how can u tell that a guy likes you but dosnt wanna show it because hes ambaressed or something?
Guys never come straight out and say it unless they get a sudden boost of confidence...But usually they'll pick on you, or find some little way to touch you, or they'll try to make you laugh...little things like that. It's pretty funny/cute when they do.
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Jessie
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I need a pet! should i get a dog or cat? i dont want it to smell bad! so what smell better
You should most definitely get a cat, I'd know I have 5 cats and a dog. Cats are cleaner, mainly because they clean themselves. You have to give the dogs their baths...Dogs are hard to house train, Cats know to use the litter box quickly...Plus cats will love to curl up in bed with you, and they're so adorable! I love dogs, but I'm just a huge cat person! Much Love!!
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Jessie
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people told me about squats and lunges for toning legs.. what are those? please explain..
plus.. spring break is a week and a half. i want to get up every morning, weight lift a little, stretch, and go walking. approx. how long should i fast walk, to tone my legs, how far, and how fast will it work?
i need to look better in a swimsuit in other words, please respond fast, ill rate high!!
Walk until it burns...speed walkin is the best too, it burns calories. Also, do alot of crunches, gives ya a sexy stomach. Squats (without weights) is spread ur feet bout shoulder length apart, put ur arms straight out in front of you and bend down till your legs are at a 90 degree angle...lunges put on foot out in front of the other, and bend down until your knee of the back leg is touching the ankle of your foot in front of the other...switch, do it again..switch again, and so on and so on. Good luck, don't beat yourself up. Much Love!!
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Jessie
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help! i dont know what kind of clothes im supposed to wear cuz i have a kinda awkward shaped body, im curvy with a really short torso, somewhat busty, and long to medium length legs. What should I wear to compliment my body, because most of clothes fit awkardly. Also what dress style would be best for my body, i have a graduation dance coming up and i dont know what would look best on me.
Busty...well if you have heavy hips, then you should wear shoulder pads, A-line skirts, dark bottoms, loose tops, and A-line dresses. But avoid straight skirts and attention-getting pocket details, jackets that cut across the hipline. Large bust, wear minimizer bra, vertical necklines, and open collars. Avoid very high or very low necklines, tight fitting tops, light or bright colors on top, fabrics that are too shiny or clinging, wide belts, double breasted jackets. Thick midriff, wear center the interest at the neckline or the hemline, which ever is your best feature, boxy jackets, and loose tops. Avoid tight fitting tops, wide belts or contrasting color at the waistline. Tummy, wear light weight controlled pany or pantyhose, boxy hip length jackets, and A-line skirts/dresses. Avoid clinging fabrics, loose pleats, and full or straight skirts. Big rear, wear flowing lines, hip length straight cut jackets, box pleated skirts, gathered waistlines, Avoid tight bottoms, clinging fabrics, and bright colors. Large thighs, wear full or A-line skirts, and loose fitting bottoms. Avoid tight skirts and pants, bottoms with pleats, and clinging fabrics. Do you have a short or long neck? If you have short neck, wear stand-away collars, V or U necklines, and No-collar styles, but avoid necklines shouldn't be any higher than a crewneck. If you have a long neck, wear cowlnecks, turtlenecks, mandarin collars, and scarves. Avoid collarless styles, and deep V necks. For Short and plump ppl, styles should be controlled diagonal lines, and slenderizing verticals. Fabrics should be soft with a matte non-glare finish, and solids. Colors should be one color (no prints, solid color), medium and dark tones. Avoid coarse and heavy fabrics, ankle straps, and pants with cuffs. Wow that's alot to type! Sorry....But Hope I helped, the best of luck! Have fun at your Graduation Dance!! Much Love!!
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Jessie
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Hey I realized my friend sorta WANTS to have sex and she is only 13, shes not going to have it, its just she wants to. I was on her computer and saw alot of porn websites, is this normal for a 13 year old??
I rate high!
