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Hi! i'm Jodie and i just want to help all you peeps out there who are having problems! If i can help i will. I'M RATED HIGH!!
Gender: Female
Location: England
Occupation: Skwl Student
Age: 14
Member Since: January 19, 2005
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Last Update: March 29, 2005
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Ugh. My best friend kelly thinks she's a really good singer. The problem is... she sux! She's also going to be in the talent show and perform a song. When she does, she's gonna be sooo emmbarrased aftwerwards! Everyone's gonna make fum of her. I don't know what to do, or how to break it to her!! Should I just let her be TOTALLY embarrased? Help!! Please!! (link)
jus give her support cus she must like it and enjoy it to want to be in the talent show! jus let it happen. but if u dont mind her being in a mood with you, u can tell her but be prepared for a massive mood swing!!! she'll thank you later though so just choose da method you think she will apreciate the most!! gd luk nd send me a message if you need sum mor help.

lv me x


Hey! I was wondering if anyone knows of any cheats for The Sims 2.

I know that Kaching gives you $1000
but is there anything that you can type after that to get more than $1000?

and I know that on the Regular Sims You can Type in "Move_objects on"

and then you can delete people and then they have everything to green, like everything is perfect, on the sims 2, the people dont come back, its wierd, so i was wondering if there is a cheat similar to that for the sims2 that you can use to delete people, but then they come back with everything all green

thanks in advance! (link)
motherlode it gives you money!


well there is this guy and well he is really hott and nice. i like him and i think he knows but, how do i know if he is interested? hes really sweet and i have like alot of feelings for him. im not gorgeous but im not ugly. we have the same friends and another problem is like all the other girls in school like him too. (link)
i have two things to say:
-You have gd taste
-Go 4 it

if evryother girl is goin 4 it u might as well give it a try. first get your mates to do some hint making and ask him if he likes you. rememba he aint gonna be completely honest with them so any slightly good answer will do. then you can either get a m8 to ask him out for you or you could be brave and have a go yourself!!

Hope i've helped

-x-JoDiE-x-


Okay, so I started school about 5 months ago, and there are a few girls (I'm not going to say their names) and they've been really mean to me. They were spreading around rumors, and talking about me behind my back. I mean, they keep doing it! I'm so sick of it! I don't know what to do because every time I try to talk to them their always together and i mean 4 against 2... You get the picture. Please help me!
-Bethany (link)
god they totally need to get lifes. there just being totally shady towards you and omg BITCH alert! i know everyone will tell you to ignore them but i will give you sum useful advice!

if there bein like that they're not m8z! well either throw sumthing back in there face (comment) or slap them because either of them things will skock them. but if your not into violence or bitching just tell a teacher or parent how hard there making it for you to settle in. if one of them has a fairly nice personality when there not with the other girls you could just do that. if you want some more and better advice message me some more info.

-x- JoDiE -x-


my friend is 6 months pregnant and shes only 13 but i dont knw wot to do. i know i shudnt get involved but i'm the only person shes told and she has no intention of telling any1 else. her bf's a prik so he aint worth telling. i jus dont want sumthing to happen to her or the baby when i cud of helped by telling somebody. i dont want enyfin to happen but i dont want to loose a m8! (link)
jus talk to her or tell sum1. she mite nt appreciate u tellin peeps now but she will after the babys born!


What are some cool stuff to do on the weekends? me and my friends need more cool things to do.
thanks in advance. (link)
go shoppin, go 2 da cinemas, clubs (
U16'z, U18'z), sleepovers or wakeovers! or just chill and watch movies.


this girl is having her sweet 16...and im not invited but the rest of my friends who dont even talk to her are. I was just asking...do you think when i have mine i should invite her? or should i not invite her. (link)
Invite her and show her and your friends that your a better person and you don't like hurting people like shes hurt you. everyone will look up 2 you 4 not going in a mood...


ok i like this guy, i mean really like this guy. hes sweet and cute and is always super super nice to me. the point is, hes gotta gf! i really like him and im sorta friends with his girlfriend. but im really really jealous of her! do you think he sorta likes me if he always talks to me and gave me his number?thanks (link)
well your probably better off letting their relationship end before you start flirting or anything because messing up relationships can give you a bad name! when they've split wait a few days so your sure theres still nuthin between them because all you need is them doing stuff behind your back.

has he put anything on text messages like 'luv u'cus thats usually a sign. u cd get one of ur mates or his mates 2 find out if he likes you or not!


for the last few nights ive been wking up really early for some reason. i havent changed anything at all. ive been going to sleepa t about 11 for over a year now but for the last few days ive been waking up at like 4:30 insteadof aroudn 8 or 9 like i should be (im in college) anyone wana offer an explanation? ill rate high unless you piss me off. (link)
R u on your period? that can often ruin your sleeping patterns. if not, are you eating or drinking high energy things you never used to or are you dieting at the moments bcus all these things can affect ur sleeping!


My friends popular friends don't like me much, so they told her I said I didn't like her. She believed it and now won't talk to me and I was supposed to go to a dance tonight but now am all depressed in my room. Also she's my one and only best friend. What should I do? (link)
that was such a mean thing to do. i really don't get popular peeps b/c they're really horrible to get popular and when they r popular they carry on and think peeps like them for it. its more of the case 'i say i like you so you don't smash my face in.' i'd rather be the biggest freak in the year than one of them or one of their 'm8z'.

this actually happened to me but it is your friends decision. u wont be able to stop her and if she believes them over you she aint that good a friend anyway. shes not gonna be that happy with them anyway. jus let her hang out with them and get yourself a new best friend. they'll upset your other friend or she'll get really jealous and cum bak but if she dont, dont stress becus you'll hav a new best mate anyway and you'll probably b glad this has happened. meet sum new peeps so if it does happen you can jus keep going and nt show her you are down!


sry its long - i need lots of help! my b/f broke up wit me in Sep. and we would still flirt but he would totally lead me on - i got hurt and he didnt leave me any messages like "feel better" he just said "whats wrong with you" i didnt really appreciate it =( then tonite i got to go out and he was there and he didnt talk to me once! then online he acted like nothin happened! he was flrtin with me and instead of the usual "love you" he just said "later" he leads me on and all i wanna do is get over him but he is in my classes and i would get jealous if a girl was even just talking . what should i do??!?!? (link)
Even if he is interested in you he isn't showing it! i think you shud forget about him, it will be his loss!! no man is worth the pain hes putting you through and the only thing you will get from this relationship if you got together is hurt and tears. move on to anuvva lad, make your ex jealous and be as happy as you were before!!!

