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possible prom date wants to give me a make-over
the girl wants to drag me down to the mall and get me a "whole new look" for prom, including contact lenses and i'm guessing that i will not come away with completely brown hair or my usual hawaiian shirt. The girl is totally bangin, but has not given me a definitive answer on prom yet.
I would love to take her to prom(and date her too), but is it worth my dignity? also considering i have to go on an army outing the day after it is supposed to happen. i think looking like a fairy would not earn me points with the sergeant.
-hitler the manly goat
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she just wants you to look nice for prom!
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Hmm...don't change your look for some girl. First get to the bottom of her intentions...be forward with her, and ask what she wants from all this. If she won't give you a straight answer, it seems a little fishy because either she could be leading you on or could only want to go to prom after she has you looking how she likes---both aren't very good. This girl may be..."bangin"...but her personality seems a little shallow.
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I'm a guy. My advice is to do what you want. No seriously, it sounds to obvious and simple to be of any use, but think about it. If you want to be made over go for it, if you have reservations don't let her make you into something you aren't. Try to talk to her and find out what it is that she really wants. Is she embarassed by you? Is she genuinely trying to help you? Is it just a whim? This could be a sign of a much deeper and far more serious issue. If you can't ferret out what that issue is, you've got far worse to be concerned with than your sergeant.
By the way, no, historically sergeants are not big on men who look like fairies.
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if she dosnt like your looks then why is she dating you do what you want to do ... hope i helped
-Dr.Aaron,Good luck!!!
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if this girl really liked you she would like you the way you are. relationships don't work if either one of the people wants to change the other person. tell this girl that this is the way you are, you like being this way and if she wants someone who is like what she wants to make you to go find someone else go with to the prom. you're not her dolly that she can dress up. if she actually likes you she'll be cool with it.
~rainbow
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This girl is trying to control you, by changing your hole style/look around. If you're not comfortable with it, tell her no, simple as that. This is your style and this is how you want to dress/look. If she doesn't like that, then she's not worth it at all.
♥ Krissy
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Don't do anything that you don't want to. As simple as that. Like don't die your hair bright orange because she will think it is hot, if you really don't like that idea.
-Brianna
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It sounds to me like she's trying to change you too much. If she really wanted to be your date, she wouldn't want to change anything about you. It's just her way of trying to make the "perfect" date, but you could be perfect for somebody else that doesn't want to change anything about you. My advice would be to tell the girl to take you as you are, or find some other ken doll she can dress up, because you aren't going to change just so she can look like she wants on prom night.
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