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my life isn't perfect!
14/female
A lot of people at school thinks my life is perfect. it is far from it. i wont get into too much detail and make this too long but i have a few good friends that i love but there are so many morons that get mad because i get good grades or whatever. i just wanted to know does this go away in high school? or will people still asume my life is great because i get good grades?
thank you
<3 Rememberxforever
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Wow, your me. People see me the same way. But thats thier fault. They don't take the time to get to know you just see good grades, decent friends, and think PERFECT!
It didn't go away completely for me in high school. You have to get to know someone a lot before they relize that you're not the person they thought. The best thing to do is find a few REALLY good friends. Then get to know people, by the end of high school, I wasn't miss perfect anymore. I was just one of the class
hope i helped!
~some girl
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people start to respect you when you get good grades in highschool, they may still think that your life is perfect, but why do you care what they think of your life? does that affect you even alittle? not really. just keep up good work in class and im sure in the end youll be happy
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It will most likely get better.
There will always be morons around though so just learn to ignore them.Hopefully they will have something better to do.
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There will always be people who are jealous of you, and because they feel insecure they'll want to bring you down.dont let em!keep your head up and know that you ARE better than them because you make an effort and get good grades because you want a good future.They would be able to get good grades too if they applied themseleves, but most teenagers nowadays are too interested in drinking and skipping school.Be proud, it's not your fault that they do bad and school and will have to say "would u like fries with that" for the rest of their lives!:-)
♥ashley♥
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No bodys life is perfect im sure that it will go away just because you do well in school people think that your life is great it might not be to you but to them it is, it should go away and people will just get bored of tell you that and just leave it from now on.
Luv roxie
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As you get older, you do realize that no one's life is perfect ... but people always only see what they can percieve, and will continue to be jealous of outside achievements (grades, a nice car, a promotion at work), and to tell you the truth it doesn't matter how old you are. You just have to know who you are, be happy with yourself and disregard other's jealousies ... if they truly are worth your time, they'll come around in due time, trust me ... my advice .. follow your dreams, pursue the happiness you deserve and love life! If your still frustrated, feel free to e-mail me at aly_boschee@yahoo.com ... hope all goes well and this helped a bit ...
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people will always be jealous.. that's probably why they are mad. I feel that way sometimes.. I mean, I will have this crap grade and they'll be making a 100.. it sorta makes me feel bad about myself, maybe you should consider how that feels. You're probably jealous of a few people, and without realizing it you are probably mad at them for it. Be understanding, it's hard but you gotta understand life. It's too short to get caught up with what other people think of you.
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same here...people seem to be my friend or acquaintence becaue i'll do something academically for them. for ex., in history, we were peer editing other people's papers and i had my group get mad at me (in a joking way kinda) because it took me 1/2 an hour just to get through one paper, but I did a really good job. as for your ?, you should refer people to get help from friends and teachers. for ex, anytime someone asks me a math ?, i tell them to ask my bff allie. i lso have only a few good friends that i can trust. i hope that it does go away in high school, but that may not be the case..good luck!!
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hey, there are always going to be morons, unfortunately. but yeah, in high school, people change a lot, believe me. and people tend to judge you or assume less about your lfie based on your grades. for friendships and stuff like that, they dont really matter. in high schooll, you will come across far much worse situations than people making fun of you for your grades. dont worry, i went through all that crap and was teased and called a teachers pet, but all that crap doesnt seem to exist, or atleast not as much in high school. people care about other stuff that mean more to them, not that grades dont mean a lot, its just a different significance. people mature a lot from middle school to high school, even during that 2 month period called summer vacation, people change a whole lot. hope this helped, good luck in high school. much love
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It might go away and it might not. You know it isn't the worst thing to have people think you are perfect unless they punish you for being prefect. But like they are probaly jealous of how perfect of you that is why they get mad so just ignore them and hopefully they'll stop bugging you.
Hope I helped>3~Chrissie
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Hey, I'm not really sure becuase well, I'm not in High School yet, Nor do I get good grades. Maybe they think that your life is perfect because you don't have to work as hard to get good grades, and they might have to do an extra hour of studying because everything doesn't come as easy to them as it might do for you. Well in High School, it sometimes depends on if you are going to a Catholic/Private School, or a Public School. I'm saying that there will be a lot more smart people in High School, just like you.
Hope I helped!!
*Marielle*
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Hi! I can tell just from your question that you are a very intelligent girl. You have already shown that you value your friends and you are not afraid to make good grades regardless of what other people think. Just so you know, this doesn't go away in high school and even when you're out of high school or in college. However, your feelings towards what other people think will. Think about it this way, you are investing in your future. You won't be in this position forever. What you will have, is the education, the pride that you will have and keep from getting good grades. And as you get older, you will realize that if you do your best in whatever you do, you will have many more options in life than the people who got mad at you or made you feel bad about getting good grades. You are doing great! Keep up the good work! And I promise you, the people who made you feel bad now....later, they will wish they had the same options that you will have.
Lindacht
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They will still assume your life is great because you get good grades.
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Sorry to break it to you but high school isn't much better.
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It's all out of jealousy! I don't think it goes away in high school though. One of my best friends moms is a phycyatrist (sp) and she says that jealousy doesn't go away until maybe your second year of college!! Well I hope you don't let it get to you darling!
♥ Always,
Maria
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I don't know the answer to your question, but I will say that it is not a bad thing to be considered the good girl. Letting people know about your life is only asking for pitty, and you shouldn't let things like this get to you, I loved being called the goody two-shoes, and there are lots of girls out there called worse, like the school slut, and you definetly don't want to be carrying that kind of reputation. But, yes, I'm sure after school or in college, people will stop trying to label people, and start acting their age.
-TheTeenGirl
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In high school, you can finally be your true self. There isn't necessarily more or less drama, there is most definately drama. Because there are so many different types of people, in their own little groups, and One group just never seems to like any of the other groups...So they spread rumors bout each other. Friends always talk about other friends, if they talk to you about other people, then they talk to other people about you. It won't end in high school, but they won't think your life is perfect. In high school, we realize everyone is unique, and weird, cause let's face it, we're all a lil weird...but they know the other isn't perfect. So no worries, enjoy Jr. High while you can, and when ya get to high school, have fun bein you! Much Love!!
XoXo
Jessie
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Rememberxforever -
These people are just jealous that they aren't capable of getting good grades. Cuz when they see you breezing your way through school getting A's like it's effortless, they tend to get angry cuz they feel they're trying just as hard but aren't getting the grades.
Usually this is only temporary in high school. As hard as it may sound just shrug it off. If it bothers you that much, just tell them that yea I get good grades, but I work hard for them. There's no such thing as perfect so who are you to say how my life is?
I went through almost the same thing but the other people didn't really taunt me for it. Get to know these people and show them that there's an actual person behind those book smarts. :) I got along with everyone (even though I wasn't popular) and usually they stopped after they got to know me a little better.
Good luck girl and keep up with the academics!
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Oh god, I know how you feel. I'm the best in my science class and some people hate me for it.... just ignore them, and over time they'll just STFU. Believe me, nothing to worry, especially if they're morons ^^
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The only reason people say that is because theyre so jealous of you they cant stand it. People used to think that about me..but then i made sure that i got to kno those people and now they dont say those things anymore. Theres really nothing you can do but maybe get to know them better. Id try that..and if they still do it..then ignore them.
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