about

Hey!My name is ashley.I'm 17 and I live in Michigan!My friends always come to me for adive and i LOVE giving it.Feel free to ask me anything, i'm open minded on most issues, so I won't judge you!If you ever need more help, dont hesitate to im me!Also,rate my advice so i know how im doing and how i could improve.and if u want add me on myspace myspace.com/x0xfuturemrsgottix0x.thanks!







[A]ge~16
[B]est Friends= Kayla,vera,toni,angie,amy,crystal
[C]olors~ Pink
[D]ream boy~ JOHN GOTTI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!mMmMmMm
[E]yes~ Green
[F]avorite food~ My grandma's italian cooking
[G]reatest thing~ Friends and Family
[H]obbies~ Hangin out with friends, shoppin,parties, and having fun!
[I]'m alwayz~ Smiling and having a good time
[J]ob~ Hopefully NEVER!
[K]razii~ Sometimes =)
[L]ocation~ Harrison Township,Michigan
[M]ovie~ Scarface,a bronx tale,heat
[N]ame~ Ashley
[O]bession~ Music, boys, and clothes
[P]arty?~ Love to!
[Q]uote~ "Chi troppo vuole nulla stringe"-One that wants too much holds on to nothing.
[R]ace~ Italian and Swedish
[S]creen Name~ sp0iled shedevil
[T]alent~ I just have so many ;)
[U] suck?
[V]ery best thing about me~ im fun!
[W]orst thing about me~ I can get a lil wild
[X]treme sports~ Love em!
[Y]awns?
[Z]odiac~ Cancer
















advice

how do you know if you're a true christian? i mean, i believe in God and that Jesus died for our sins and i go to church and pray every night, but i also lie frequently and stuff, and sometimes i feel like, intimidated by God?idk,its weird. but sometimes i get scared about like, revalation and stuff and i feel like theres a chance i wont go to heaven, even though i deffinetly believe in God and im not sure if i'm really a christian. can someone help ?
thanks

I believe that if in your heart you love God and believe in him, then you are a true Christain. I dont care that some people say u have to go to church and do everything "right" to really be Christain. God loves everyone, so if you believe in him and in your heart truly love him then thats all that matters

♥ash

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A few weeks ago I touched a boy's penis for the first time. I rubbed it and pulled it out and down like I though I should. I must have been holding it too tightly because my bf stopped me and said he would show me what to do. I started to feel weird when I watched him wacking himself off in front of me. He knew I liked watching him and sometimes he does it for me knowing how hott I think it is. Seeing him squirt for me is awesome.

Is this weird for me to feel this way?

I don't think it's weird alot of girls get turned on watching a guy pleasure himself. It's just watching him give himself so much pleasure and seeing his facial expressions and everything. If you like doing stuff with him and you want to give him a suprise give him oral sex only if u feel comfortable though.

♥ash

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Do hickies hurt when people give them to you? I'm so confused about it...

No they dont hurt at all.they just look gross lol.

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hey wats up? i saw your xanga site i want to ask can i add you and whats your favorite music? if you want my advice colum its http://advicenators.com/column.php?u=Ecuagrlhelpsu and my xanga is www.xanga.com/Andrea893 is it ok if i add you 4 your advice cloum and xanga?? if you ever want to chat my screen name is Ecuagrl93 thanks

why even ask of course u can add me girl!my favorite music is rap and i like 80's (ahah im such a dork) but thats fine with me.lol

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hey!!!well what i wanna ask is well i met this really cute guy over spring break!! but hes like 3 years older than me(16). well he also lives in New York and i live in Kansas!!!! hes really sweet and think im in love.....but i dont know if i should have a long distance relationship.so do you think its a good idea to have a long distance relationship? well if you want you can go to my xanga its xanga.com/candyshop_2010!! and my yahoo is frankie_gotti_15!! luv ya!

i dont think theres anything wrong with long distance relationships,as long as you're the type of person that can handle not being near the person you're dating, because you probably won't be able to see him much and you'll only talk on the phone, but if you really want to be with him then do it!
hey ill subscribe to ur xanga if u subscribe to mine mine is xanga.com/x0_mrs_gotti_0x

♥ashley♥

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i have the worst time getting up in the morning. I fall asleep around ten and TRY to wake up at 6:30. my alarm will go off, ill wake up, but then i go back to sleep till 7:15 and miss the bus. Can anybody help me wake up better in the morning?

