Hey. My name is Kelly and im in 9th grade. I love listening to music(punk) and hanging out with friends.Im always here if you ever need advice.
love means...
a girl and guy were speeding over 100 mph on the road...
girl:slow down. im scared
guy: no this is fun
girl: no its not. please its to scary
guy: then tell me u love me
girl: fine, i love u, slow down!
guy: now give me a BIG hug.
*girl hugs him*
guy: can u take my helmet off & put it on? its bugging me.
In the paper the next day...
A motorcycle had crashed into a building because of break failure. 2 ppl were on it but only one survived. the truth was that halfway down the road, th guy realized that his breaks broke, but he didnt want to let the girl know. instead, he had her say she loved him and felt her hug 1 last time, then has her wear his helmet so that she would live even thought it meant that he would die.
Gender: Female
Location: ohio
Occupation: student
Age: 14
AIM: kelly41490
Yahoo: cjslover4e@yahoo.com
Member Since: January 6, 2005
Answers: 25
Last Update: January 19, 2005
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Hey im mike and 14/m. Well me and this girl we'll call joan have been dating on and off since october and we just got back together after 2 weeks. well i love her and all but im not sure where are relationship is going. We talk on the phone alot and we hang out like every week almost but i feel empty inside sometimes. I've hurt her once (emotionaly) and dont want to do it again can someone help?? (link)
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Hey mike is this mike s. from my spanish class?? i thnk it is!, just wondering bc if so you no what i think about ashley but if not then you should look for someone else. Obviously she is not the right person. YOu need someone who will be there for one at all times and not that keep dumoing you and then going back out! hope i could help kelly!
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hey you give good adive but as i was reading through one of your feedbacks i had a story to tell. I used to wear thongs during the day mostly everyday and sometimes at night (rarely though). Everyone wore thongs and i didnt think anything would happen. One week last septemebr i started feeling nausly sick and i thought oh w/e jus a cold. After a week of this i woke up w/ a 104 degree temp, my mom took me to the doctor and they found out ai had had a kidney infection. They gave me medicine didnt owrk came back the next week got a different medicine didnt work came back a week later got the same medicine, took one pill i became highly allergic i stopped breathing and had to go down to the ER and get shots and crap. Then they gave a me a different medicine and it finally cleared up. They decide to send me to an ultra sound jus to mae sure my kindeys were alright and theyw ere swollen. The doctors then send me to a Urologist and he says get two tests done. One they stick a tube through your vagina to your bladder fill it up and make sure your bladder doesnt relfex(hurt like a bi*tch) and hten another one w/ a huge IV needle through your arm and you lay 45 mins on a table and the doctors watch what your kidneys do w/ this nuclear medicine stuff. And now i have to go back to the urologist to make sure i dont have to get surgery to repair a reflex in my bladder or blockage in my kidney that cuased this bladder infection (from thongs) that turned into a kidney infection. LESSON LEARNED- thongs are not safe, but they are good on certain occasions. PS- bladder infections from people at my school to have bladder infections (that i know of) well jus a word to the wise so no one else has to go through the hell i've been through. Keep up the good work! (link)
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Wow, thats horrible. I don't wear thongs anymore either, except sometimes. I think that regular underwear is way more comfortable. I never knew that all of that could happen just form wearing underwear. Thanks for informing me. Now i can change my answer if someone else askds the same. I hope you get better. Keep me posted on your health. Thanks Kelly!
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My twin sister and I argue about 40% of the day. I don't like fighting with her, and lately I've been getting so mad at her I get destructive. I used to cut myself- (embarrassing, but true)- and I can't help but think that may be problem- destruction makes me feel better. I'm not sure. Can anyone give me ideas on how to channel my anger differently? (link)
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Cuting your self is never a good way to handle things. Try talking to someone about it, Maybe a best froined or someone else really close. If it helps, try talking to her personally. Just lay yours problems out on the table. It might be really hard, but sometimes its the only way to end problems. Hope i could help. Kelly!
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I have a friend, who I met about 4 months ago, and now I've discovered all she ever told me was a lie. This girl lied about where she came from, what she does with her time, about her parents, and everything else in her life. I would lie to know how to comfront her about this without pushing her away. (link)
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Just try asking her. Its the best way to not get confrontational with her. She could have a very good reason as to why she is lying. She could be in a witness protection program or something serious like that. People sometimes have good reasons as to why the make things up. It isnt always to hurt someone or trick them. Just ask her. Im sure she has a good reason. Hope i could hepl Kelly!
p.sp. write me back and tell me how you met this person i would like to know. Keep in touch
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Ok...there is this really cute guy at school. We know eachother and talk during show choir, but I REALLY like and am wondering what I should do. I mean, I go up to him to say something, but then, I get really nervous. I don't do this around normal guy friends though even though he's a friend. Not a CLOSE one though. (link)
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Hey. Don't worry. every girl does this when they like a guy. They just dont know how to approch them. Just try talking to him as if you've known him all your life and if you were bestfriends. Guys like it when they have something in common with a girl. Try to be someone fun to hang out with. Try asking him if he wants to go to a moie sometime. Tell him theirs a real scary one you want to see, then take your chance to act like your scared and use him as something to grab on to. lol It always works. Hope i could help. Kelly!
