Okay, well.. I've known this kid for like, ever! Since he moved here. And I was his FIRST friend when he moved up here. Well, anyways.. I liked him when I was little. But then I thought, that's kinda weird cause he's my best friend..So then I just started to like him this year. And, I tried to get over him, but I can't. What's your advice for me? What should I do???
Well, some people who have been best friends for years might develop feelings for their best friends... I mean it just plainly looks like that you can't get over him... but listen to your heart and NOT your head. Try, if you can, to tell him what's going on on the inside and since he's your best friend than he'll most likely understand, but if he has not developed a feeling for you then he'll just probably say that he just wants to be friends or something. Just remember that it's alright to have a crush on your best friend, but if you 2 do become an item but then break up, you won't be able to have your best friend to talk to. I hope this helps you out! ^_^
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ok,i went to NH with my friend and missed this party. There was a girl there and i didnt want her to be friends with MY friends. 2 girls -- Jill and Sandy are my friends and i didnt want her to be friends with this girl Tiana. I just dont want them to like her more than me..i know im being a bitch but i dont want Tiana to be friends with Jill and Sandy..Sandy told me she was acting like her bffl...and that made me kinda pissed.. how can i accept that Tiana is going to be friends with them? Tiana used to be my good friend but we split up..and i just want everyone to be friends and i can accept it.
have you tried talking to them? i mean try getting them together and tell them what your feeling. its alright to have your best buds have other best buds... and i know its hard to accept these facts... but if you truly want to stick will jill and sandy then just try to stay in there. results are bound to come up eventually... and if they don't then be straight up with yourself... i mean DON'T be someone who your not... that'll probably get jill and sandy a bit angry... and if things won't work out between you, jill, tiana, and sandy... then try to move on... a lot of people will come and go out of your life, and you'll just have to hang in there till you can find true best buds. well i hope this helped.
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I've never been in a relationship before & I'm 13 years old. I've liked guys & they've liked me back but I've never really gone the extra step. Well now, my guy friend likes me & I like him too. We want to be more than friends but what should I expect from a relationship? Will things be weird at first?
hi. of course things might be a bit weird cuz your just starting out. but after a while you'll get used to it and when you feel comfortable good things will come into line...or possibly bad things ((depends on his/your feelings)) but usually wanting to know what to expect is something no one can answer cuz no one really knows whats going to happen... i mean different things will happen with different people. to let ya know... the first break up is ALWAYS the hardest. ok well hope this helped ya out a bit.
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Hey, I need to find out how to explain to kids the differences between 3/4 tempo, 3/6 tempo, 5/4 tempo, 5/6 tempo and 5/8 tempo. I'm a tap teacher and want to explain differences in rhythm but want to be well informed on the subject!!
Cheers,
the munkee
hi. my teacher taught us this way... but she figured it out by snapping her fingers on the beat of her tempo. and after a while we all understood the differences between the tempos. i can try to find out more for ya if ya like. ok well i hope this will help.
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Hey gurrl i know this isn't really a question but w/e..... i just wanted to say thanx so much you are so helpful you could like, help the entire world with your advice..
hey, np bout everything im just doing what i like doing... lol i don't think i could help the entire world but i can try can't i? lol ill ttyl online. later
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how do you get a guy that usually not too talkative, to start talking to you? im 13/f
ok...basically a guy who is shy wont really talk in an environment he doesnt feel comfortable in. try to make him comfortable where he is and after a while he'll start to talk...well hope this helps
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ok so i just started playing softball last year. I'm not bad at all. The bad part is that my dad thinks i suck because he NEVER pays attention to me when i practice and i think hes only gone to 3 of my games. 4 tops. but then again, he goes to every single one of my little brothers games,he helps him practice ALL the time, and he lets my little brother pitch. One of the reasons why i like softball so much is because last year i was one of the best pitcher in my league. now that im in an older league, i have to pitch different but im still pitching really accurate and fast. My dad thinks im horrible and pitching and thinks i have NO CLUE what im doing because im not doing it like a stupid pitching video is telling me to do. I cant convince him that everyone has their own style. how can i have him realize that im actually really good and that i really want to pitch again??