Set one alarm for 6:30 and place it next to your bed.Then set another alarm for 6:45 and set it on the other side of your room, that way even if u fall back asleep after turning off the first alarm, having to get up to turn off the other one will make u usually decide to just get up entirely.always works for me:-)

♥ashley♥

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i have asthma and i wanna start smoking cigarettes *kinda depressed* but yah.. i don't wanna die from it lol.. but you'd think i'd be getting used to it bc my sister smokes everyday on the way to and from school.. soo ya.. would it be that big of a harm to me? if ur gonna lecture on how bad smoking is.. then dont answer

Well i gotta be honest, smoking is a baaad idea if you have asthma.if u have asthma you already have breathing problems, smoking will make it worse.


♥ashley♥

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how do you make the little hearts by some peoples names... i have copied and pasted but only a question mark comes up.

i know how to make it with © in the font symbol but i don't think you can use html in your posts to change the font.

thank you for your help!

you type ♥ next to whatever word you want to put hearts by it.


♥ashley♥

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when i go in a tanning bed, how can i prevent sun burn?

Make sure you use lotion everytime, but not sun screen.Theres no 100% way to prevent sunburn, because going into a tanning bed will sometimes cause your skin to burn in order to get tan, so ur best best is to just use lotion and remember to always use eye protection.


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I was babysitting at a place over an hour away (I was spending the night there too), and I was charging my cell before I left, and I guess I forgot it was on and charging, so I had left it at home when I left (accidentaly) and it was charging until about noon the next day... maybe later, so if I estimated it would have been from 4p.m to maybe 12:30p.m, not quite 24 hours, but about 3 and a half hours less.

2 questions...
Is it bad to leave you cell on when you're charging (my cell will still charge)
And is it bad to keep it charging for so long (even if it was on accident) Thanks!

1.)There's nothing wrong with leaving your cell on while charging, it doesn't affect how fast it will charge.

2.)Charging for too long wont hurt it, with my phone it automatically stops charging once its charged completely.

♥ashley♥

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omg is it normal to have yellow discharge? i'm kinda freaked out because its kinda like.. sticky or it cums out in peices.. i'm not sexually active and it feels normal down there.. whats wrong with me??? I NEED TO NO PLEASE HELP ME

Yea thats totally normal.Discharge comes in lots of different colors.If its like a cottage cheese texture tho, then you need to go to the doctor.


♥ashley♥

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I'm in a family low on money (my mom and dad have low income jobs) well I was supposed to sign up for spring league basketball($40) or cheerleading($65) and couldn't because we have no money. Now everyone thinks I'm poor and is making fun of me even my BFF. What should I do?

Tell them to shut up!they have absolutely no right to make fun of you for that, it's not your fault!not everyone can buy whatever they want, and it doesn't make you weird or different if you can't.Just ignore them they have nothing better to do.


♥ashley♥

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im having trouble with these stupid pop-ups on the computer...where can i get a pop-up blocker for free?

http://www.snapfiles.com/Freeware/misctools/fwpopblock.html

http://www.freeware-guide.com/dir/internet/popupstop.html

http://www.popupcheck.com/pop_up_blocker.asp

http://www.tucows.com/adkiller95_default.html

hope i helped!


