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Why does this always happen to me?
Ok, so this chick is talking to me.. and we have been talking for a while and I told her that I loved her, so yeah, every thing was cool then she started giving off signs that she feels the same way, we start talking about Sex, and family and stuff like that, then when I finally decide we are really close, I tell her how i really feel, she said its sweet but shes just not ready for a relationship.. then yeah, shes been telling me I'm a great guy and I'm sweet and stuff, but should she really be doing this kind of stuff.. or is she just being a tease.. playing with my emotions?
BTW I'm 17 and have never had someone tell me they Love me :( and she knows this...
what should I do about this.. I really need help! :(
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Maybe you should keep on trying and holding on longer,and maybe she'll be ready the next time you ask.Its worth a shot.
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listen if she loved you she would have said it back and remember even if you have never had anyone say that they will you will find some one who will and you will feel the same way so keep looking and i hope i helped please rate
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Girls can find you sweet and not have any attraction towards you. I know. You probably are a nice guy,but shes trying to find a way to get you out of the way without hurting you too bad. Don't say I love you. Ever. UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES. It complicates things. Take it slow and say hey look if you don't like me like that,do you just find me to be a friend or what's your deal? Find out dude.
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this girl might be a tease.. and no its not right how she is doing this to you.. she must have something more goin on wit her that you dont know about.. cause sounds like you like eachother.. and she dont really have a reason not to get wit you.. and i dont know if i helped much but i tried.. hope thngs get better try talkin to her bout the siuation also.. ~*DEZ*~
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Hey i dont know if she is really playing with your emotions or what. but dont get to where she is all your life is. because then its just gonna hurt more if you find out if she really is playing with your emotions. What did she say when you told her that you loved her? i mean i no she didnt say she loved you to but how did she act? Just keep talking to her and you never know it could be that shes afraid to have a relationship because she might be afraid to get hurt.
Hope i helped... if you need more help or just wanna talk bout it all im me at xojaymilynnexo
Much love hope i helped
Jaymi Lynne
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Don't become dependent on her. She could be playing with your emotions, but chances are she just doesn't like you as much as you like her or she really isn't prepared for a relationship. All you can do is wait it out, you can't control her feelings. Just try to make her feel comfortable around you, and eventually you'll realize you two were meant to just be friends or something will happen and she will reach a point where she's ready to be with you. Hope I helped.
-Farren
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I think she might be playing with you. Sorry, but, I've seen girls at my school do the same thing. It feels good to know that someone really likes you, but when she heard you say that you loved her, she probably knew that it was over. I'm sure she didn't mean for you to fall in love with her. She just wanted the attention, and the flirting. By the way, I'm fifteen, and I've never had anyone tell me they love either. You're not alone! Just wait, I'm sure the right girl will come along someday soon, and then you can both be happy. Maybe you should tell this girl what you thought she was doing, and see if it was a missunderstanding. I wish I could help more! I wish you the very best! Just find out what she meant, and look around for that someone special, who might be right under your nose, you just didn't notice! Lots of Luck!!
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I think maybe she is playing with your emotions but subconciously. I'm a 16 year old girl and i've been in the same predicament as you have, except the guy was my best friend. For years he had been complimenting me, flirting with me and making me think he lieks me. Then on Valentines day i wrote him a note saying how much i liked him. He wrote back saying he didn't like me like that. Of course i was heartbroken, but after a couple of months, i got over it. He and i are still best friends but now i know how he feels so i can move on. You have to get a straight answer from her...ask her if there is any way you would be able to go out in the future, if she says no, move on. And don't worry, you are only 17, you will find that special someone that you love and that loves you too...it's just a matter of time.
~Perfect Pixie
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Hey ok so heres the thing try finding someone that can commit trust me i have never had anyone show their feelings to me either so i know how you feel but go around look for some different girls and stuff like that shes not worth it if she wont commit to you you can talk to me on aim and i can give you like day to day advie my sn is amelia12290
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