ask and such it could ruin what you have or it might even make it better than what you have it all depends you just got to wait i guess and if he breaks up with her then go around him much more and talk to him a lot and maybe you'll go with him and be happy hope my advice works:)
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