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ok.... well i have gone out with this guy 4 times and every time we brake up it is because of other girls!!! now he wants to go back out with me. he is always sweet and always says i love you to me. he always holds my hand and is always there for me.but the real question is ... should i go back oout with him or not? plz answer!!! (link)
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It seems like he runs back to you everytime he needs a girlfriend. If he really did love you, he woudnt keep dumping you. It might also be becaus ehe finds you boring. Maybe you should try doing something new. Make sure you are acting like his friends. Guys love it when you are really easy to talk to. Trt getting into sports. Guys love girls who they can talk about interests with. Hope i could help. Kelly!
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what should i do to get abs? i mean, im very skinny, but i just want to tone my stomach. what is the quickest and most effective way for me to accomplish this? please be specific. thanks (link)
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There are many ways to get abs. The most effective way is cruches. To work out the pouch on the bottem of your stomacxh, hold your feet in the air, and then do some crunches. It may hurt but it realy works.Also try going on some exercise websites. They have many free websites that show positons to urs to get abs. Also by cosmo girl magazines. They always have workouts in them. Hope i could help. Kelly!
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ok well i know this question is probably asked a million times but like how do you lose weight..like what foods can you eat other than salad? I'm soo sick of salad but thats like the only healthy thing i can think of? like and whats a fast way to lose weight like by staying inside cause theres snow everywhere where i am? thanks (link)
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Try eating alot of chickens and pastas. They are healthy to eat and they are full of protein. Try doing crunches every night. It wont show at first, but you will start to see great improvments. Hope i could help. Kelly!
p.s. Even if you can't lose weight, remember its whats on the inside and not the outside. People will like you for who you are!
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i really love my boyfriend, but he hasnt even kissed me yet and i dont wanna wait anymore. He is like to shy. I also like this other guy any way who would probably kiss me. The other boy is a bad boy so yeah.
What do i do?
I wanna break up but yet i dont want anyone to get hurt
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Well, You should try talking to your boyfriend. Maybe he hasn't kissed you yet because he is waiting for you to make the first move because he doesnt want you to feel uncomfortable. Try that and if it doesn't work, try going out with the other guy. Yoiur boyfriend would probably be hurt and upset but you have needs too. Hope i could help!kelly!
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I really love this guy alot and although people think Im crazy I know its true because all I think about is him. People have told him but Ive never told him myself in person. Hes single now which is cool but if I want him to like me like a girlfriend what do i do? (link)
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If oyu really want him to know how you feel, then your going to have to tell him. If you dont let him know, he might find someone else when the person is is right for him, is in hidding. Trust me, it has happened me and he me because i liked this one kid named cody for more than two years and i never let him know how a felt and he ended up going out with someone else. I still feel like i made a huge mistake by not telling him and you shouldnt do the same! kelly
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is 12 too young to wear thongs? (link)
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no, A thong is just underwear. All it does is kide underlines when you wear tight pants. Theres nothing wrong with it. kelly
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i'm 13/f and i weigh 115, but i really want to lose 15 lbs. I'm not sure if it's like unhealthy because ive never used them and don't know anyone who has. I know diet pills aren't healthy and don't work, but are diet patches the same way? and how would i be able to get them, cuse i can't just ask my parents to buy me diet patches, they deffinatly wouldn't do that. and i don't want to use them if it's not compleatly safe. help please? thanks -*jeanine (link)
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You shouldn't use them at all. Alot of dietary pills and patches are unsafe to use if you are under a certain age. Also, you are way to skinny to be using them anyways. Dietary uses are not to be used if you are only looking to lose 10-20, they should be used if you are looking to lose a great amount of weight. Just try to exercise of join a sport! hope i could help! kelly
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can u get a virus from going into an aol chat room? or talking to someone that is in it? thanks alot (link)
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Yes, you can. By opening up a instant messenger by an unknown user can bring in tons of viruses. Don't open any websites they send you. im them first. As far as just going in to chat rooms im really not sure. Hope i could help! kelly
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okay there is this guy i like at school we'll call him erik so anyways erik and i have gotten to be closer friends and i mean we hug and we'll put our arms around each other and walk down the halls like that till we see a teacher or get to close to the office, im not suer if he is flirting or not i think he is but still not sure ya no? if it helps he calls me home grl and things like that and he smells AMAZING! what ever colone he wears smells really good on him! so i still dont know what to do cuz he doesnt have aim so i couldnt talk to him like that plz help! (link)
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Yeah, that is definetly a sign of flirting. But, Is he one of those guys that does that to every girl. Beause a kid that i liked , did the same kind of flirting and i found out he did the same with just about every other girl. But if hes not that type, then try calling him. The first thing to do to try to get closer is maybe go to the movies. But try to see a scary one though. It always works. ha. Hope i could help. Kelly!