Yeah, unfortunately, it is normal. Being 13, as weird as this sounds, she's going through alot of changes, I mean we all know bout puberty changes. Hormones are actin up, and she's gonna get really curious, about her body, a guys body...It's only natural to be that curious at her age. If she wants to, and says she's not, just keep an eye on here. Cuz a chance could come up, and she might not turn it down due to temptation. If she turns and around, and decides she's gonna do it, there won't be much you can do to stop her, just remind her to be safe about it. Good Luck! Much Love!!
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Jessie
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Well, My 5 year olf brother and I walked into the room my 16 year old sister and I share, and we saw her and her boyfriend having sex...
They didnt even know we were there for like two minutes... I was frozen, my feet rooted to the floor, but then finally my brother pulled me away... the problem is... My brother asked me, just as we walked out, "what were they doing there?"
I seriously dont know how to answer him... I mumbled something, but all week he's been persisting, and I need to give him an answer before he asks my parents and gets my sister into trouble... Please help!!!
Tell him they were wrestling, or, depending on their position, were playing leap frog. Since he's 5, and he asked you, he'll definately believe w/e you tell him. And a word of advice, don't follow your sister's example. Good Luck! Much Love!!
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Jessie
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how old do you need to be to be a babysitter?
Well here in Florida, it's illegal to leave a child home alone unless they are 14 or above...So let's say 14...13 seems kinda young to be babysittin anywayz...Have fun! Avoid babies (they come with dirty diapers) Much Love!!
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Jessie
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20, male.
Okay, the girl I'm going out with and I are sitting watching TV. We've only been dating for a few days, but I've been her friend since before elementary school. She mentions a mutual friend was talking about a movie that we passed. So I, the idiot that I am, accidently call her by the friend's name. She pulled away from me for a few seconds, and then went into my arms again.
I explained that it was only because she mentioned her name seconds before, but is that enough? Should I try to explain in detail that I have no feelings for this other girl or should I drop it?
No, you did fine! Just never bring it up again, forget about it, and hopefully she will too. And the fact that she came back into your arms shows she forgives you! Just hope it never happens again...and if she mentions a friend, and you go to say somethin to her, avoid saying her name. Call her by a nickname or somethin...Much Love!!
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Jessie
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I've liked this guy for like, seriously, a REALLY long time, I mean we've been friends for longer than I can remember. A couple years ago my cousin was visiting from another state and I was takin her to hang out w. me and a few of my friends (including the guy i like). Now let me get this straight, I told her how much I liked him and how much he meant to me. Well, they meet each other and they decide that hey they like each other, so they start to go out (yea long distance n everything) and i'm like seriously, devastated, you don't understand how much i care for this guy. They broke up after awhile but i have never really been the same w. my cousin since. about a year after that happened, my guy started liking me, and he told me and so we dated for a few weeks and did some stuff n my cousin got soo pissed at me, and i think that i have a right to do what i please, considering she did like, almost hte exact same to me! even though i wasn't doing it to piss her off, i did it cause i really really like this boy. Well, me and my boy still talk alot, and he says that in a few years (i'm 14, he's 15) he thinks that we should get together again, but he doesnt want to right now, and i understand that. My cousins coming into town this weekend. I have plans to see a movie w. my guy and a bunch of my other firends and my mom told me i have to take my cousin, n i'm soo afraid that she and him will start likin each other again. what do i do.!??!
You had every right to do what you did. Explain the situation to your mom, say you don't feel comfortable takin your cousin along. It might be a lil wierd telling your mom that you don't want your cousin to go cuz it might jeopardize the friendship/relationship with this guy, but believe me, it'll be worth it if this is truly what you say it is! Just talk to her, and leave her cousin at home to bake cookies with your mom! :) And go have a great time! Hope everything works out for the best! Have Fun!! Much Love!!!
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Jessie
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I dont have enough friends in school. how do I make more?
What's enough? Just be yourself...Go hang out at the mall or somethin, or where ever alot of kids from your school hang out...maybe you'll see someone you recognize, somebody who could be a really great friend, and you just don't know it yet. Don't hold anything back! Even if you feel like jumpin up on a counter and singin baby got back...be yourself, and above all, have fun! Much Love!!
