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I loathe myself.
I loathe myself, every tiny detail about myself. I hate my appearance...My
hair, my face, my teeth, my hands, my eyebrows, chest, stomach, back, arms, etc...I
hate every characteristic of my personality, every last one. I think of my self
as stupid, incompetent and worthless. Everything that goes wrong is my fault. I
suck at every thing I do. Seeking professional help is not an option for me, and
neither is getting help from a trusted adult. Even if either were an option, I’m
much, much, much to timid to ask for help...I don't think I even deserve to have
people waste there time on me to help me anyway.
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Go look in your mirror and list one thing you hate about yourself, say it out loud why you hate it, say it aloud to yourself. Then, think of if you had a best friend that looked like you, and look at yourself, and try to pretend going up to your identical best friend and complimenting them. "I love your hair, the best thing about it is its color, its length, and how beautiful it is dry." "I love your teeth, its like no matter when you don't brush them, they always are white, and they may be a little crooked and out of shape, but they would still look great with braces." Then, about your personality, if you had a best friend just like you, would you appreciate the way she treats you? Would she be there for you? Is she rude, is she judgemntal? You just need to get to the bottom of why you dislike yourself so much. Every morning, try complimenting yourself, even when you just wake up. Heck even if you don't mean it, just say "you look sexy." And when you walk away and think "yeah right" just say, "Oh thank you mind! I just love those thoughts, but I am sexy, and you can't do anything about it" just try it. (The key to being comfortable through life, and not being afraid, and not being ashamed of things is if you are full of confidence in yourself.)
-TheTeenGirl
-TheTeenGirl
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Degradeing yourself is not going to get you anywhere. You need help obviosly and you have to talk to someone. No one should feel that way about themselves. You really need help, Talk to someone. There are people who have it worse then you, just always think of that. Keep Your Chin Up!
-Kaitlyn*itsallkaitlyn
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so why did u post this if u didnt want help?
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Awww don't think that way!You really should go see a counselor, just so you can talk and she can help you focus on your positives more.You are a great girl who deserves the same as everyone else,no ones perfect,but if you search you'll find positive things to love about yourself.
x0x0ashley
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you shouldnt hate yourself, a lot of people feel down on themselves, i feel the same way you feel about yourself sometimes, but then i think about my friends and what they would say to me, and all the nice things people say. try to think of the good things, not the bad things.
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With that attitude, theres not much anyone can do for you anyway. First, figure out if you're just doing this for attention, or if you really do have a problem. If you really do have a problem, I would say either get help, or if you are "much too timid to ask for help," then I would say just suck it up and move on with your life. Sorry if that was a bit harsh..
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I know that deep down you want help. Your just way too afraid to ask. What you need is to let all your emotions out because if you keep all of this in you won't have good mental health. Maybe you can tell one of your close friends all of your troubles and maybe she/he can help you talk to an adult. It's always good to have a friend by your side. Don't ever think that those out there who are meant to help you are wasting their time on you. That's what they'e there for. Please talk to someone because if you don't sooner or later you will regret it. Things aren't as bad as they seem!!!
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If you really don't want any damn help, then why on Earth did you come to Advicenators? I think that when people say things like this about themselves that they just want some attention, not to be mean, but from my own experience I believe it's true. And looks aren't everything, don't be soo materialistic...and I bet you do have an awesome personality, you just need to learn how to share it! Live life to the fullest!
*Cheer up my friend, it isn't as bad as it may seem!* :)
-Emmy Boo-
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You might not think that you deserve people's help, but you want it, because you are asking. Change yourself to fit your standards. Stand in front of a mirror and look at the things you say you hate. Don't like your hair? Change the color, style texture, look, go to a salon or something. Make it something you like. Do new things if you think that you suck at everything that you do now, (which I'm sure you don't) Find something simple, a sport or music that you can dedicate your time to.
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Change yourself to something you like. Why do you hate yourself? Why waste your time hating yourself, when you can use that time to improve yourself. Complaining wont make you happy. Stop whining and do something about it. Fix what is wrong. Dont say you cant because its hard. Thats bullshit. Step up and take charge. No one is going to fix your problems except you.
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I am sure there is one thing about you that you like. You can't hate everything. Try sitting down with a piece of paper and think of things people have told you that they like about you. And you are worth something. By the way, you are making great progress by at least asking on here. As you can see, people do care about your story.
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don't worry you sound just like me too independant and a pessimest i think you need to gain some self- essteem i know tht sounds horrible but even if YOU can't think of anything good about yourself i bet others do....if you hate everything so much and you just don't think you matter anymore you can talk to me and trust me no one is a waste of time....not you not anyone....i may not be professional help but you getting your feelings out will be a start of the new you a better more confident person....
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Why do you hate everything about yourself? God put you on earth for a reason just like everyone else. Don't always think that everything is your fault because it's not and just try to go out with ur friends like the mall or something .. if you don't want to talk to anybody then maybe you culd start a journal or a diary and write your feelings down.
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Aw, thats not true! Everyone is beautiful in their own way ..and everyone has a purpose! You cant get down on yourself like that! Try doing something to keep your mind occupied..maybe you'll feel good about yourself if you join a sport,club,gym, etc. I think thats the next best thing if your not willing to reach out for help from a professional or doctor.Take a short trip to someone to get away! Learn to like what God gave you..nobody is perfect!
=melissa
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There has to be something you like about yourself... don't be to obsessed with looking good. Have some fun and go out with friends... try and enjoy yourself like get a manicure so than atleast your nails will look pretty.
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