ok well since you did tell your dad that everyone has their own pitchimg style... maybe you actually need to prove that to him...for example take him to a place where DIFFERENT people pitch their OWN way and MAKE him watch the others and actually have him study other pitchers' pitches. most likely he'll start to understand what you are trying to say, if not then he's pretty stubborn. well right now i dont have that much help but if you want you can ask me for further explanation
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hey..i have been under a TON of stress latley...my whole family has. there's lots and lots of things going on. does anyone know any good ways of releiving strss BESIDES cuttting? ((i REALLY dont want to do that)) yeah i would reaaaalllyyy very much appreciate any effort at all. thanksss!
~*jemmy*~
hey jemmy,
well thats a really great choice not to start cutting! ok there are several ways you can relieve stress...1.) use a stress ball 2.)dance, sing anything you can do with music ((should be happy)) 3.)hang with friends 4.)write something ((your feelings or whatever)) 5.) sleep for a bit 6.) just drop everything and just sit qietly ((that helps some people...might not with you)) 7.)talk to someone 8.)get involved with something 9.)do some sports ((that way your mind is concentrating on something else)) 10.) watch "happy" or any type of movie 11.) try to do one thing at a time ((usually helps))
well i hope these can help you a little, if you want anymore suggestions, just let me know.
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ilike this guy..but another guy likes me. he always asks me who i like, and he has admitted to liking me. i dont know how to tell the second guy that i like someone else without either sounding really mean or hurting him. please help!
this has happened to me a few times before. firstly you just need to be straight up to the second guy. i mean just talk to him and say that you like someone for the time being..and im pretty sure he'll be a bit hurt but sooner or later he'll understand that, but just make sure that the first guy isnt a jerk or you'll start to feel stupid if the second guy is really nice. but you just need to be straight up and just tell him whats going on...and if he says that he likes you or something over and over, just tell him that you appreciate what he's saying just dont hurt him when you talk to him. well hope i helped and if you want further explanation...just give another mail thing on here.
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My friend acts completely differently around me than she does around my other friends. It really gets on my nerves, especially when she cracks mean jokes (that I know she doesn't mean) around my other friends. I talk to her about it, but she always just shrugs me off. Is this friendship really worth all of this? And what can I tell her when she does that?
hey,
i have a couple of people who do that to me all the time. look if your like a young teen (13, 14 15..) then of course they are gunna act like that...mostly because they just want to look cool infront of the "crowd" she wants to be in. when she cracks those mean jokes...if she says shes just playing or whatever...then im sure you'll still have a friendship but if she doesnt even say that shes sorry or whatever when shes not hanging around with the others...then you might want to rethink about having a friendship with her. try compromising or tell her that those jokes and the fact that shes being kinda mwan to ya hurts you...and if that doesnt work..give it time then you'll know if the friendshipis worth it or not. hope i helped!
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Hello,
I have a problem. I'm conservative and the guy i liked is shy. So what do I do? Will I be the one to do the first move? But i'm a girl and its not proper for a girl to do the first move with boys and they say it could make a boy turn off.
hi,
im not a shy person but i used to like this guy who was really shy. ok first of all what you want to try to do is make him feel comfortable around you. EX: get to know him that way he gets to know you. second of all it doesn't matter who does the first move. it can be proper for a girl to do the 1st move. show him that you're not afraid to love/like him...then he shold get the picture that you're a nice girl. but don't go overboard about getting toknow him or him getting to know you...that just might start to scare him off...well i hope this can help ya!
