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I got this as a Christmas present last year, and just today tried to instal it. However, my dad unfortanetly got the Special DVD Edition! I don't have a DVD-ROM drive in any of the 5 computers in my house, not including my dad's totally off-limits work-only PC. The normal CD-ROM drive I have doesn't even recognize the disc Sims 2 came with as a disc at all! :/ Is there any way I can get around this and install it? Or do we have to drop another $40 on the normal version? -sigh- (link)
just bring it back and switch it. this happened to me and they easily switched it. (no questions asked) alough, if you comp isnt fast enough it might not load at all (when you want to play itll freeze up), i havent got to play mine and i ve had it since it came out.
~sara~


You probley know what this is going to be about {cause of the title and catagoery}, and your exactly rite in what you are thinking. Heres what happened: i've been dating this guy forever
{3 years in April} and he called me up and invited to his 'fort' {i know it sounds super doofy but he and his friends built in the cloest of thier guest house and watch moivies and stuff} but anyway, i went over and he told me he was moving, i was like 'whoa'. and we cryed and hugged and kissed. he was was movin to Japan because hes a navy kid. thats like to far to go to from kansas even if you flew. so we had this big thing as to what to do and he was moving in a week. we sat there for a few hours thinking and he asked me what i thought. i said we should make this a memborable nite. {ha ha im such a slut!!} he smiled and we were like yeah we should, and we did {all of those clueless blondes out there: we had sex}. i layed there in his arms all nite and half of another day untill i relized what time it was. Our parents were out looking for us of course. we got up and got dressed and ran to meet them. they thought we ran away because we mad, so they didnt suspect a thing. me and him were all giggle and stuff so my brothers and sisters supected something but kept there mouth shut. A few days later he said he didnt regret it but felt bad about how it happened and he asked me to marry him. { keeep in mind i was a virgin, as was he, and we are 17 and 18} i said yes and me and his siblings and my siblings planned a roadtrip for a day or two before they left. we got married and it was great. when we got home he left. {sparing a few detailes}. this was a half a year ago {or so} and i dont know if should tell my parents or not. and i miss him so bad. weve talked but we have to be careful what we say. i want to go to college with him and get an apartment together, but how do we do this without my parents knowing? i havent dated or anything and they still dont get it. but theres one more thing: i'm pregnate (sp). i just dont know what to do.... (link)
ooh, well first of all, your not a slut. second, tell your mom, if she trusts you enough not to ask anyting about the day and a half you spent with him she shouldnt get mad. (either that or shes really really clueless)
~sara~


yes.. ok so i poked my mom's eye with a clothing hanger.. it was by accident. we were taking about how she sits at home and does nothing while my grandparents hafta take care of my brother and sister who is 2 and 5... ya she started hitting me and then i was all like "stop hitting me" and then i accidently poked her in the eye and then i said sorry and then she started crying really loudly like how she does when my dad and her start fighting and they make eachother bleed and bruise all over.. yes.. screwed up.. neway ya.. after she called my dad to gimme crap about poking her she started dragging me across the floor and hitting me and crap and then i told her to go to hell.. ehh.. ya.. so wut am i supose to do now? i'm not calling child helpline or w/e.. (link)
Thats not good, maybe you should call the help line though. or try talking to your mom about it. not like you probly dont know this, but your dad could go to jail if he 'beats up' your mom, and she to could at least she get fined.your parents are abusing you. you should do something about before you get hurt. sorry if i didnt help,
~roxy~


This may sound dumb but I really need help.

I was browsing the internet and remembered a site I had visited earlier called TeenOrg or something like that- it had like chat rooms and articles and stuff. I was pretty sure I remembered it, so I typed in teenorg.com. And viola, a teen porn page appears. Of course I closed it out, but I'm freaked now- my uncle fixes my computer quite often and I'm scared he'll see it.

My internet browser is Mozilla Firefox and my computer is Windows XP. How do I get rid of it? (link)
go to history, find the site and delete it, or left click properties go down and clear history but if you do that itll be all gone. everything. All the in history.
~roxy~


ok what are some good stores that have cheap semi-formal dresses? ive got a dance coming up and i cant find anyting! thanks!
i rate 5s for every answer that doesnt piss me off (link)
thrift store store are awesome, you never know what you can find. also try DEB, goodwill, and vintage butterfly.
~roxy~


I'm fed up with life and I just want to die, but how exactly can I kill myself - I don't know how. I'm 14 and never had, never will have a boyfriend - I'm ugly, short, boring and shy. I think I have social anxiety but I just can't face troubling someone with my problems, I'm not worth that. I don't have a life, I spend my life going to school, eating, sleeping, and on the computer. I moved house about 8 months ago, and before when I was with my mates I could be confident and loud, and not care what people thought of me. But my new friends are really immature - we're in year 10 and they chase year 7's and are REALLY loud. They think I act like a 50 year old because I don't find acting like a 6 year old fun. I can't say what I think because if I offend them then they'll leave me and I have no one. I can't get new friends because I'm too shy. I want to move back to where I used to live, so I can get my old life back, I miss my friends so much. My dad kind of wants to move back, but my mum is happy here and she won't move. There was this boy at my old school who I liked a lot since year 7, and I miss him but have no way to contact him, I couldn't ask my old mates to get his number 'cos it'd be embarrassing. I have nothing to live for, what can I do? (link)
don't kill your self,death is not the ansewer. (if you get caught and it doesnt work then every thing might get worse.) try to make new friends. as hard as it sounds, just start over.
~roxy~