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I am 14/f and don't tell me i`ve made the biggest mistake of my life...i know i've made a mistake and i`m gonna follow my responsibilities. My boyfriend, who I have been with for 11 months, has been in jail for 6... he just got out and we really like each other you know? Well, while he was in jail-i had a little side thing...with a 16 year old black male...lets call him mike..me and mike really liked each other and did it a lot..but when we did it on the first day of my period-something happened. Last night, my stomach was hurting sooo bad while talking to my boyfriend. So bad that my mom took me to the emergency room. She decided to give me a pregnancy test..and it`s positive. I`m nervous and all and 6 weeks pregnate in the 9th grade... I have the money and skills to support it..but MIKE doesn`t want anything to do with it. My dad wants it aborted but I want it...my mom does too. What would you do in my situation? And how do i explain to my boyfriend who is trying to get his life back on track? (link)
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wow, your definetly right you made a ,mistake. The first thing you should do it thank you mother for supporte=ing you. Since mike probably wont be there for you all all the whole time, your mother will most likely be like the other parent. Next you need to sit down with your dad and apologize and tell him your true feelings towards the baby and get him to understand. As far as your boyfriend in jail goes, you should dump him and find someone who can be there to support you metally through your whole pregnancy and not in jail. Plus, im sure that the man in jail is too old for you anyways. YOu could do better. hope i could help. Kelly!
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ok im 13 and my stepsister is 14!! we hang out all the time and shes really cool and i love her to death but i think im becoming jealous of her! she just started highschool and seniors already asked her out, shes capitan of the freshman cheerleading squad, she's really pretty and popular, is always invited to partys and has her own partys, she has alot of guy friends and girl friends, always has guys over at the house, always has a bf!! my dad and her mom spoil her rotten! anything she asks for she gets! and everything i ask for i have to earn!!! my parents always pay attention to her and not me and i feel left out of things! shes even going to california! shes already had her bf spend the nite! and its not fair! and i don't know wat do! please help me!!! (link)
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You should tell her how you feel and ask her how she does it. Try taking some tips from her. In a litle bit of time, you could be just like her. But then again its always good to be an individual. hope i could help. Kelly!
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I went out with a guy for 3 months and we eventually told eachother we loved eachother and we both meant it. he dumped me and i have never gotten over it. Recently my friend told me that he is thinking about getting back together. Should we try again or just stay friends? (link)
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Look, if you believe that your love for this kid is really strong, then you should try again. He could be the one for you and if you let him go you might never meet that perfect person again. From experience, Kelly!
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my best friend new i liked this kid and she still went with him and i told her i still like him nd she like rubes it in my face so i told him... and now she i smad and thinks im stealing him.. wut should i do? (link)
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The same thing happened to me. My friend confronted me and accused me of trying to take away her boyfriend. So i told her that i needed to get the truth out and let him know how i really felt. She understood how i was feeling because she was a true frined. If your frined doesn't do the same then she is not a true friend and you should find someone who will respect your feelings. Hope i could helo. Kelly!
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Well I have this friend and everytime I talk she just says shut up or no one cares or something mean but sometimes she says she is joking after she says it but most of the time she doesn't.I don't really have the courage to go and tell her how I feel because she is not the kind of person that would actually care.Or she would just tell me something mean..What should I do?Sorry if it is long! (link)
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Hey i ha a frined just like that. She says the same to me and always puts me down. She always said she was kidding but it didnt seem like that. so i started hanging out with new people. When she relized that we weren't really frineds anymore, she came back to me and asked me why. So i told her the truth and told her i couldn't have a frined that made me have a low self estem. Now we are frineds again and she hasn't put me down since. I hope i could hope. Kelly!
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heu guys! any help would be appreciated... for the past couple months i've been getting really bad headaches, and it hurts to look at light or hear noises and stuff. Well I think they might be migraines. I try to tell mom but she won't listen. Is there anything i can do at home to make them better? and medicine doesn't work... (link)
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The samething was happening to me. My eyes were sensitive to light and everysound made my head pound even worse. Also it felt like i could feel my heary beating through my head and it hurt really bad. I ended up in the hospital because of it. But they found out it was nothing major. It was just something called a severe tension headache. Try taking ibuprofen. It helped alot. Well, hope i could help. kelly!
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