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the girl wants to drag me down to the mall and get me a "whole new look" for prom, including contact lenses and i'm guessing that i will not come away with completely brown hair or my usual hawaiian shirt. The girl is totally bangin, but has not given me a definitive answer on prom yet.
I would love to take her to prom(and date her too), but is it worth my dignity? also considering i have to go on an army outing the day after it is supposed to happen. i think looking like a fairy would not earn me points with the sergeant.
-hitler the manly goat
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Hmm...don't change your look for some girl. First get to the bottom of her intentions...be forward with her, and ask what she wants from all this. If she won't give you a straight answer, it seems a little fishy because either she could be leading you on or could only want to go to prom after she has you looking how she likes---both aren't very good. This girl may be..."bangin"...but her personality seems a little shallow.


Ok I kinda like these to guys who are in the grade below me. I mean when I'm away them.. it's just my flirt meter goes off! And like I'm jelious when other girls are around this one guy. Is it wrong to like a younger guy? Is it stupid to go out with a younger guy? (link)
In short, no.


Hello,
I have a problem. I'm conservative and the guy i liked is shy. So what do I do? Will I be the one to do the first move? But i'm a girl and its not proper for a girl to do the first move with boys and they say it could make a boy turn off. (link)
Wait wait wait...it's not "proper" for a gril to make the first move? Maybe in the 1800's. Ello, time's have changed! Don't like..pounce on the guy...but don't be afraid to tell him how you feel. If he's super shy, chances are he'd be relieved if you made the first move.


My twin sister and I argue about 40% of the day. I don't like fighting with her, and lately I've been getting so mad at her I get destructive. I used to cut myself- (embarrassing, but true)- and I can't help but think that may be problem- destruction makes me feel better. I'm not sure. Can anyone give me ideas on how to channel my anger differently? (link)
Write in a journal, take a bath, go running. One way you could be destructive and yet creative is perhaps start a project...try building something, like a really pretty photo frame, where you have to use nails and stuff to nail it together. When that's all done, put a picture of you and your twin sister in it. You chanelled your destructive behavior into a worth-while project.
-Amy
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hey! i wanna get my cartilage pierced. i know that straight guys are supposed to get their ears done on the left side. are straight girls supposed to get it on the left side too? thanks! (link)
I really don't know, so other people probably won't either. To avoid embarrassment on your part, and confusion on other's, how about you get it on the left side.


ok.... well i have gone out with this guy 4 times and every time we brake up it is because of other girls!!! now he wants to go back out with me. he is always sweet and always says i love you to me. he always holds my hand and is always there for me.but the real question is ... should i go back oout with him or not? plz answer!!! (link)
No..no...and no. I bet he's saying the same thing to other girls too.


hey guys! um me and my twin sister got a postcard in the mail for barbazion modeling. it said that there were open call auditions. i was just wondering if anyone knew anything about it. like how much does it cost? do you need any experience? so, if you know anything ,please help me! thanx! (p.s. i went on their website, but i couldnt find anything!) thanx! (link)
I don't really know...is there a number on the postcard? You could call that number, or even mail to a mailing address if there is one. Don't fall for any "modeling scams"...this could be one.


My friend wasn't feeling good today so i asked him how he was and told him to go to the nurse he seemed very upset with me for some reason. well tommorrow we are taking the bus together and i was wondering should i do anything? i like this guy and he said he likes me to! (link)
He might have just been having a bad day...maybe he wasn't feeling good because he felt sick, or he had a bad day in school, got a bad grade, whatever. Just act normal with him on the bus...if you act all clingy and keep asking him how he is, he may not like that.


I have a very plain face. I have a brownish/blondish hair color,thick and long hair, greenish eyes, and okay lips. I hate how I look and I want to change. Im allowed to wear make up but I just cant find the right kind. Any suggestion? Just ask if you want to see a pic. (link)
Well, you could always get highlights...those will brighten up your face. Get them professionally done though. Some good colors for you might be reds or coral type colors-something to brighten up your complexion. Trying scrunching your hair, or maybe getting it layered...try a smokey eye makeup or use some mascara...flip through some beauty magazines-they will be sure to have some good tips.
Hope I helped!
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is it just plain wrong for a 15 year old straight male to babysit? (link)
no




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