♥ashley♥

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I just want to know what are some things you can say to a girl to charm her and make her like you. Such what are some things i could say to the girl i like to just slowly make her like me. Are there anythings that girls like to hear that charms them. Thanks any help is pretty much appreciated

When you see her compliment her about something.If you like the top she's wearing say "that top looks really good on you" or tell her she looks pretty today.But don't go overboard because it might make you look kinda stalkerish.Just take it slow and give nice sweet compliments and remember a girl doesn't want to hear that she's hot, she wants to hear that she's beautiful:-)


♥ashley&hearts

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If god knows that we are gonna do something bad, like look up porn, why doesnt he try and stop us. I dont really understand it but, i am a porn addict and its getting harder and harder for me to stop. why would god let me do it if he knows its wrong?

God has no control over man-made stuff like that.It's like how people blame God for tobacco and marijuana since he created it,but he didn't create it for people to roll it up in paper and light it and smoke it.God expects you to have willpower and if you know something is wrong to stop doing it.


♥ashley♥

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THIS IS PRETTY LONG AND BORING....
Im 20m and never had a girlfriend!!!I never even hold or kiss a girl before.... It's not that im ugly or gay, although im not the cute or handsome type either. When i was in high school there were a few girls that come up to me but they weren't my type so i refused them all. But the girl that was my type, i never had the courage to ask them out (im very shy around the girl i like). Now that i drop out of college and work fulltime, i dont have the chance of meeting new people. HOW AM I GOING TO GET A GF? I dont hang out that much and i had never step foot in a club before. Here's the weird thing, the older i get the pickier i am about girlfriend. I thought that not having a gf is suppose to make me desperate, but im not, although i do want a gf pretty bad. What make it worse is that i dont like party girls or girls that would go out with someone that just met and thought he is kinda cute, of course there is nothing wrong with that, im just being picky. I would like to get to know the girl a lil bit before i go out with her, but HOW AM I GOING TO DO THAT????

Awww well theres nothing wrong with being picky about who you want to date.If people dating whoever showed interest, they would never be happy.Just be patient, and soon the right girl will come along.You can try going to places where you think the girl you would connect with most will be.If your more the quiet and sensitive type go to borders or starbucks and talk to some of the girls you see there.Or go to the movies,or somewhere like blockbuster if you're like me and love movies.You just have to wait and don't rush it.:-)


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I want to buy a pair of vans from a website and I'm wondering..do they run small..big or just regular size?

The vans i have run small.I had to buy them in a size 10 and i normally wear a size 9-9 1/2 so its not that big of a difference but just be aware you might have to buy a half size larger.


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14/female
A lot of people at school thinks my life is perfect. it is far from it. i wont get into too much detail and make this too long but i have a few good friends that i love but there are so many morons that get mad because i get good grades or whatever. i just wanted to know does this go away in high school? or will people still asume my life is great because i get good grades?

thank you

There will always be people who are jealous of you, and because they feel insecure they'll want to bring you down.dont let em!keep your head up and know that you ARE better than them because you make an effort and get good grades because you want a good future.They would be able to get good grades too if they applied themseleves, but most teenagers nowadays are too interested in drinking and skipping school.Be proud, it's not your fault that they do bad and school and will have to say "would u like fries with that" for the rest of their lives!:-)


♥ashley♥

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I really want to buy a vibrator... but I don't know where to go. I am 16 years old, and do not want one shipped to me, I want to go to a store. I was wondering, do I have to go to a sex store or are there any other stores that sell them?

~Kristin

I don't think there are any places that will sell one to someone under 18.U might just have to find someone 18 to go buy you one from spencers.


♥ashley♥

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i've been using this 3step acne thing called proactiv. i'm sure most of you know what it is, theres alot of infomercials on tv about it. anyway, i've been using it for about 2 weeks now and it dries up my face alot and it makes my face sting or feel numb and makes it extremely red. does anybody know how i can get rid of this? because i dunlike my newfound redness on the face. please help! thanks in advance

You're probably allergic to it, because i know alot of people who use it and that never happened to them.It didn't negatively affect their skin and the acne started to clear up after the first use.Go to your dermatologist and he'll tell you what you should use because it just seems you have really sensitive skin.


♥ashley♥

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