hey im 14/f and live in missou my friends all ask me for advice and most of the time it really does help them so i think if you ask me questions i can really help you too and im not one of those mean ppl that anwsers qestions im nice because i rock and i said so lol jk but i have red/ ornge hair w/e u want to say and i have blue eyes and im 5'5" i hope i help and ask me ne thing because i dont care what it is because im sure i can find somthing to tell u again because i rock lol
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my two friends that i love have been together for 6 months feb. would have been 7. anyway he just asked her for a break they both still love each other and all but i was wondering what break really meant. Like will they be able to see other people or what are the terms to a break? (link)
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hey a break is when they just need to have some time away from each other to think about thing they can see other people and it really wouldnt matter but usually it is just so you can get somtime away from them to think hope i helped
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Ok, so this chick is talking to me.. and we have been talking for a while and I told her that I loved her, so yeah, every thing was cool then she started giving off signs that she feels the same way, we start talking about Sex, and family and stuff like that, then when I finally decide we are really close, I tell her how i really feel, she said its sweet but shes just not ready for a relationship.. then yeah, shes been telling me I'm a great guy and I'm sweet and stuff, but should she really be doing this kind of stuff.. or is she just being a tease.. playing with my emotions?
BTW I'm 17 and have never had someone tell me they Love me :( and she knows this...
what should I do about this.. I really need help! :( (link)
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listen if she loved you she would have said it back and remember even if you have never had anyone say that they will you will find some one who will and you will feel the same way so keep looking and i hope i helped please rate
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In the aftermath of the tsunami, the eternal theological question is again posed: what sort of God permits the slaughter of blameless humanity on such a scale?
On the abundant available evidence does it not seem that, if there is or was a God, it is now malevolent, mad or dead?
No, religious nutters please - this is a serious question I'm posing.
Dr Kesha (link)
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yes there is a god it may seem like a horrible thing on what happened but remember everything happens for as reason and its what he wants to happen to have somthing better happen it was in his plan i hope i helped please rate
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aryt well bak in september.. i started highschool(freshman) and met a ton of new people.. well there was this boy on my bus (well call him john-hes a junior)well i liked him a little. we started talking and we became really good friends. well he went out w| my best friend, and i went out w| his best friend.. but things got really messed up. i think i still have a feeling for him that i might like him a little bit.. and he flirts alot. he's liek my big brother tho and i dont wanna ruin a friendship. idk if i should continue liking him, bc it could turn out to bea great relationship.. or should i just get over himand keep or friendship? hes not the kind of guy to use me, becuz he told me everything wen he was going outW| my best friend, and he isnt the type of guy to do that bc hes been hurt before and so have i. my best friend doesnt like him anymore so im not worryed about her being mad. WUT SHOULD I DO !?!?!? (link)
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listen i think you should just ask him out and if he says yes then tell him from the begining that you want thing to be the same between you 2 after you guys break up and if he says no tell him you dont want him acting all strange around you like some people do and you still wanna be his friend he sounds like a really good guy i hope you get what you want and just remember that if he really does like you then i bet he will say yes and mabey if he says no its because of the same thing that he doesnt want the friendship being ruined i hope i helped please rate
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I overheard one of my friends telling a boy how I had criend over what she oviously thought was nothing and laughing over it. Sometimes she runs away from some of her other friends (who are also my friends) and me with her bitchy friend, then pretends it was nothing and that Im over reacting. Then she is really friendly again.She has done this so many times now I secretly don't like her at all. However, she is really popular and I think if I stopped being her friend all my friends would still be with her as she has this way of making people side with her. I don't know what to do about it..(Sorry about the length).
Zoinatrobe. (link)
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listen its not fair for you she is not a good fried and you need to dump her and your true friends will stick by you in this and then they will relize that she is doing the same thing to them so you should jusyt move on i hope i helped please rate
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heu guys! any help would be appreciated... for the past couple months i've been getting really bad headaches, and it hurts to look at light or hear noises and stuff. Well I think they might be migraines. I try to tell mom but she won't listen. Is there anything i can do at home to make them better? and medicine doesn't work... (link)
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well if your mom wont contact a doctor then go to your school nurse about it and mabey she will tell your mom because if shes not beliveing you mabey she will believe an adult and untill then when you get these head aches my dad has 800 milligram ibprofen i kno meds wont work but mabey it will help and dont listen to loud music or look at light it will only make it worse i hope i helped please rate
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my best friend new i liked this kid and she still went with him and i told her i still like him nd she like rubes it in my face so i told him... and now she i smad and thinks im stealing him.. wut should i do? (link)
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thats not a very good friend if she rubs it in your face you wernt stealing him you were just telling him how you felt and thats fine she has no right to be mad at you so dont let her get under your skin i hope i helped please rate
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Ok one of my best friends best friend went out with this guy for about 3 months and they broke up about 2 weeks ago. While they were going out I started to like him a little more, and now since they have broken up I like him ALOT. But the problem is I havent ever really talked to him before. He is in 1 of my classes, how do I get him to notice me? Then just a couple of days ago I just found out my best friend likes him and she is the "it" girl of the school like all of the guys like her and everything. And she knows that I like him. Knowing her she is probably ganna ask him out sometime and he is probably going to say yes. what do I do about that too...anyways He is tall cury hair fast runner and hott ( kinda like an abercrombie or some type of modle) lol and I am short blonde blue eyes and ya. Well I would really like some help! thx a bunch!! I rate high*
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listen if your friend knows that you like him and she might ask him out any ways then mabey shes not such a good friend i mean if i knew my friend liked some one i wouldnt ask them out untill they said that they wouldnt care and if she is goingto be that way i say find a new friend but if you think thats not the case i understand you just need to be yourself around him and start up a convo and you have the same class so you already have a conersation starter i hope i helped please rate me
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my name's gabby im 14
i was dating this guy named brett for 7 days he's 14 also
everything was going great... then it got rocky... we broke up and he said there is a slight possiblity we could hook back up but it wouldn't be now...
