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How can I
Hello,
I have a problem. I'm conservative and the guy i liked is shy. So what do I do? Will I be the one to do the first move? But i'm a girl and its not proper for a girl to do the first move with boys and they say it could make a boy turn off.
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hi,
im not a shy person but i used to like this guy who was really shy. ok first of all what you want to try to do is make him feel comfortable around you. EX: get to know him that way he gets to know you. second of all it doesn't matter who does the first move. it can be proper for a girl to do the 1st move. show him that you're not afraid to love/like him...then he shold get the picture that you're a nice girl. but don't go overboard about getting toknow him or him getting to know you...that just might start to scare him off...well i hope this can help ya!
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most guys would be turned on by a girl making the first move, go for i
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Wait wait wait...it's not "proper" for a gril to make the first move? Maybe in the 1800's. Ello, time's have changed! Don't like..pounce on the guy...but don't be afraid to tell him how you feel. If he's super shy, chances are he'd be relieved if you made the first move.
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Uhm thats not true. Its not wrong for girls to make the first move. You might bet he one to do it first but theres nothing wrong with that. It is proper and the boys wouldnt get turned off. It just shows them that you arent scared and that you arnt prude. x0
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Just, get him to talk about him self and what he likes doing. that will make him feel more comfortable around you, Mabe its the best to make the first move if he is so shy when your ready of course.
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send him some signals that you like him such as eye contact or smiling he should get the hint and make the 1st move
hope i helped
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Looks like you're in the position i was a month ago. Its not wrong for a gurl to ask a guy out. But this is wat i did -> I went up to him with 2 of my close friends-whom pretended to be hungry- and asked him if he wanted to have lunch. He said yes, and my friends ditched me as planned. Lolz, He was shy too.
So, Either u do wat I did, or you could start by askin' him questions that will hint you want to get to know him. If that doesn't work, then ask him if he was gay! (got that from a book, so don't). Seriously, just go up to him and talk to him. If He's smart enough, he'll get the hint and you two will hit it off.
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go for it!! make the first move because the guy is really shy so go for it and see if he likes you.
*BeSs*
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if hes shy he might never ask you out. its perfectly normal for a girl to make the first move. and im sure it wonlt turn him off some guys like it when girls take charge especially when there shy.
hope i could help.
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if he's shy then he will probably never ask you out. It really doesn't matter if the girls ask the boys out any more and this may be your only chance
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Wow! I think this is the first time I've heard some one say it's not proper to ask a guy out. It is as proper for us to ask them as it is for them to ask us out.
If your really uncomfortable asking for a date, you could invite him to some thing undateish. What you invite him to is up to you, but it should reflect both your interests.
If he is turned off by your independance, be glad you found out now! Run far and fast.
When you ask someone out your paying them a compliment, and if he's a nice guy, he'll probably be happy you asked even if he's not interested.
The bottom line: It's appropiate to ask a boy out. It's sad to be so shy that your alone. Pick one.
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