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Jessie
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ok umm my friend is not eating. she says she eats infront of a big group of ppl but then when she is only around a few ppl she says she does not eat. she drinks energy drinks like crazy and i tell her to stop drinking sooo many b/c you can die if you drink too many, and she is not even doing a energy when she drinks them.and i have told her to start eating and stuff but she won't she wants to loose wait, and i said to just workout and not to starve yourself and yeah. i am really worried about her. she is always tired b/c she is not eating and she is not getting her calciam or however you spell that and it makes her tired so she drinks a Red Bull.i don't know how to help her. should i tell a parent if i tell her to stop and she doesn't?? please help me
concerned best friend
Mk, it's obvious your friend is pretty set on her decision. Talk to a guidance counselor, or one of her parents, or yours and they can talk to her parents, either way tell somebody. I was the same way a while back I refused to eat and I exercised alot. I had gained like 2 pounds, and I saw them..nobody else did, but I did, and it freaked me out. If she doesn't stop, she can really hurt herself. Just be sure to talk to some type of authority figure...She's lucky to have a friend that cares as much as you do! I hope she realizes that...Much Love!!
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Jessie
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my hair is real thick.. and if i let it air dry it becomes frizzy and wavy. when i blow dry it, it has to be straightened too to look decent.. does anyone know any ways for my hair to stay straighter and smoother?
There are a ton of gels that you can buy, and what you do is after washing your hair, brush it out, smooth your hair straight with the gel on your hands, then dry it...it takes care of friz, and straightens it...I have the same problem all the time, I hate it! Also, when drying you can just brush your hair straight down while drying, that helps too. Hope this helps!! Much Love!!
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Jessie
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Hey!
What are your favorite names for guys and girls??
Middle names are always appreciated too!!
:)
Thanks!
*(no worries, Im NOT having a kid anytime soon!)*
*-KeLs-*
There are 2 girls names that I absolutely love, 1 is Savannah Rose, and the other is Stella. For a boy, I'm not sure what names I like really...maybe Charlie, I don't know, I always figured if I had to name a boy, it'd be after his daddy...lol But that's just me...Ne wayz, Much Love!!
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Jessie
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Hey I was just wandering what you thought about this one. Sorry it might be kinda long but I really need your advice.
-Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 weeks exactly today. He is like really stupid and kinda weird so I dont know what I want to do. Half of me wants to dump him and the other half doesn't. I know that he really really likes me and that if I break up with him he might even cry. Today on our field trip some of his friends were like joking around and told me that he dumped me (and I knew he didnt). He was like what?!? I would never dump her. And yesterday he bought me this really cute stuffed animal (dolphin) because he knows that I love dolphins.
-Please someone help me I really need it!!
Ignoring his stupidity, how do you feel about him as a person? How is he stupid? Literally stupid, or does he just do weird things to make people laugh..? I know alot of ppl like that, I'm alot like that. Just think about how he feels about you, and how he treats you, and him as a person, and try to think about how you feel about him after considering all of that. The best of luck! Much Love!!
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Jessie
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hi my name is dan im 26 and married me and my
wife are having our first child and i was wondering what sexual postions would be safe
for her and the baby.
Mk, I actually had to do a lil research for this one, but I finally have an answer for you. Really any is safe. Whatever is comfortable for both of you. At some point, the missionary position will become uncomfortable, so you will need to experiment with rear-entry, side-by-side, and sitting positions. The main thing is that you do not do anything that causes your partner discomfort. Take it slowly as she gets bigger, and don't forget sensual massage and oral sex if intercourse causes discomfort. Hope I helped, be safe, and Congratulations!! (For your baby I mean...) The best of luck to both of you!! Much Love!!
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Jessie
P.S. Let me know if it's a boy or girl, if it's a girl maybe you could name it after me....;) hehe j/k! Congratulations again!
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if you have read the previous post, you'd know how pathethic my love life is (20m never had gf). Anyway, where can i meet a nice girl? And how do i get to know her?
(any nice girl out there?)
We're all nice girls!! When you stop lookin for love, that's when it stops hiding. There's a sayin that says somethin bout love bein around every corner, and no you're not walkin in circles...You're just lookin to hard. You're not pathetic, you just want to be in love really, and there's nothin wrong with that! There's a nice girl out there for you, there's a special someone for everybody, and she'll show up when you least expect it. Just loosin up, and be yourself. Good Luck!! Much Love!