Gd look and message me!!


well u guys probably read about my promblems about my friend and how he held my hand and stuff but i don't know if hes serious ...well i'm kinda getin annoyed by him now hes always right there! lunch, outside of school every where! .today i went to tylers house hes my best friend and i was hanging out with all the guys and playin poker and x box with all the guys i was having fun then he shows up ! and i mean i got kinda mad cuz he was there and i think he noticed i was mad but he didn't know why .well he huged me like 3 times but for some reason i felt something ...hes the one that came up to me to give me a hug ... but as much as annoyed i was when he huged me i felt something like i could be in his arms for ever and never let go ???? .i havn't asked yet if he likes me ...cuz i'm scared now and i kinda get annoyed but i felt something with that hug what should i do now !!!!
sorry so long (link)
If you like him this much as i said before you should go for it. if you want any more help message me because i think theres definitely something between you!


How lond does weed stay in your system. because iwant to apply for this job but there doing a drug test and i dont know when to take the application. i smoked yesterday.
thursday January 20, 2005 (link)
i thinks it like a month. How old r u?


i have trouble getting boyfriends. i mean all my friends tell me that im outgoing, funny, and pretty..but its like the boys dont see those qualities in me. i mean i act no different around boys than i do girls but its just wierd. and whenever a guy does like me i feel like he doesnt really like me because my self-esteem, when it comes to guys, isnt very high. what should i do? (link)
there isn't really much you can do about it! your friends wouldn't lie to you so there obviously right. have a girls night in, make a few phone calls and you'll hav a boyfriend by the end of the month! good look!!!


i'm 16/f. is it okay to date a guy that's younger than me? i like this guy but hes 2 years younger than me, i'm a junior...hes a freshman. Thanks guys! (link)
yeh as long as you really like each other and your not gonna do enythin u cud regret!


Ok so this is such a random question but I could use some advice!! So I am a cheerleader at a really great gym and at school, I am going to High School next year, I have to choose between one or the other... Freshman Cheer? Or Club Cheering? I love my squad at the gym.. we had a loss on our team so it brought us closer together. (i am on an older team) I dunno if I should do it again.. I really like the Pep Ralleys and stuff, but I love Competitions too! School and Gym cheer tryouts are coming up so please help me decide!!! -thanks- (link)
I'd say gym if your shyer and you dont want to leave all your really gd m8z but school if u want to make your popularity standing to be high. at school you'll probably get to do more and support the people in your school. Hope i've helped you to decide. if you want any more help just message me!


my friend is having her birthday party tonight, she invited a few of my other friends that arent really friends with her, but this girl didnt invite me and we are really good friends and it kind of makes me jelous of my other friends and a little mad at this girl... what should i do to feel better?? (link)
that is really horrible! she don't seem like that good a mate if she can treat you like that and u can do better!

If u wanna feal better put a dvd on, get sum munchies and snuggle down in bed. then tomorrow ring some mates, arrange something like shopping or cinema and then get one to stay over yours. it will be fun and will take your mind off that other girl.

Dont be jealous because who needs a friend like that bc she will only do it 2 them in the future.

hoped i've helped u. Gd luk!


Are there certain signals that guys do that sort of show he likes a girl? I'm 13/f and I have this guy friend and people say he likes me but I'm not sure. He invited me to see a movie with him but how do I know if it's just "friends".

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GUYS R THE BIGGEST MYSYTERYS IN THE WORLD! there isn't really that many things they do to show they like girls except tell there m8s and make moves on them. its usually up 2 us girls to get it out of them!


me and this guy had a really really fun time one night (not sex) we just cuddled and kissed the whole night. I really like him alot, but im not sure if he likes me too. yeah we cuddled but he's kind of a user so i couldn't tell. ANYWAYS! that was 4 days ago, and he hasnt called me yet. would it be extrally gay if i text him while i was at school just to have a regualar convorsation an be like "whats up? im bored at school an decided to text u." would that be gay, weird, or just normal? i've never texted him an im to nervouse to call him. would it be cheesy if i did? tell me your honest opinion, please! (link)
that would b a quite gd thing to do but you also need 2 get a m8 to go undercover and find out if he likes you. that way he'll b honest and you wont get embarrassed! Gd luk!


Well i've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months. He has had sex before and I havent (15/f). For the past couple of days I have really been thinking if i want to do it or not. My boyfriend is perfect, but im kinda nervous about the whole thing. Dont get me wrong, I do want to have sex with him, but its only been to months and i think its kinda soon. I have been sort of leading him on, but i really thought about it today and im jsut not ready. What ways can i tell him that im sorry for leading him on but im just not ready yet?????
Please help (link)
IF YOUR NOT READY DONT DO IT! stand up 4 yourself!

Firstly if he dont understand how your feeling he obviously dont love you that much but you'll have 2 say sumthin first.

sit him down in private and tell him how much u like him, etc and then just say how u feel. dont go into deep detail but he'll probably understand. your not even legal age!




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