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i accidently poked my mom's eye with a clothing hanger


Question Posted Sunday January 30 2005, 6:22 pm

yes.. ok so i poked my mom's eye with a clothing hanger.. it was by accident. we were taking about how she sits at home and does nothing while my grandparents hafta take care of my brother and sister who is 2 and 5... ya she started hitting me and then i was all like "stop hitting me" and then i accidently poked her in the eye and then i said sorry and then she started crying really loudly like how she does when my dad and her start fighting and they make eachother bleed and bruise all over.. yes.. screwed up.. neway ya.. after she called my dad to gimme crap about poking her she started dragging me across the floor and hitting me and crap and then i told her to go to hell.. ehh.. ya.. so wut am i supose to do now? i'm not calling child helpline or w/e..

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Additional info, added Sunday January 30 2005, 6:38 pm:
my mom beats up my dad.. not the other way around.. the cops aleady came once buh no charges were made.. oh and ya.. my grandparents live with me and my parents.. and i'm 13... SRY.

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emaleekate answered Monday January 31 2005, 6:37 pm:
get like a video camera and secretly tape that stuff and send it to the police. i kno its ur parents but no one deserves to be treated like that

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CoUnTrYgUrL77 answered Monday January 31 2005, 5:25 pm:
ok, you have to get help....NOW....ok, the next time she hits you like she does, sneak into your room and call the cops and tell them that you want to be escorted out of there that your mom is hitting you...(my dad told me to do that if my mom hit me). or you could call CPS anonymously. Maybe you and your dad could help eachother out...unless he is the same as your mom....if you need any more help or anything...just IM me on AIM DoNuTbAnDiT 00

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xxBrOkEnxx answered Monday January 31 2005, 3:50 pm:
ok you really need to tell someone it go farther and she could do something as bad as death..so maybe go see a shrink or something or tell an adult

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MissEmmyBoo answered Monday January 31 2005, 12:48 am:
Well, if you or your dad aren't willing to get some help, then there really isn't anything you can do about it, except lock yourself in your room or move out. I also suggest that you and your family go to counseling, it might help!
~gOoD lUcK!~
*Emmy Boo*

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Teza answered Sunday January 30 2005, 7:28 pm:
I know what you're going through. When you're caught in one of those situations, talk to your best friend about it. It always helps. When there is fighting going on, go to a friends house. I don't think you would want to listen to any of it. Just talk to your mom because I'm sure she also feels awful.

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icey0990 answered Sunday January 30 2005, 7:09 pm:
Why do you want to leave yourself exposed in this kind of enviroment? WHY? Its not going to get better hun. Do you have a relative or close friend you can live with? wHy dont you just call a hotline just to talk to them. Tell them your problem and see what they have to say. This is not an enviroment that any child should have to live in. Get yourself out of there! Dont you want to? Either that or at least some professional counseling. Maybe family therapy. Or at least therapy for your mom. If you decide not to do any of that..your stuck at square one with no options except to live in the mess your in until your 18...that doesnt sound like a great idea. I would get out o there.

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JamesBaybiGurl answered Sunday January 30 2005, 6:52 pm:
Well Sweetie you need to get yourself out of that predicament. Consider living with an Aunt,Uncle, Older Siblings or something. But if the cops found out she beat you then she can go to jail. Thats child abuse hunny. And you should really consider gettin some help!!

-stephanie-

IM me and we can talk ~STTEEPPHHAANNIIE~

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AsweetGoodBy answered Sunday January 30 2005, 6:49 pm:
no dont call CPS because personally i think youd rather wanna live where you are then in a foster home til your 18 or whenever... its probably better just to go with and aunt or something. but you dont rly wanna live in a home do you?

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RainWindFireIce answered Sunday January 30 2005, 6:42 pm:
Wow. I actually do think you should call a child helpline or social services or something. Your parents shouldn't be physically fighting but that's a different story. If these kind of fights happen between your mother and you a lot, then I suggest trying to get some help outside of your immediate family or maybe staying with a relative. At least until things get worked out at home.

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tawnyj2j answered Sunday January 30 2005, 6:35 pm:
haha!!

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Wowitzbrit answered Sunday January 30 2005, 6:34 pm:
Ahh I'm sorry. How old are you? It sucks when you have no where to go besides where your at now. Is there anyway you could go live with your grandparents? I really don't know what to tell you. When my parents hit me I just hold really long grudges and they apologize, but that might not be for you. Talk to your friends or something maybe they can hellp you. Good luck.

<3 -Brit

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sk8ermonkey75 answered Sunday January 30 2005, 6:34 pm:
Thats not good, maybe you should call the help line though. or try talking to your mom about it. not like you probly dont know this, but your dad could go to jail if he 'beats up' your mom, and she to could at least she get fined.your parents are abusing you. you should do something about before you get hurt. sorry if i didnt help,
~roxy~

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