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bie or straight
hey,
well ok i am 18 years old and i have a boyfriend that i really like but lately i cant stop thinking of my good friend and its weird cuz shez a girl but i think i might really like her but then when i think of what would happen if i did go out with her well i'd be scared because how would my family take to me liking someone of my own sex? i really need to know what i should do plz help and fast
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Did you ever consider that maybe you are bisexual? This is nothing you should be ashamed of, and don't let anyone make you think you should. This is something you can't necessarily control and it's wrong for anyone to tell you you are wrong for that. It's like telling someone they are wrong for having athsma.. they can't really help it. If your parents are good respectful people, and love you.. they will except you for who you are.. and they should know about this sooner than later.. but, you don't have to tell them sooner.. you can take your time, sometimes when people are more proned to be discriminatory like that it's harder for them to accept. Don't rush anything, take it slow, and see if this is what you really want.
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If you like her, you like her. You can't change the feelings for someone and you can't tell your heart not to like someone, because it just does. Your family might be a little mad at first, but your their daughter, they can't be mad at you forever. You should tell your boyfriend, he'll probably be cool with the hole idea.
♥ Krissy
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i thik your bi if you have a bf and like your friend.hope this helped.
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well sounds like your bi and i am too and it took a long time for me to tell my family.. well it bothered me a long time cause i didnt tell em..but wait til its a right time and when you think its okay for your family to know.. well if you think you should go with her.. hop i helped..~*DEZ*~
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He'd love the threesome idea. Your family will survive.
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umm,thats different.Well give it time,it could just be a "phase".If it doesnt go and ur pretty sure bout this,then talk to your family.I meen if you are gay,then hopefully your family will understand.Its nature and its not your falt so dont be ashamed.
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unless you are willing to hide all of that from your family, they will just have to accept the fact that you are bi/lesbian. they will have to live with that fact whether they like it or not.
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