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My parents fight a lot and my best friend keeps telling me that they're going to get divorced, and it really hurts my feelings. I don't think that they are going to get divorced because I know how they act around each other, but it just hurts my feelings when my friend says that. What should I do?
i sometimes have that. my parents used to argue a lot until i told my parents first how i felt then i would either call up my friend or confront her the next day and just say that this hurts me a lot and i want you to stop; if she stops then you know that she understands what you're thoughts and feelings are; but if she does not stop telling you these possible lies then just try to "forget" about her or at least try to not listen to what she is saying. i know it's hard to try and not listen to them when they say it to your face but if she continues then just try to delete her from your life only for a temporary length of time or until she gets the hint that shes wrong and that you wanted her to stop. this is what i did and so far it's working. hope i helped!
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My stomach growls everyday during school and its SO embarrasing. is there anything i can do to stop this? like any specific food that i can snack on or anything really that'll prevent it from happeneing. thanks all so much!
~Nataie
well im always starving during my classes. basically i always eat a big breakfast in the morning that way it kinda helps my stomach from growling, but if you dont have that much food at all at home in the mornings then pack a sandwhich or something thats not so noisy and messy, that way you can take a few quick bites when you're stomach is growling... i always do that in class weither we're allowed to or not. if you're allowed to then just simply ask the teacher if you're allowed to something if you brought it and if they say yes then go ahead and eat, if they say no then i always just sneak a bite here and there...but if you do this then DON'T GET CAUGHT! if you want any more specific details then you can always ask me
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i usually eat very very verryyy healithy (fruits, veggies, protein, etc). buttt everyonce in a while i have junk food cravings--a snickers bar or a slice of pizza or a package of sour patch kids---you get the idea. how often is it okay to have one of these things if you want to stay healthy and maintain your weight?
its ok if you want to worry about your weight. ffirst of all its absolutely ok to have a snickers bar, pizza, etc. everyonce in a while. i mean you could eat a few junk food all day and have veggies for snacks or dinner. it can balance out your weight as in it will not let you gain any pounds. in other words its really ok to have junk food everyonce in a while if your trying to maintain your weight. i hope this helps!
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I was hanging out with a group of my friends the other day after school. We were just hanging out having a good time and one of my friends pulls out a joint and lights it. She started passing it around our group of friends and everyone took a puff of it but me. I basically just stood there confused. These innocent girls that I had known since I was 6 years old had just lit up a joint and smoked it. I am completely disgusted by drugs and drinking and I will never do it because it's the worst thing you can do to yourself. They started making fun of me that I wouldn't smoke it. I wasn't hurt that they were making fun of me, but I was just hurt at their stupidity for smoking it. I don't know what to do. They've been my friends for a very long time and have always been loyal to me, but this is something I can't handle. What should I do? Should I tell them they should stop? I'm so confused! Please help.
when i was in this certain grade at school, we learned how we should handle these types of situations. TRY to tell them to stop, if that doesnt work GO TO an ADULT and tell them EVERYTHING that is going on. most likely a SMART adult would know what to do, and try confront THE OTHER GIRLS' PARENTs and see what they can do. if you still want to be friends with those girls and care way too much for them to just abuse themselves then seek help. they may hate you for a while but it will all be worth it and they might say thanks in the future. i hope this helps!
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I tend to overeat when I snack...I make it into more of a meal than a snack. What are some nutritious, low-cal items that fill you up?
ok i used to be the same way and i still kinda do that. if you are eworrying about your weight than try making a salad, a fruit salad or something that will calm your stomach. normally those kind of snacks can fill you up. i hope this helps.
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I have a boyfriend who is abusive. He doesn't hit me.. but he makes me fear him. He's always telling me that my best friends don't like me and that i'm not as special or great as i think i am. When i ask him why he would say that because it really hurts he says that it's the harsh truth and i need to realize it and stop being such a poser. I'm also bisexual and he tells me that i say that to fit in.. that that isn't really who i am. he thinks he knows me so well but he really doesn't. Normally i wouldn't put up with this kind of stuff, i'd break up with him, but the problem is is that i really really love him. For a year we went out on and off 7 times.. this is the 8th. He's the one who always persued me and the one guy i always knew loved me. he's never treated me like this before and it scares me and i don't know what to do because i miss him.. the guy he was.. the guy who would run away with me.. the guy who loved me.. i don't know what to do and i don't think i'm strong enough to leave him.. please help
ok there are way too many girls who are in this situation. the main thing that i can tell you is that if he is starting to act like this than he might be trying to get rid of the REAL you. he might be trying to make you inhis own image and thats when you have to put a foot down and just say that this is who you are. if that doesnt work than you must certainly go to an adult and they will tell you the same thing: 1.) dump him 2.) dont see him for a while. i know it might hurt really bad about not seeing the one you love but its really for the best. right now you might be putting your life on the line. stop this nonsance now before its too late.
