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break up?
Hey I was just wandering what you thought about this one. Sorry it might be kinda long but I really need your advice.
-Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 weeks exactly today. He is like really stupid and kinda weird so I dont know what I want to do. Half of me wants to dump him and the other half doesn't. I know that he really really likes me and that if I break up with him he might even cry. Today on our field trip some of his friends were like joking around and told me that he dumped me (and I knew he didnt). He was like what?!? I would never dump her. And yesterday he bought me this really cute stuffed animal (dolphin) because he knows that I love dolphins.
-Please someone help me I really need it!!
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It is a horrible thing when you are going out with someone (pity wise -lol:) ) so you need to break up w/ him. I did the same thing and i regret going out with the guy COMPLETLEY !break it down soft and simple dont be mean but be stern , say that you really like him as a friend but your just not ready for this relationship( that wont be as bad as like uhhh its OVER)
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if you dont like him then dump him tell him the truth and if that hurts your friendship thats the risk you ahve to take
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Hey, your got yourself in a hard situation. I've been in it before ( except i'm a guy that had a grl realy like me ). The best thing to do is to break up with him but tell him he's really sweet and the dolphin was one of the nicest thing anyone's done for you. Just you don't feel you guys are a couple but ask if you can still be freinds. Best wishes.
Sincerely,
snowkid111
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I, personally, think you should dump him. But maybe you could wait just a LITTLE longer to see how things get. You're feelings could change, either for the better or worse. But you shouldn't go out with him if you don't like him.. I think you should tell the truth. You could tell him you still want to be friends, and you care a lot about him still, but feel like you should move on.
-Hope I helped!
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He sounds like he cares a lot about you.The thing is if you don't like him you don't!
It won't necessarily ruin your friendship if you break up but it might.It's just a chance you'll have to take. At first he will be upset and maybe even mad, but once things calm down he may be your friend again.
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Ignoring his stupidity, how do you feel about him as a person? How is he stupid? Literally stupid, or does he just do weird things to make people laugh..? I know alot of ppl like that, I'm alot like that. Just think about how he feels about you, and how he treats you, and him as a person, and try to think about how you feel about him after considering all of that. The best of luck! Much Love!!
XoXo
Jessie
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Well he sounds really sweet! You might want to give him another chance. People can change for someone that they care about. Tell him you don't like the way he acts sometimes. Just be honest. If he doesn't change, then it's not worh keeping. Good luck.
♥ Always,
Maria
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why dont you just try talking to him. it will help and he will understand that hes bothering you. but if you like him you shouldnt care. if its just his personality then your not going to be able to change it. and if you doing this for him so he doesnt cry then you guyys arent right for each other. if you dont care about him (as in love him) then you guyys should not go out. he obviously like you a lot. if he likes you so much why would he not want to be friends with you after you guyys break up? give it some thought
~nat~
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if only half of you likes him i think you should dump him. in the long run i think it will work out one way or another....
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Well I don't think your relationship is very productive if you go thinking he's stupid. Now weird's ok cause a lot of people are weird. And there's so many weird people that they need to redefine normal. Well anyway I don't see why it is you think you want to break up with him. I mean we're all stupid one way or the other. And he seems to really appreciate you. On the other hand, you don't seem to appreciate him very much. Now, I may be wrong but you're saying he really likes you. Don't you really like him? I would say it'd be for the best for either you find some appreciation in him or you dump him. Hope I helped.
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aww that's soo sweet..but maybe you need to sit down and have a talk with him and make sure he knows that you guys should still be friends..hope that helped..
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