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disowned
ok well you see i have mayjor problems because im in love with this kid who i cant be and well yeah were cool and all and he flirts but hes a ladies man you know and i love him so much and well i dont want to say anything b/c i dont know how he feels but please help me should i follow my heart and let my family and others hate me for a guy that may not even be interested and if he is what happens if we dont stay together i mean im willing to give my virginty help im in over my head please answer asap
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ok now if you think you are inlove with this dude
then you can always just tell him how you feel if
he is an ass about it then forget him k
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sorry dont know how you feel as of right now
but
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Why is it you'll be disowned?
Some guys are just flirts.It doesn't necessarilly mean anything so don't blow it out of proportion.
Do not say anything until you are absolutley sure what he means by it. That means you have to talk to him and find out.If he's that big a ladies man be prepared for him to say he meant nothing by it.
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Dear disowned,
Why do you say that your family would hate you? What is this guy like? It sounds as if you haven't really spoken to him all that much, so I think you're "in love" with your idea of this guy. Is he a little rebellious? Does he smoke maybe? Go after the girls? I think you may be judging your family a little harshly. Probably every single one of them has been in the situation that you're in now. But you are questioning things which means that you are aware that there could be some problems with this guy. Before declaring your love to him, talk with him a little more so you can know him a little better. And don't pin all your expectations on whether he likes you or not. Your job is to find out if HE is good enough for YOU.
As for your virginity, I wouldn't even go there yet. You don't know him. You don't know his character well enough to decide whether he would be a good steward of the trust you would place in him. Test him out first. Don't let him test you out.
Good luck sweetie.
Linda
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Talk to him, no harm can come from that. And if he doesn't feel the same way, then his loss...if he does, then, well then whatever happens, happens I guess. A lil advice, don't be willing to give your virginity. You sound young, and you don't wanna lose it when you're young, there are a ton of consequences. Alot of girls think sex means love, and if you gave it to him, and it didn't work out, you'd be even more hurt. Just really think about it, cuz once you lose it, you can't get it back. Hope I helped, the best of luck! Much Love!!
XoXo
Jessie
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