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i have trouble getting boyfriends. i mean all my friends tell me that im outgoing, funny, and pretty..but its like the boys dont see those qualities in me. i mean i act no different around boys than i do girls but its just wierd. and whenever a guy does like me i feel like he doesnt really like me because my self-esteem, when it comes to guys, isnt very high. what should i do?
ok, i used to be the same way too. it seems like guys dont know anything about qualities, they absolutely do! its just guys tend grow mature a lot slower than girls...and in that case guys are either afraid, confused, or just not comfortable yet to say or like what they see. its kinda of a complicated situation to help explain but if a guy does like you, let them like you...i know that theres a bunch of wacks out there that you will meet but not all of them...what im trying to say is that when a guy likes you, theres a good high percent that he really does like you. just try to make them feel comfortable around you and let them get used to you being around them and they will start most likely asking you out if given time and effort. i hope tis helps
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okay so who knows of a good pill to clear up your face..i'm talking mild breakouts that are always there..nothing horribly severe but they dont go away.
ok, i dont think any pill can help those conditions. my mom used to be the same way and she says that no pill was able to help. try massaging your face with either scrubs with water, lotion, or just lemon ( i used lemon and it helped). if none of these suggestions help, try wearing cover-up. i hope this can help you
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I've got a question about my friend. I think she may have some serious mental problems. This morning in first hour she was writing a note to someone (I didn't know she was). Well, I glanced over in her direction and she flipped the paper, turned to look at me, and said: "Stop reading my fucking note! God, are you ever going to leave me alone?!?!" So, I asked: "...what...note?" She rolled her eyes and moved to another seat. So, naturally, I was in my seat thinking "What the hell did I do?" Anyway, in third hour she sat beside me again. Again, she was writing notes and I didn't know that she was, so I turned around to talk to her. She FREAKED out and starts yelling about how I'm a nosy bitch. I was ...basically speechless. I mean, it's like she's got some mental problem with excessive paranoia. For instance, yesterday in our Study Hall my boyfriend and I were writing notes to each other. My friend wanted to look at them, and because I said no, she automatically assumed that they were about her and proceeded to call me a bitch. They weren't even remotely related to her. If I talk to anyone other than her she automatically thinks that I'm talking about her or telling them secrets about her. She spreads horrible lies about couples at our schools, including me and my boyfriend. Sometimes I wonder if I should get her some counseling to try to help her out. She's excessively paranoid. I think she may be bi-polar as well (either that or she has some SERIOUS mood swings). For example, in P.E. one morning she was on a different team than me and was so mad at ME that she rammed me up into the bleachers. After P.E. she cussed me out in the locker rooms for being a "complete asshole." Then at Lunch two periods later she acted like nothing was wrong, or that nothing had ever happened. In the hallway this afternoon, I was joking about her using her cellphone (which is strictly against the school rules) and she lost it. Is this just normal teenager behavior or does my friend need some serious help? All advice would be appreciated.
i have witnessed this kind of behavior as well. basiclly she could be having some painful, hurtful issues with other people, she could be upset about something that other people have said about her and assumes this ever since that, and she could just be letting all her anger out on you but on others just as well. personally, i dont think its you, she just possibly could need some help. try taking her to a phsyciatrist ( i think thats how you spell it) and see if they can help. remember just to let her have some room or time to think about her actions, or just wait a little bit longer and she might come out and say what is going on with her.
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