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i have trouble getting boyfriends. i mean all my friends tell me that im outgoing, funny, and pretty..but its like the boys dont see those qualities in me. i mean i act no different around boys than i do girls but its just wierd. and whenever a guy does like me i feel like he doesnt really like me because my self-esteem, when it comes to guys, isnt very high. what should i do?
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If you're a young teen (13,14,15...) most guys your age don't look for those qualities unfortunatly. They are about the looks, the personality, if you're popular, if you're bad, naughty and sexy, stuff like that. And actually this story reminds me of myself, my best friend wasn't prettier than me (thats what everyone else says) and I was just so confused with why she was getting all the guys, and people always told me it was because shes loud, and she makes sure shes heard, so if you got a little more social (if you already aren't) then you'd get more attention probably, but don't overdo it by being rude and trying to impress people, just be yourself, it does you so much good.
-TheTeenGirl
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First of all, you shouldn't have low self-esteem because you don't have a boyfriend. I'm sure there are a lot of guys interested in you, but are intimidated by you. Maybe their too scared to come up to you. You said your outgoing, funny and pretty! Why should you have low sef-esteem? Walk around confident because guys don't like girls that aren't. Maybe you should make the first move, or you can wait. Good things do happen to people that are patient. Eventually that right guy will come (they will sooner or later)...So don't put yourself down. There isn't anything wrong with you. *goodluck*
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what i think is maybe the prolblem isnt w/ you maybe itz w/ the boyz youve been liking. just find the right guy to like
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ok, i used to be the same way too. it seems like guys dont know anything about qualities, they absolutely do! its just guys tend grow mature a lot slower than girls...and in that case guys are either afraid, confused, or just not comfortable yet to say or like what they see. its kinda of a complicated situation to help explain but if a guy does like you, let them like you...i know that theres a bunch of wacks out there that you will meet but not all of them...what im trying to say is that when a guy likes you, theres a good high percent that he really does like you. just try to make them feel comfortable around you and let them get used to you being around them and they will start most likely asking you out if given time and effort. i hope tis helps
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I have that problem too. All of my friends say that about me too, but guys are intimidated because I'm what the cool kids call "a genius". If they're not smart enough to notice that you're the best girl for them, then they're not worth it at all. What's worse? Being single, or having a bf that doesn't care about you as much as you like? Hope I helped! ~Kylie~
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there isn't really much you can do about it! your friends wouldn't lie to you so there obviously right. have a girls night in, make a few phone calls and you'll hav a boyfriend by the end of the month! good look!!!
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try and be a little more flirty towards the boys. then they'll start to realize how outgoing your personality really is
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It could be that they think you dont like them. Try flirting more but dont come off slutty! xO ali
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