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ok.... well i have gone out with this guy 4 times and every time we brake up it is because of other girls!!! now he wants to go back out with me. he is always sweet and always says i love you to me. he always holds my hand and is always there for me.but the real question is ... should i go back oout with him or not? plz answer!!!
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hmm thats a hard one but if you think he is going to do it again then dont because you know you will get hurt but if you really really like him and you want to give him another chance then just tell him this is your last chance dont hurt me again or its over and hope he listens.. hope i helped
<3 shaiina
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No..no...and no. I bet he's saying the same thing to other girls too.
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well that happened to my best friend !! they broke up then got back together and then broke up and so on!! and just recently he asked her out again i said if i didnt work out then what makes you think it is now? so she ended up saying no cause she got hurt every time she said yes to him !! so if hes anything like him then i think you should turn him down !! like i say dont buy a pair of shoes if they just feel comfy the first day !! if u dont get wat im sayin you will later !1 if u think about it !! well hope i helped !! thanks !
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I'm thinking you should talk to him and confess how you are feeling about these other girls, and if the conversation goes well, I say you give it another shot, but if the same thing happens, you should consider finding someone better you deserve.
-TheTeenGirl
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It seems like he runs back to you everytime he needs a girlfriend. If he really did love you, he woudnt keep dumping you. It might also be becaus ehe finds you boring. Maybe you should try doing something new. Make sure you are acting like his friends. Guys love it when you are really easy to talk to. Trt getting into sports. Guys love girls who they can talk about interests with. Hope i could help. Kelly!
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forget him. he probably doesnt really love you. he's just using you, and if you go out with him again, he'll do the same thing over and over again. you just need to stand up for yourself and say, ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. no matter how much you think he cares about you, and no matter how sweet he is, just keep in mind that he doesnt really mean it and he'll soon go back to his old ways. just forget him, somewhre out there your perfect guy is waiting for you, but you're wasting your time on this liar. just forget him and move on
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This is a definite no. There's a reason he and the other girls break up and there's a reason he keeps breaking up with you. This guy is obviously a jerk and the "I love you"'s and him holding your hand are things that you should NOT fall for. There are so many other guys that wouldn't break your heart and would probably love to be with you, I suggest you tell this guy "no" and find someone who is a much better use of your time.
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Follow your heart.. thats all i can say.. if you dont like him then dont go out with him... but if hes a complete loser.. dont go out with him cuz you know hes juus going to breack ur heart for anoyher girll
<3
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yes, but this time right if u find out he cheated break it off and stay that way
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well- what do you want? he sounds like a total player- but he may just be like any other teenage guy-still figuring himself out- but dont always do stuff w/ him because that may be the only reason why he keeps on going back to you. make sure that you're both in it for the right reasons.
xoxo-
Kels!
always here for ya!
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No,
A real relationship is not made up of this girl, that girl, she's hot, etc. A real relationship is a union between two people that makes both stronger. A guy who is doing what he's done to you is probably in it for the power(ego) which comes from lack of self esteem. You sound somewhat co-dependant by the mere fact that you would even ask such a question. The best thing in my opinion is to work on yourself and figure out what's best for you. Be an individual, grow for yourself. A quote from Ayn Rand, "you shouldn't say the words, I love you, until you understand the meaning of the word I." You need to figure out who you are and only then can you find the right partner for yourself.
John
(bobcohen5309@yahoo.com)
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If this guy has gone out with other girls behind your back before, than he will probably do it again. He tells you things like: I love you, and is sweet to you to your face, but he is really just putting up an act. He may like you, but is not the sweet, loving guy if he will fool around behind your back. If you don't mind his behavior, then go for it, but if you want a guy who really respects you, find someone faithful.
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It doesn't sound like it upsets you that he goes out with other girls in between times with you. If it sounds like something *your* interested in doing, maybe the both of you can date each other and other people at the same time. That way he doesn't have to break up with you to see other girls. While he's with them, you can see other guys. Just make sure the other guys and gals know what's going on too. Everyone has to tell the truth and be able to trust each other for something like this to work.
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Tell this guy that u love him and that if he breaks up with you again there will be consequences if this doesnt work try talking to a trusted adult thanks
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Are you kiding? It's because of girls like you that guys can be called players. Get a clue and stop letting him string you along.
He just keeps feeding you bullshit and you're sitting there with your mouth wide open. Geez, trash him.
-ten
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if you have went out with him 4 times and he broke up with you all 4 times for some other girl, i dont think you should go back out with him. i think hes just tellin you loves you and holdin your hand to get him to go back out wit you. maybe you 2 should be friends for a while and if his feelings stay the same for you, then try going back out. but stay friends for a while.
~*Sarah*~
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I dont think you should go back out with him cause if everytime you do go back out with him he bumps you for another girl then really he isnt worth it. I know you may like him a whole bunch in all... cause I went threw that with my ex and I always went back to him. But after that many times I finally realized that he wasnt worth it. But now me and him are super great friends so I am happy with that. So just think about what I said! <3 Good Luck!
-hanna
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no because he will just brake up with you again he is just using you for other girls
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well...all the times you broke up was for another girl?!?! wow. i wouldn't go back out with him especially if this has happened 4 times! It sounds to me like he doesn't "love" you. It sounds like hes just trying to lure you back into his arms. But, you know him better than we do. Just be careful, try not to get hurt, and try not to be naive!
Good Luck!
Hope I helped!
~*~ Aria ~*~
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i wouldn't go back out with him because your just a back up for him when he doesn't have everyone else, and i dont think you should because you cant just wait around for him and getting your feelings hurt everytime you guys break up, you both are better off as friends just being there for eachother is the best thing anyone could ever have. xox
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No, definitely don't go back out with him. He knows you're there and he can come back every time he's done messing around with the other chicks. When you become un-obtainable he's gonna want you so much more and then the ball is in your court. You can say no, you've met someone that respects you, or you can say yes, but no more of the bs games! Good luck :)
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If a guy is 2-timing you, why would you want to go out with him. If you have feelings for him, it might help to talk it over with him. Maybe the other girls he's "seeing" don't know that he's cheating. You can't assume people to be perfect, but cheating just to have "fun" is NOT an option. DOes he REALLY honestly love you or is he just messing around because he wants to "be with you"? Hope I helped!
~K~
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