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Jessie
P.S. Try Victoria's Secret...lol
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hey there, some of you know that I answered a LOT of questions in this site. My friend doesnt have internet in her house so she asked me to ask for your opinion.
She likes her best guy friend, a lot, she cant stop thinking about him and she always gets upset when hes around other girls. I know he considers her as his sister, HE TOLD ME!
What she wants to do is let him realise she likes him more than a friend but I told her it would screw up everything! things would get awkward and stuff. So what she's asking is, should she tell him? Personally I dont think she should.
And she also asked why he hangs out and fools around with other girls instead of her?
I told her because you dont have the same interests and he thinks youre too calm (he told me). So do you agree with me or do you have another opinion?
I have another opinion, she should tell him. For all the two of you know, he does feel the same way bout her, and just didn't feel comfortable telling you cuz he was afraid she'd find out, and he has no idea how she feels. Let her talk to him, bein her best guy friend, he won't do anything to intentionally hurt her, I'm sure he'd understand, and if it is a strong friendship, nothing would get awkward. Hope this helps her out! Wish her the best of luck for me!! Much Love 2 The Both Of Ya!!!
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Jessie
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i have a coughing problem and i have no idea what im going to do because it comes so fast and at random times its ruining my life!! okay so in class il just be sitting and il get this feeling in the back of my throat and sometimes its only on one side, and it will make me gag if i dont cough!! and when i do cough my eyes get all watery, and the itchy/weird feeling in my throat wont go away. il have some water and itl go away but then it will come back. im not sick, and this comes only at random times and i always make a big scene cuz i gotta get up and go to the bathroom cuz its so loud and..bad. i hate the feeling!!!! somebody PLEASE HELP ME! ive tried coughdrops/water/gum and it doesnt help!
You could have hyperventilation syndrome. Some of the associated symptons are dizziness, lightheadedness, shortness of breath, belching, bloating, dry mouth, weakness, confusion, sleep disturbances, numbness and tingling in your arms or around your mouth, muscle spasms in hands and feet, chest pain, and palpitations. Alot of things dealing with your respiratory system...mainly because hyperventilation is rapid or deep breathing, usually caused by anxiety or panic. This over-breathing, as it is sometimes called, actually leaves you feeling breathless. When you breathe, you inhale oxygen and exhale carbon dioxide. Excessive breathing leads to low levels of carbon dioxide in your blood, which causes many of the symptons that you may feel if you hyperventilate. The first time you actually do hyperventilate, go to the Emergency room, cuz it is considered a medical emergency. The doc will just do a very careful physical, and some x-rays of your lungs, and chest. Stuff like that, no need to panic really, it just sounds like you could have it...to me ne wayz. Hope I helped, get well soon! Much Love!!
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Jessie
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ok well you see i have mayjor problems because im in love with this kid who i cant be and well yeah were cool and all and he flirts but hes a ladies man you know and i love him so much and well i dont want to say anything b/c i dont know how he feels but please help me should i follow my heart and let my family and others hate me for a guy that may not even be interested and if he is what happens if we dont stay together i mean im willing to give my virginty help im in over my head please answer asap
Talk to him, no harm can come from that. And if he doesn't feel the same way, then his loss...if he does, then, well then whatever happens, happens I guess. A lil advice, don't be willing to give your virginity. You sound young, and you don't wanna lose it when you're young, there are a ton of consequences. Alot of girls think sex means love, and if you gave it to him, and it didn't work out, you'd be even more hurt. Just really think about it, cuz once you lose it, you can't get it back. Hope I helped, the best of luck! Much Love!!
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Jessie
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Lately, I have this dark brown discharge, and I dont know what is. Is it my period? I was always under the impression that it wouldn't look like that.
No it's not...go to a doctor bout it. A friend of mine had the same problem before she had her first period, and turns out she had an infection. Go to a doc bout it, just to be safe, there will be discharge, but dark brown doesn't seem right. Much Love!!
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Jessie
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