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Through Love & Hate
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There's this boy that I've known about 3 years. We used to not get along AT ALL but when I started taking the bus again, he started talking to me more and more and now whenever my friend gets off, he comes and sits across from me and talks to me. He also suggested we see a movie together but I don't know if he means JUST AS FRiENDS. People say he likes me but I'm not sure. I know I like him because my heart is always racing when I think of him and I dream about him and I know I have a crush but I'm unsure about the signals he's saying. Does the movies ALWAYS signal a date? Also, I can never really talk to him about "us" because there are all these other kids listening. =(
-Crushin'
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I think you should ask for his number so you guys can talk more. Ask him if he means as friends. And also talk to him when nobodys around just ask him if he wants to be ur boyfriend you know? Good luck and follow ur heart! <3 American Girl
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Girl, I think you should get his phone # and talk to him more personally. Movies do usually mean that he's interested...maybe he is!!!So go git him girl... don't be ashamed of the people on the bus...they have no life and they want to listen in on your conversation because they're so bored.
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Well frist of all..going to a movie doesnt alwyas singal a date..so you guys could either jsut you two go, or go with some friends...and if you guys go, just think of it as a friends night out...and some tiem to get to know each other, and catch up and sutff..plus you dont need to rush into thinking about there being an "us" with you guys..play it by ear..i mean you can think about and everything, but maybe if he brings it up first then it would make it less stressful...i guess my advice is to just take the time to get to know each other more, and ahng out, and maybe call eahc other, so you cna tlak without other people ehairng...just play along with everyhtint as it happens...Good Luck...And Have fun...Let me know how thigns work out...
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well, i know what guys do when they like someone. That is it, if ur unsure of if its friends, or more....it may make him happy so jus go with him.:)
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Oh, go with the boy to the movies! Lol. You two could probably get dinner or whatever after - or before - and talk about it.
(That's what happened with my boyfriend and me - he invited me out as friends to see a movie, and he paid for everything, and we went to burger king to talk a little bit, and ended up admitting that we liked each other, and ended up dating a week later. We're still together after 14 months.)
You never know what might happen! If you wanna talk about "us," you don't even have to tell him you like him. Just mention that some of your friends say that he likes you. ("how crazy is that?") and see what he does.
(I wish I'd had someone to tell me what to do when I went out with my guy! I said the wrong thing and ended up telling him I liked him before he told me he liked me! Oops, lol)
Movies doesn't necessarily signal a date, but they sometimes turn into dates. I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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Get his number. Or IM address. Just ask him how he feels. He'll explain it all. If he doesn't then somethings up.
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=] i think that you should go to the movie with him to find out if he really likes you ( more then a friend way) See if he puts any moves on you. Maybe you should suggest seeing a scary movie. ITs a way to get close! ;] hope everything goes ok. LEt us no!
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go see a movie with him and see if he makes a move and if he does then he likes you and youll be alone there so you can talk about *us*
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Well 3 years is a long time, so I think he does mean for something to start, like a closer friendship, or possibly a relationship.
Since you're such good friends, maybe you could offer him your phone number? Or you take his? Then you can talk about WHATEVER!:)
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The movies doesn't ALWAYS mean it's a date date as in wanting to start a relationship kind of a date. One thing I'll tell you is to keep an eye on the way that he acts around you when you're at the movies with him. If he brushes his hand really close to yours, brush your hand back and eventually you'll hold hands, he might put his arm around you in the theatre. You don't want to assume anything because you'll make yourself look like a fool. But if at the end of the date, he leans in for a kiss, you'll know OBVIOUSLY that the date was meant to attempt at starting a relationship. Try calling him and talk to him about you guys, that way there aren't any people around you and you're in the privacy of your house. It sounds to me like he likes you. Until you go to the movies with him, take things slow and try to figure him out and talk to him more. I smell the start of a beautiful relationship! Take it slow though. Hope this helped. If you need anything else drop it in my box.
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if he asked just you to go to the movies, then it's more likely to be more of a date, so you can flirt with him then and see what he does. also if you go to the movies together, that'd give you two some "us" time to talk.
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Well go to the cinema, flirt a bit and see if he makes a move on you. take it slow because boys dont like being rushed. i'd understand if you were like really good mates bt it seems like ur just bus pals. GD luk and tell me how you get on!!!
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Why don't you go out with him as friends and if he feels the same way about you as you do about him, maybe your friendship will turn into something more.
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