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Member Since: January 6, 2005
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Last Update: January 11, 2005
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hey,
well ok i am 18 years old and i have a boyfriend that i really like but lately i cant stop thinking of my good friend and its weird cuz shez a girl but i think i might really like her but then when i think of what would happen if i did go out with her well i'd be scared because how would my family take to me liking someone of my own sex? i really need to know what i should do plz help and fast (link)
umm,thats different.Well give it time,it could just be a "phase".If it doesnt go and ur pretty sure bout this,then talk to your family.I meen if you are gay,then hopefully your family will understand.Its nature and its not your falt so dont be ashamed.


Im 14/f and lately ive been have a high amount of white discharge stuff. Ive had my period and stuff..but i don't know if this is normal..is it?? Plz Help! (link)
ask your mom,she might know if its nothing to worry bout or if its somehting the doctors can help u with.


i like this kid .. and hes like "in love" with this other girl named Lindsay .. but idk he seems like he doesnt some days cause ill be like "so where is lindsay?" and hes like "who cares?" sometimes i get the feeling he likes me .. but i dont think im pretty .. im 5'4.5 blue eyes dirty blonde hair normal weight .. dress nice outgoing sarcastic .. but what do guys like? .. i mean idk .. he walks with me and gives me hugs and hes like "damn you give me more hugs then you gave your ex boyfriend" but i like walking with him and giving him hugs but i dont want to ruin our friendship but i think the feelings will like always be there .. i dont want to approach him and be like "i like you" but i dont want to keep standing there pretending i dont when i do .. and now hes going to alternative--- FYI he didnt do anything .. he just stuck up for his brother
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Just tell him.Hes obvisouly telling you he likes you by everything you said he does.


Recently, I've been acting so annoying. It's starting to irritate all my friends and my boyfriend and I aren't getting along because of it. I just moan, whine, repeat myself and act stupid all the time. I can't help it, I never used to be like that. How do I stop? (link)
well,maybe this is just temporary.Get your friends to help.Have them tell you when you start to be annoying,so then you can catch yourself and hopefully stop.Its like breaking bad habbits.


Hey yeah.....My best friend likes my boyfirend...and shes trying to brake us up and I dont know what to do...cause i love my boyfriend to death and I don't want to lose him....and my best friend I dont want to lose her either I don't know what to do please help...I rate high!!


-Amanda Marie

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well,to me a best friends doesnt try to do something like that,so maybe you should think twice about her,or talk it over with her and tell her how you feel about this.


Well, the KC metro area...
I go to the movies often enough,
Not much of a drinker or Dancer - don't really like smokey rooms so Clubbing and bars aren't usually my thing.
Anyone have any good suggestions as to how to kill time with friends or with a date here in the Kansas City / Overland Park area? (link)
well,try something different than you usauly do,and you might find you like it.Or do something your date wants to do with you.if you like sports,the games are always fun to go to.Or just hang out at a friends house.


i have a bf and icant tell him why i love him i mean its heard because i dont know what to say i mean i love him i sware i havent ever had this of a stong feelings for a guy as i do for him what should I do PLEASE HELP ME!!!! (link)
Just say it,its alot easier.But if you dont just want to say it.maybe sit down with him and tell him you need to talk to him about how you feel,and if he feels the same way or is good enough for you he wont be a jerk about it and you'll be glad you told him.And perhaps your relationship could go further.


heu guys! any help would be appreciated... for the past couple months i've been getting really bad headaches, and it hurts to look at light or hear noises and stuff. Well I think they might be migraines. I try to tell mom but she won't listen. Is there anything i can do at home to make them better? and medicine doesn't work... (link)
Try getting more sleep,if that doesnt help you may have something worse, than you think and could need a doctors opinion.But u never know,you could just need some prescripton medicine or lay off the computer screens and tv,till your headaches go away.


ok, well one of my best friends in the world REALLY likes me and i kind of like him to, but hes not exactly the best person to have a relationship with. you see he has a bad reputation for goin out with girls just to "get somewhere" and then dumping them after he goes as far as they r willing to. he also has been known to get a little crazy at parties and drink every now and then just to drink. since i am the typical "goody goody" it doesnt make a whole lot of sense. he knows i dont want to "go" even close to as far as he has gone before, i wont drink... ever, and im not a party animal like him at all. easy decision, right? wrong. he claims that he wants to change all of that bout himself and wants a girlfriend like me to help him do that. he is truely sincere and really sweet and always there for me when i need him. i dont know what to do! if thats not hard enough, he lives almost an hour away and cant drive yet (neither can i) so the whole seeing each other face to face is kind of not gunna happen much. my parents arent exactly fond of him either, and im sooo busy right now with sports and school that im afraid i wouldnt be able to be a "good girlfriend" and that if he hasnt or doesnt change it will just get messy and ill loose a best friend. should i take a chance and see what happens, explain that being best friends is how i want it to stay, or explain that right now timing is just bad and delay the relationship until i know he has changed? (link)
Dont be his girlfriend.instead continue to be his best friend and help him with his problem,and when he changes and really stays that way,and if he still likes you and you still like him you could consider being his gf.


well you see we broke up because we need time to our selfs. and he said we need a brake and he said it possible to get together again but i think hes not going to change cause i think he doesnt wanna be with me. but he told me you dont know how much i love you and your son. so how would i get him back i love him so much that i cant explain the love i have for him
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Tell him how you feel,if his response isnt what you want,then you no hes not the one,even if its hard to let go you'll get over it eventually.


In the aftermath of the tsunami, the eternal theological question is again posed: what sort of God permits the slaughter of blameless humanity on such a scale?

On the abundant available evidence does it not seem that, if there is or was a God, it is now malevolent, mad or dead?

No, religious nutters please - this is a serious question I'm posing.

Dr Kesha (link)
Yes he exists.Everything that happens even if its bad,happens for the better.It always has if you think about it.


Ok, so this chick is talking to me.. and we have been talking for a while and I told her that I loved her, so yeah, every thing was cool then she started giving off signs that she feels the same way, we start talking about Sex, and family and stuff like that, then when I finally decide we are really close, I tell her how i really feel, she said its sweet but shes just not ready for a relationship.. then yeah, shes been telling me I'm a great guy and I'm sweet and stuff, but should she really be doing this kind of stuff.. or is she just being a tease.. playing with my emotions?

BTW I'm 17 and have never had someone tell me they Love me :( and she knows this...

what should I do about this.. I really need help! :( (link)
Maybe you should keep on trying and holding on longer,and maybe she'll be ready the next time you ask.Its worth a shot.


all my friends want me to go out with this boy and he's like my best friend but now im sort of liken him more than a friend and i know he likes me too but like when he comes to school he dresses with like sweat pants and never brushes him hair and he would look so much cuter if he wore like jeans or something..how do i tell him to dress better without hurtin his feelings and not imbarassing me? please help! (link)
Why dont you ask him to go to the mall with you,and you could help him out without him even knowing, by saying something like,"hey this would look hot on you" or something that'll make him buy it.Its a good way to get him to dress better without hurting his feelinings.




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