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Hey I was just wandering what you thought about this one. Sorry it might be kinda long but I really need your advice.
-Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 weeks exactly today. He is like really stupid and kinda weird so I dont know what I want to do. Half of me wants to dump him and the other half doesn't. I know that he really really likes me and that if I break up with him he might even cry. Today on our field trip some of his friends were like joking around and told me that he dumped me (and I knew he didnt). He was like what?!? I would never dump her. And yesterday he bought me this really cute stuffed animal (dolphin) because he knows that I love dolphins.
-Please someone help me I really need it!!
Well I don't think your relationship is very productive if you go thinking he's stupid. Now weird's ok cause a lot of people are weird. And there's so many weird people that they need to redefine normal. Well anyway I don't see why it is you think you want to break up with him. I mean we're all stupid one way or the other. And he seems to really appreciate you. On the other hand, you don't seem to appreciate him very much. Now, I may be wrong but you're saying he really likes you. Don't you really like him? I would say it'd be for the best for either you find some appreciation in him or you dump him. Hope I helped.
i am going to an interview because i want to become an actress but i am scared because i dont no who is going to be there and i am frightend that i will throw up or do something humiliating. does any one have experience or advice so i can calm down?
Think of the people who are going to interview you as mindless fools who haven't a clue what they're doing as people on earth. Just keep thinking about this and you should be fine in my opinion.
I really love my boyfriend, but hes scaring me. He keeps saying "it would be better if i was gone" & he keeps talking suicidal. Other times hes not though. I keep telling him to stop talking about it cuz its scaring me. He says "sorry I'll quit" but then he does it again. He says he wont kill himself cuz he cares too much about me & I was thinking, if we do ever break up, whats he gonna do then? Sometimes I think hes saying stuff for attention. I dont know what to do, I might not be able to do anything, but any advice would be appreciated.
Well to tell the truth I think you might not be making him to happy. I mean I have a girlfriend and she makes me happy to the point that I couldn't have a care in the world about anything but her. It's a great feeling believe me. Anyway, maybe you could make him feel better by doing stuff with him regularly. Guys always feel great when they're spending time with their girl. At least that's how I fee. But you know it could also be a mental illness. There can be a chemical inbalance in the brain that makes him depressed. I would say you should be able to make him feel better better if he's just depressed normally but if you can't help him get better then ask him to go to the doctor. Hope I helped.
No matter how late I go to bed, it always takes me at least an hour to get to sleep and I always wake up early. If I go to bed early in order to get more sleep, I don't drop off until around one and I usually wake up at half seven to eight am. My friends and family all seem to be able to get to sleep easily and usually don't wake up until around eleven on non school days, how do I get more sleep? I always keep the same routine at night and I have tried everything, it doesn't matter how tired I am I just can't sleep. What should I do?
You should see the doctor. You might have a sleeping disorder or something. But not to worry, there's medicine that'll help you sleep trust me.
hello. i apologize if the english that i speak isnt as good. i have moved to USA from brazil one month ago.since i speak portuguese(the language used in brazil), german, spanish, italian, french, and english, sometimes i do not remember to speak in english. at my school it is hard to join with friends. if a person has knowledge on joining with groups of people it would be helping.
Well, first I have to say that it's very impressive to be able to speak as many languages as you do. Well I would say to socialize with one person that you have common intrests with then in a bit they'll introduce you to their friends and then their friends introduce you to their friends and yeah I think you catch the drift.
I know this is confusing but my boyfriend just got out of a realationship (they were REALLY close and it was sexual) so we've been going out for 2 days but i found out 2 other people like me, that i like too. and i really dont want to hurt him anymore then his x already hurt him, but i want to go out with someone else! please help...
Why did you choose him if he wasn't the best one? That's sort of how boyfriends are. Well, I'd say you should say to him you don't think it'll work out and dump him. What I truly think you should do is give him a chance. Hope I helped.
when you ask a question, does it show up on your page?
Yes, this along with any other question goes on my column permanately. How do you even know about this site if none of your friends have an advice column anyway? Whatever, I hope I helped.
Hey! I was wondering if anyone knows of any cheats for The Sims 2.
I know that Kaching gives you $1000
but is there anything that you can type after that to get more than $1000?
and I know that on the Regular Sims You can Type in "Move_objects on"
and then you can delete people and then they have everything to green, like everything is perfect, on the sims 2, the people dont come back, its wierd, so i was wondering if there is a cheat similar to that for the sims2 that you can use to delete people, but then they come back with everything all green
thanks in advance!
Check gamewinners.com. They always have good cheats and all of the cheats usually. I'd also reccommend gamefaqs.com they usually have guides and the authors really do know there cheats. Hope I helped.
I have a friend and she is one of my best friends but lately she has been so concentrated on boys.....boys other than her boyfriend. She wears clothes than aren't meant for her to wear (shorts skirts and waaaaay to low pants) We have known eachother for a reeeeeeeally long time and we are best friends but she seems.....distant and we fight a lot over stupid things. Sometimes she gets annoying because she goes out with a boy and then doesn't like him the next day.....! Some of her other friends agree too. So what do I do to get her to realize hoe she is acting witout her getting mad at me?