im 14/f/bi- since yesterday, it has been exactly 4 months since my ex Christina and i separated. she is still one of my closest friends though.i found out two weeks ago that she still wanted to be with me. Me and her started getting all close in her room, then she asked me back out. So me and her went back out, but then she broke it off because she said she needed some more time to think. A couple weeks ago i was going out with this one girl Geanna. Geanna and Christina also went out with eachother but a month and a 1/2 before me and geanna started dating. Geanna and i only lasted about a week. She told me she broke up with me because she didnt want to come between me and Christina. A couple days ago, i found out that Christina and Geanna are going back out. i dont know what to make of all this. Can somebody try and explain to me what just happened? (link)
maybe - at the risk of sounding mean - christina and geanna munipulated you to get to each other. i mean thats what it sounds like. i think you should forget both of them and just move on.(even though this probly wasnt what yyou wanted to hear)
~roxy~


i love to swim, and i am pretty good at. ive swum (?) on a summer team for 3 years and did really well. but its hard to like get out of the water and walk away and stuff cuz im kinda fat and i feel so self conscieous. i have friends on the team so its not like i am alone. but ive offered to swim on a team called seaback (auditions only/best of the best) but i dont know any one there. i dont know if should say yes or no. (link)
Do some exercises to get rid of some excess fat, watch what eat, 1/2 a normal serving or leave a little on your plate every nite. By summer you should be slimmer. About seaback, do what makes you happy and if swimming makes happy, then try it, if dont like you can always quit.
~roxy~


Hey does anyone have any good websites with like coloring pages,or games,or just time fillings stuff to do because I am totally not sure what sites to go to and I do not want to go google it either because that takes way too long to find just the right site and I will rate 5's too if you name a site whether I liked it or not enless you say one I have already tried and please help as soon as possible!!!


Bored Tween, Videogamegirl (link)
crayola.com is a an okay place to go. you might find one or two things you like. but its a little prescoolish.
~roxy~


does anyone know any cheats for Sims 2 besides the one that gives you more money because i already know that one.ill rate u a 5 if u answer! thanks (link)
there a cheat freezes the grow up process for your sims, if you want it ill look it up for you. ~roxy~


I have these two friends one doesnt like the other and the other wants to be the other ones friend what should I tell both of them? (link)
tell them to talk to each other. Ask them to talk about why one doesnt like the other one and why the one so bent on being friends with the other. ~roxy~


My room is purple. I have a couple things hanging from the cieling an a really cute bed spread. I want some more ideas on how i can make it more decorative. Like what kind of stuff i need on my walls mostly. What colors i need, and stuff like that. i have carpet now, but i want hard wood floors. shoudl i get a light colored wood, or a dark? shoul di put a rug over it? a small on in the middle? or just leave it uncovered? I have no idea what to do i just want my room to be really cute. Please make any suggestions, i could use ANY help that you willing to give weather its a little thing or big.-->ME! (link)
you should try lime green or black accents. rite now target has a nice line of room things called room esseinals.~roxy~


What's a good rate to charge for babysitting a 1 and 3 yr old? (link)
i'd say$5 or $6 an hour, those are really hard ages to baby sit for. i baby sit regularly for 8 and 1 1/2 year ols and that can get hard. dont go for less then $5 though.


I'm 6'11" 430lbs Male. I need a plan for weight loss, and i need to lose it soon. My doctor has suggested surgery, and i do not want to go there until i absoulty have to. It is literally killing me. Please give me some low cost solutions on losing weight. Thanks. (link)
less carbs, and more protien.


im a moderator nd i put a good rating on a question that wasnt that great by accident, so would that make me not a moderator any more or something?? (link)
no not at all.just go and change the rating.


Hey, to anyone who can help me i'll rate a 5!!...but this is for those who had read To Kill a Mockingbird...i was just wondering if you know what chapters really describe Atticus' character..THANX! (link)
my moms an english teacher and when she gives out the assignment to read to kill an mocking bird she tells the kids to go to: www.pinkmonkey.com


does anyone know any good sites for fitness or excercise, and how to tone up ur body and how to lose alittle weight! or if u know anything that might help me! (my main target areas are the tops of my legs and my stomache) i need to know asap! please help me! ill rate high!! thnx! (link)
if you do crunches every nite before you go to bed and watch what you eat youll lose enough wieght to notice in about a month, no for your legs, theres this one excercise i cant think of rite this minute, srry. hope i helped!!


I'm 14 and I broke up with my ex boyfriend 2 months ago, because we never talked or were able to see each other.Now that were broken up I see him more and more. We started hanging out. Well the other day he told me he still loved me and still wanted to be with me,but I didn't tell him it back because I didn't want to get hurt again.After that we started walkin with his friend and I had a stupid moment and kissed his friend (I've liked his friend for like ever),but I never stopped loving my ex.. Should I feel bad for what I did? (link)
dont feel bad stuff like that happens.


I'm 14..Well me and my boyfriend broke up because we didn't see each other(If you read my last comment you'd understand) But the night we broke up was a night at a local dance. After we broke up my best friend or what i thought was my best friend was all over him..I still really like my ex..Should I still be mad at her for that or should I suck it up and deal with it? (link)
did you break up with him or did he break up with you? if you broke up with him yes you you should suck it up, but if he broke up with you , you should talk to him about it, mabe he likes your "best friend". one rule with friends you should not ever go out with each others exes.


after u eat ALOT is it bad to make ur self throw up just one time ?? i know i wont get like obsessed, but it it bad for just 1 time? (link)
yeah its pretty bad, see you cant stopp yourself from getting obbsessed no matter how you try, thats risking getting very very sick.




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