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my best friend new i liked this kid and she still went with him and i told her i still like him nd she like rubes it in my face so i told him... and now she i smad and thinks im stealing him.. wut should i do?
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tell her that u had him 1st and if she gets mad at u, well... forget it, just go out don't agree if shes still ur frend, talk to her! look 4 another guy thats just as hot and cute and that has almost the same personallidee as her!
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First off. There's a rule that bestfriends don't go after your other bestfriends crush. I think you should stop telling her who you like. Goes to show who you can trust and can't trust. But, it sounds like she might be a little jealous of you getting close to her boyfriend. I don't think you need to explain anything to her, because she's the one who went behind your back and went for your crush. I think you should tell her that she really hurt you because you liked this guy.
♥ Krissy
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shes just jealous, so tell her that your not stealing him,but keep in touch with the guy tho
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thats not a very good friend if she rubs it in your face you wernt stealing him you were just telling him how you felt and thats fine she has no right to be mad at you so dont let her get under your skin i hope i helped please rate
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you guys shouldnt fight over a guy...your best friends,just tell her that you knew that i liked him or something like that
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The same thing happened to me. My friend confronted me and accused me of trying to take away her boyfriend. So i told her that i needed to get the truth out and let him know how i really felt. She understood how i was feeling because she was a true frined. If your frined doesn't do the same then she is not a true friend and you should find someone who will respect your feelings. Hope i could helo. Kelly!
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well hun i dont think you too should fight over a guy.. trust me its not worth it... just tell your friend that your sorry but you liked him and you were mad there she still went with him... you dont want to fight over a guy... guys are always gonna be gone and then back but best friends only come every now and then... hope i helped...
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did you like him first? if she did then yeah yur are kinda stealing him!! but if not, tell you friend how you feel. " i liked him first so how could i steal him from you" hope i helped. - snoopy
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hey, if she knew you liked him first and now your stealing him back from her then she has no fucken reason for being madd at her..she started it!
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Well tell your friend that it was not fair she went behind your back and done that. Then make friends with the kid and then MAYBE he would come to you.
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she is no friend if sh ewent out with him while you liked him... although she does have a right to be mad at you.. apologize to her for interferign in THEIR relationship and tell her that if she was a true friend she would have put ur emotions before hooking up with him in the first place.. but do not i repeat do not ruin a freindship just cause they won't break up!!!
and their are plenty of other guys out there!!
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Love. It's one of those things that can both make and break friendships. Why does it have this mysterious power over us? Because it's a feeling, a sensation, and something we cannot stop. Love is uncontrollable, unmatchable, unbeatable and immortal. Sounds like both you and your friend are captured in its math. Don't panic because not all friendships come to a crashing end because of feelings but your friend looks like she's not trying very hard to keep the puzzle pieces together. Let me elaborate, if she is rubbing it in your face that she's the one dating him, then she obviously is trying to get back at you. Maybe she is envious because perhaps he has feelings for you and he's feeling threatened. I bet your friend thinks if she makes you feel bad then maybe you'll give up and she'll have him all to herself. The key to figuring out this situation is to pretend like it doesn't bother you at all. Your friend will eventually stop because she will relize it doesn't do anything to you. Whatever you do, don't fight her on it or admit to any anger whatsoever. Your friend will be mad knowing that it's not breaking you. Show her you're stronger then she thinks and won't fall for her little foolish games. Oh, and good luck getting the guy hun ;] If you ever need advice, feel free to ask me directly at my column. ♥ iCY
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If she is gonna go after that same guy that you like then i dont think that you should tell her about guys that you like anymore. I mean, i know its nice to be able to tell your friends about the guys that you like, but....you kno. I have freinds like that right now...if you tell them who you like, then that will make them want to go after that guy that you like EVEN MORE. Its pretty retarded. LOL
Just remember....any chance you get, to go out with a guy that you like, then i think that you should go for it, cuz if you wait then everyone will have their chance with that special someone...and you wont. Get it?
~Sam~
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Explain to her that you are very sorry and that you'll back off. Tell her that you never meant for her to think that you were "stealing her boyfriend" Tell her that you aren't going to let a guy get in the middle of a great friendship. * Hope I Helped * Love Always, Ali *
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