here it goes....
I was dating this guy! his 14 and im 14 and we've known each other since we were 5 ( but have never been really close friends) he was perfect for me!! i thought everything was going good! we both agreed that we would talk about everything.. we set bouyndries... he even told me he would never break up with me!! we started talking during class (text messeging) and we were trying to plot a time when it would be great to start telling each other we loved each other ... we agreed that when ever one of us felt that we loved each other we would tell the other one but not expect it said in return! after 5 days of going out i asked him how long he thought we would go out and he said at the minimum a year and i was liek whoa thats a long time but if we really liek each other it could happen right?? well the next day he texted me and said that we needed to talk that night
and i asked him what it was about and he said we'll talk about it later and so i asked him if he was gunna break up with me and he said no and so i was still a lil worried about it and then that after noon after school he told me he would call me back .. and he never did... that night he told my friend to tell me that i needed to move on... so i texted him and said that i loved him and that i would never cheat on him ( since someone told him i was back with my x) and that i would never do anythign to hurt him and that i would give anythign if me and him would hook back up... like 20 minutes ago i texted him and told him that i still cared about him and that if he ever needed anythign that i was would be there...
all i really want is for me and him to go back out... he means everything to me! all i want is a way to tell him that i love him and he means the world to me and i would give anythign to be back with him but i don't want to sound clingy or desperate...
should i call him and find out exactly why he ended that relationship? should i wait for hiim? should i move on?? was i wrong in telling him i love him? is it worth hooking back up?
my friend suggested that i take a break for guys for about a month and forget about brett... but i don't think i can i need him in my life as my boyfriend!!
i know no one will ever understand how great he makes me feel... and i know no one could understand why i criied for 5 hours...
HOW DO I ASK HIM BACK OUT?
please help me!! as soon as you can
thank you!!
x3 always,
Wanting him back
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listen hun it was a week im srry if this sounds harsh im not mean i swear i think i twas just a lil bit early to tell him you love him or know for sure if you loved him at all guys tend to tell you lies to get on your good side and have you whipped so you will do what they want you too i say move on i understand that you care formhim but i also relized his type he said he would never break up with you and that was a lie i know how this works its happened to me once before and i found out that after a few months he didnt even like me any more so move on i swear you will get over him i promisei hope i helped
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my boyfriend asked me to marry him...i love him so much hes my world.... but i dont want to tell other people because i dont like being center of attention and im just not ready to tell the good news.... but in another way m boyfriend well fianca wants to tell the world abt it.... ive already told him what i thought and he says hes ok with it but he keeps bringing it up.... over and over again that he wants to tell everyone what should i do?
