My best friend dated my ex. It was a tough thing for me to see.They are totally over and you would think everything is fine. Wrong. I still like him. At least I think I still like him. I even have a boyfriend who I love very much. But then I read a note from my ex that was about me that was to my best friend when they were together, and now I feel sad. He liked her a lot. And I feel like a bitch. I need to know what is going on! HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!
SxyLilPoo47 answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 3:06 am: Well you are just not over your ex and you are so not a bitch, your bestfriend is the bitch.And I think your ex still likes you too.But you have to get over your ex if you know that there is no chance of a next time, Because u have a boyfriend that you love.Like I had a similar situation and my ex boyfriend was like leading me on, like making me think he liked me but then he went out w/ my friend and now I am like over him and lovin it! Because I finally woke up and got over it and now I have a boyfriend and everything.SO U GOTTA GET OVER IT EVEN IF YOU DONT WANT TO, YOU GOT TO!!!
-HOPE I HELPED!:) [ SxyLilPoo47's advice column | Ask SxyLilPoo47 A Question ]
jeanine278972 answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 7:43 pm: Well.. if you interefered in their relationship..then you ARE a bitch.. if they broke up on their own.. okay. fine. You were jealous either way.. so get over it! [ jeanine278972's advice column | Ask jeanine278972 A Question ]
SilentTears answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 6:46 pm: i think u might be seeing signals that you still like him.im not completly for sure but it seems like you are having them because if it was tough to see them together.Even though u have a boyfriend and love him very much you still may have feelings for your ex.I've seen this happen with many people and this could be the case happening with you.
karenR answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 6:36 pm: You can like lots of people and you don't have to date them all! If you love current boyfriend that doesn't mean you can't talk to the old one and see whats going on with him.This note just has you confused.I would ask x the meaning behind it and see what he says. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
NEVERLETG00 answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 5:42 pm: yeah i know its hard for you to get over your ex, especially if one of your friends goes out with him. but you have an even greater guy right? dont forget about him, just forget about your ex and just be respectable of your friend because she too has a boyfriend. xox [ NEVERLETG00's advice column | Ask NEVERLETG00 A Question ]
LindasCounsel answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 3:22 pm: Hi! There's a lot going on here. The one thing that is really shouting out in your letter is....guilt. Okay, what did you do? You say you feel like a bitch, however, there's nothing that you wrote that would make you into a bitch. So, I'm reading between the lines here. First, you have a boyfriend whom you love very much. And you still feel like you like your ex. Perfectly normal. He's free again. You have history between you. You read a letter showing how much he cared for your best friend. What, my dear, are you leaving out???
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mrs_radcliffe answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 3:05 pm: What i want you to do is totally forget about him hes worth nothing you have a great boyfriend and the best of friends and you dont need to bring it all up again just get over him and get on with life, and your not a bitch.
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