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cancun or no?
My cousin's family invited me to go on a cruise with them to Cancun and Cozemel. I really want to go but if my cousin and I spend at least 2 hours together, we don't get along. She will get mad at me and I will have no one to hang out with because her dad's side of the family is coming, too (I don't know them because we're not related) But this is a once in a lifetime opportunity...Should I go or no??
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i would deffenately go. your right. it is a once in a lifetime thing. try to make things work between you and your cousin. and who knows, maybe you'll meet some new friends on the cruise from your uncles side of the family!
*Katie
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I would you
you two should try to find something you have in common then build off that. Plus if she annoys you dont be rude back. Maybe hang out with her ASAP and try these:
1) if you feel an argument coming up change the topic or find something to do like jump on the trmapoline er something
2) If shes just not leaving you alone make up an excuse like. i have to take a shower or i have to do my hair. Take the 20 minutes of downtime to calm down.
3) dont remember all the arguments of the past .. pretend your just meeting each other
hope i helped
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yes. cruises are amazing.just go have a good time.just ignore her.maybe you could meet someone new..
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GO ! Try to get along with your cousin. Tell her before the trip that you dont want to get into any fights so lets try to make the best out of this trip. That should help
Have Fun
and remember anytime you can always
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haha cousins are just like that. Try your hardest to get along and dont get frustrated. You should go, sometimes me and my cousins do that, but its normal! You will get into fights but it will work out. Maybe have a talk with her before you go saying that if yall will get mad at each other, you WILL work it out! hope you hav fun! xoxo BLONDE911
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No...You will not have fun!
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I would go. If you don't, you will probably regret it later. Does your cousin agree that you two don't get along? Maybe you two can try to work things out, and think of ways not to get on each other's nerves. Maybe tell her what she does to get on your nerves, and vise versa. Then you could try avoiding doing those things. I think it'd be an awesome trip though!
Hope I helped!
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yes you should go!! and oh tell me how it goes because im going to cozemal in 2 years. about your cousin.. i think vacations make everyone easier on eachother... so just give it a try.. or roll it alone if it doesnt work.
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HELL YES YOU SHOULD GO!! are you fucking with me!!?? beat your cousin till she can't talk any more then you will get along fine and you can enjoy the once in a lifetime thing!!
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Yes go! If you and cousin have a fight so what! Maybe someone on the other side of family would make a cool hang out friend.You'll never know if you don't go.Go and have fun!
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yes definatly!!! go for it! i would just try to be nice and talk to her about it be4 yu go!! xo!! who knows maybe yull meet someone on the cruise ship!! l0l
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hell yes you should go. its cancun, if you dont get along with her, then there is always someone down there to hang out with. you will be able to find someone to hang out with.
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i'd go on the trip just as a good opportunity but dont let your cuzn ruin your day try to get along with her talk to her b4 hand tell her you want to make this a good trip with her and family.. hope i helped!~
kim~
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YES!!! Im sure you can make friends there
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If I was in your shoes, I'd definitely go. This is an opportunity, not only to see other parts of the world, but to get to know other amazing people as well. If you and your cousin are not getting along after two hours, there will be other people on the cruise besides your family. Mingle! Make lifetime friendships! AND it's OKAY to enjoy things by yourself at times.
Have fun!
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i would soo go on the trip! lol. Me and my sister are jsut like that. we cant be together more than a few hours and we start to argue. But i have learned to forgive. Try not to fight on the trip and if you do fight, try to hang out with other people! hope this helped.
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If I were you, I wouldnt pass up a chnace to go to Cancun no matter who invited me. It would be the chance of a lifetime to go, and I know you will regret it if you dont go. You should definately go and try to hang out with other people that you meet down there. Maybe you and your cousin will get along this once because you guys will be on an awesome vaction. I just know you will have a blast! It will be awesome! Start Packin!
♥Emily
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You should go, because if you don't you'll regret it and that's not good. If you and your cousin do start to fight or you think something is going to lead to a fight just apologize right then and there and let your gaurd down. I mean it would be different if it was your side of the family but don't let stupid fights get in your way of having fun. Good luck.
<3 Brit
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u should go .. make friends with some second cousins when your there so that if she does get mad your not all alone ... it sounds fun!! have fun if you go!! .. hope i helped .. Love MauramOo
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I would definitely try and go because as you said, it's a once in a lifetime opportunity. Maybe you should get to know your cousin better. Invite her to lunch or go shopping.
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You should definitely go! But go with an open mind. You've already set yourself up to expect the worst from her and yourself. Instead, expect to have fun not only with her, but with any new people you may meet from her other side of the family. Besides, being someplace different in a new climate with so much to do on the cruise ship and on land often brings out a different side of people. You never know, you two may come home best friends (or you may ditch her if she's being mean and find all new friends to hang out with!) Keep an open mind, and don't miss this opportunity! Take lots of photos!
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You should definately go! I've been to Cozumel,and it's so amazing! Just try your best to get along!
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