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hey hun its ok if you feel that you are ready and are old enough then its ok if you dont want to tell then whole world then thats ok too just tell him how you feel about it again im sure he will under stand thjat telling the whole world wont make you happy and since he loves you he will probably resect that and respect you i hope i helped please rate
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Is it normal to be best friends with a girl you've known for half-a year?? This girl and I met in eighth grade this year, and I've become very attached to her. We're both best friends and we tell each other everything. We're like sisters. Is that normal to be this close after a short time?? (link)
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yes its ok i have become very attached to my best friend when we met and we still our its awsome but its ok and dont worrie about it and telling her everything its ok it helps buil a strong relationship its all good i hope i helped please rate
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Months ago I meet this guy,fell in love,he was the 1 who said he loved me 1st!! Then we broke-up,but we'd still tell each other we loved each other. Every time we were together something would happen ether we'd kiss or have sex!! (this is after months of being apart) But I'v told him am not a sex toy. & Resently I told him I still love him, he said that he does love me but he doesn't know how strongly, in what way or if he loves me like I love him any more!! I asked him what he wanted to happen between us but he said "I don't know just now" Am so confused & I know no1 else can tell me how he fells but can some1 at less give me some advise on what to do?? (link)
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just wit it out hun ok he might be going through some bad times or he might just truley not knows how he feels about you 2 because he might be getting over you but if he does just remember it was never ment to be and there are lots of other guys out there that you can choses frome but there is going to be one out there that feels excactly the same way you do about them mabey stronger and when you find heim you will know he is the one for you but intill then keep looking and have fun while your doing it i hope i helped please rate
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ok im a 13/f and i have 2 bffs...one is a 14/f and one is a 13/m. We r all really good friends but lately it seems like they r doin lots of stuff w/ out me and keepin secrets from me. But yet my b-day is in feb. so is there a chance they r doin sum kind of plannin for my birthday or they r jus leavin me out??? plz answer honestly...ill rate good! (link)
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i cant alwasys kno what they are thinking but you should just ask them whats going on and just talk to them about it if they are good friends they will understand and mabey they are doing somthing for your birthday so i would not be worried but if they are still like this after defenetly talk to them because you want to know the truth and mabey they dont relize they are doing it i hope i helped please rate
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i am moving all the way across the counrty....and i dont know how i should tell my best friend! :'( plez help me (link)
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just tell her sooner so you guys can spend more time together and she wil figure it out sooner or later when your gone and she tryies to call and someone different answres the phone so just tell her sooner so your last time can be good i hpoe i helped and i hope that you like your new school and make lots of friends please rate
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Hey! ok there is this boy that i really really like. his name is Tom. we have chorus together. Half my friends tell me he likes me and then other people say he doesn't. I saw him and my friend Mike walking outside in our courtyard going to their next class. Which was Chorus for Tom. Then i came out and Mike was like go out with her Tom just go up to her and ask her out its not that hard and Tom started to blush and was laughing and smiling. Then in chorus all my friends needed help on this worksheet. I helped my friend Nick, then my friend Emliy and then i was helping my friend Julia and i was looking at her paper and i looked up out of the corner of my eye and i saw him staring at me. i have caught him staring at me several times. We always look at each other and when the other one looks we turn away. Then about 2 or 3 people say he doesn't like me. Then sometimes i also get the feeling he doesn't like me. I dont know what to think. What should i do? (link)
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hey hun it sound like he really likes you and if you like him you should defently go for it because if you stall he might not like you any more or might get taken so i say go out with himn and have a great time i hope i helped please rate
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There's this boy that I've liked for over a year now. We stopped talking around May `04 because I lied to him. It was a long distance relationship btw. I lied to him about everything, besides my name age n stuff! I really loved him allot. He stopped talking to me, and hasn't been online which means he got his s/n changed. I have his cell number but it's always off, and I have his house number, I want to call him.. But I'm afraid I have no idea what to say, Cuz we haven't talked for a real long time cuz of what I did. What should I do? (link)
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well hes hurt that ou lied to him and hes also mad i cant do much for you unless you call his house number then i would tell you to say that you are compleatly sorry that you lied to him and that if you told him the truth you were going to be afriad that he wouldnt like you and that you love him and your sorry and you always will be cuz you never meant to hurt him and hun next time dont lie because that ruins a lot of good relationships i should know
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i have a bf and icant tell him why i love him i mean its heard because i dont know what to say i mean i love him i sware i havent ever had this of a stong feelings for a guy as i do for him what should I do PLEASE HELP ME!!!! (link)
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simple tell him that there are no words to express your love for him that way your telling him the complete truth and you cant get blamed for lying hope i helped please rate me
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I really like this girl at school, and shes going out with my best friend. They were going to break up but they never did. And in they are crazy in love with each other. I dont think they really are in love tho because my best friend had gone out with someone else and he said he loved her but than they broke up and he was fine. Im 12 and im a boy. (link)
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you may like this girl but its not worth losing a friendship over so i say wait till they break up and if he seems ok and acts normal make sure he doesnt like her any more then ask him if it would be ok if you asked her out but before you ask her out be sure that she likes you too or that she gives a little indication that she does cuz u will feel rejected if she says no hope i helped you please rate me thanks
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i sometimes feel uncomfortable singing infront of people! how do i over come this fear?!
signed,
Afraid2Sing (link)
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hey use the famous pictur them in there underwear thing but make sure its not some one extreamly hot because youll end up druling on your selfor any on really ugly or fat then u miht judst gag i hope i helped please rate me
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ok does anyone know any websites where you can like use a picture of yourself and put different hair on it or something??? does anyone know what im talking about??? i really wanna give myselfbangs but i wanna see what it looks like first! so it would be great if someone knew of any websites like that! thanks!!
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i think that there might be a link on bored. com hope i helped please rate
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