Ok now I don't want to sound offensive here but it doesn't seem like this girl likes thinking very much. Anyway you need to tell her that she usually should really like (aka love) the guy she's going out. It seems to me she doesn't really doesn't like the guys she's going out with so I'd reccommend asking her about it. Try to get her to realize it in a friendly way but don't push too hard. That'd piss her off.
O-k my boyfriend is so cool.... but lately he's been acting differently. as if he wants more from me!! what should I do?
Ask him about it. Really it'll work. What does he have to hold back from you?
ok..i kno im not ugly but other people may think i am..im not desperate for a boyfriend but i just want one that i can actually make out with and that i will eventually fall in love with..I've never made out with a guy before, held hands with, or even been on a date before..Theres a guy that i like and he doesnt live here but we are planin on meetin n if he wants to make out n i start to freak out in my mind..how can i not do that and just go with him n make out?..PLEASE i need advice..
Oh, well I'd say stay calm and talking a lot about it with him would help I think. And if you've never gone on a date before I don't think you should go from level 1- to 10 just like that if you know what I mean. Hope I helped.
Ok, there is this guy.. And like I really like him.. And like I always like find myself wanting to just blurt out the words "i love you!". But like I'm afraid to say it too soon. I'm like unsure if I should tell him or not. Should I wait until I know I def* can commit to saying those words?????? LIKE THANKS!
Do you love him? There is no too soon. There is a too late however. So I would tell him as soon as you can. And to guys there is no too early. At least in my personal perspective as a guy. Try telling him. That's what I'd do. Hoped I helped.
What i wonder is why.....i do everything i am asked to do, if i do one thing remotely wrong, im bitched at for several days. Why does she single me out....It cant be because im the oldest, my brother doesn't do anything and he is such a little pecker....So what the hell did i do to piss her off....NOTHING. But i still get bitched at, why do you think this is....its really pissing me off
Well I don't know man. I mean it could be bipolar disorder or something. It's been known to cause that. It might be how you act but I doubt it. Just ask her about it.
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There's this boy that I've known about 3 years. We used to not get along AT ALL but when I started taking the bus again, he started talking to me more and more and now whenever my friend gets off, he comes and sits across from me and talks to me. He also suggested we see a movie together but I don't know if he means JUST AS FRiENDS. People say he likes me but I'm not sure. I know I like him because my heart is always racing when I think of him and I dream about him and I know I have a crush but I'm unsure about the signals he's saying. Does the movies ALWAYS signal a date? Also, I can never really talk to him about "us" because there are all these other kids listening. =(
-Crushin'
Get his number. Or IM address. Just ask him how he feels. He'll explain it all. If he doesn't then somethings up.
I have really hairy arms and its embaressing i dont know what to do about it. I cant shave because it will grow back darker and my stomach pluss back is hairy too . does anybody know what i can do?
ummmmmmmmm..... Are you a boy or girl? Because I really would like to help but you just said hairy.
Ok in my Spanish class We're doin a Stupid Gay report on Cinco De Mayo...We have to have 10 or more facts but I only have 4 and I have been to sooooo many Sites! If anyone knows any of them that would be soooo extremely helpful! thnx!
Google! Yeah Google. That'll get you some good sites just search for that guys name.
Ok heres the deal, i like this guy. i liked him ever since i saw his face. he has the cutest face ever!!! i dont know how to tell him. my frend and i lyk always talk about him and while hes in the same class. Im kinda like not popular but he is.. i dont know what to do!!
Oh please popularity won't have a thing at all to do with it. Popular people need you to survive you know that? How else do they become popular? Anyway, just call him up and tell him or if you're shy you can use a note or an Instant Message.
Im 13 years old. A lot of the other girls have boy friends and all but ofcourse i dont. ive never even had a first kiss or went on a date with a boy. Its not like im ugly because im not really. i just dont know...it just feels like that time is never going to come??..
Well if you don't think it'll come then make it come! Don't sit on your ass and just wait for it. How far are you going to get doing that? What you need to do is meet guys and talk to them awhile and sooner or later you'll get a guy. You see you can't really expect for you to just sit there and wait for it. That ain't gonna happen. Hope I helped.
I have really bad grades and until there up i have no life! i have a boyfriend who now thinks im asking him for a break when i said i need to focus more on school, my friends are getting mad at me because now i cant hang out with them and i can only have 30 min on the phone and an hour of t.v! how can i get my life back with doing better in school i get home a 4 every day and i need a schedule so i can get my life back!!
Well did you ever think of improving your grades first? You can study, do your work, and get extra credit. You can't get your "life" back until you improve the grades.
I really needed condoms, my boyfriend didn't have any. I didn't feel like going to the store to get some, so I took some from my brother's room. I think he noticed because he asked me about it, what do I do?
Well, first off why are you stealing them? The health center gives them away for free. So why steal them? I don't know. Well, maybe you should just tell him you wanted desperatly to have sex and you had to have it then. Try that.