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What should i do?
my friend is 6 months pregnant and shes only 13 but i dont knw wot to do. i know i shudnt get involved but i'm the only person shes told and she has no intention of telling any1 else. her bf's a prik so he aint worth telling. i jus dont want sumthing to happen to her or the baby when i cud of helped by telling somebody. i dont want enyfin to happen but i dont want to loose a m8!
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This makes no sense to me. 6 months pregnant, but you're the only one she has told. That wouldn't matter, because it would have been obvious to everyone and their dog a couple months ago that she was pregnant. I see holes in this story.
Also, there's nothing you could do, no matter who you tell. This girl's life is fucked. She is 13, and with child. She will never experience a normal teenage lifestyle, nor will the child experience a loving family. Game over, man.
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for starters you should tell an adult.
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one of my friends had moved and got pregnet didnt want to tell anyone and her baby is due feb.14,05 and she didnt want to tell anyone either and then she did her mom and dad were happy just not at the age she is i think you should get involved people will start to notice as she keeps gaining weight and she probley eats alot more so i think people will catch on and in the long run she will thank you for saying something because i dont think that she wants anything to happen to that baby either so go tell someone she will forgive you cause you are being a good friend and is it a boy or a girl?
hope i helped
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Hey,
You NEED to tell someone. To avoid losing her as a mate, you should probably suggest to her that if she doesn't tell someone - or at least go to the doctors - then you will. She has to go to the doctors at least and get checked out in case there is anything wrong with her or the baby...she could be risking her life by not going.
How is she planning to hide a baby once it's born? You really have to talk this all through with her. I don't think she seems to realise quite how serious it is. She doesn't have to tell her boyfriend, but she should tell her mother.
Don't worry, and don't feel bad by forcing her to tell someone/telling someone yourself - you could be saving her life. You're exactly right in wanting to tell someone. Just make sure you're there for her but give her some space if she needs it :)
If she won't tell her mother (or another adult) and you're still struggling over what to do, maybe you could talk to a school counsellor or someone who could convince her that she needs to tell people?
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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she needs to tell her parents because one day shes going to show up at home with a kid and their going to be like whered this come from, and her boyfriend helped make it so he NEEDS to know. hopefully things work out xox
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your friend is a slut if shes pregnant when shes 13! and wouldnt sumone notice by now? any way she has to tell her mother so she can actually have the baby. what excuse is she gonna have for being moody, fat, and not home for like 3 days because shes in the hospital? she wasted her whole life away and shes gonna have ugly strech marks and shell be really fat after this. your friend is a dumbass slut and she really needs to change that problem. i know i didnt help but i dont care because i feel bad for any pre-teenager whos gotta waste her life with a child when they're fuckin 13 years old!
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make sure she tells her psrents, even if it was a really stupid mistake, her parents need to help her. Also tell her bf so he knows of his mistake.
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i know you are her best friend but like you said you don't want anything to happen to your friend or the baby and she she is 6 months pregnant so it should already be showing but if it is not trust me it will be try to talk her into telling an adult trust me they won't have the reaction she thinks they will. an as for her sorry boyfriend tell her to tell him to get lost
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1) Go back to first grade. Learn how to spell.
2) How can your friend be SiX months pregnant, but no one can tell.. ?
3) Tell your friend she's very stupid for having sex at 13, + it's her own fault for getting pregnant.
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jus talk to her or tell sum1. she mite nt appreciate u tellin peeps now but she will after the babys born!
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lets learn how to spell. Okay Children :)
and 2nd.. your friends a whore, who cares.. shes going to end up on the streets anyways.
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Talk to her more about it, and if she refuses to get help, help her, don't risk it she needs help,she can't do this alone and she shouldn't have to Good luck to you and your friend, and I hope everthing works out *KAITLYN*
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Well you should talk to your friend about it, she has to tell her parents no matter what, they will support her with this, and also the fathers parents. Then they must decide what to do with the baby...
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