Question Posted Wednesday January 5 2005, 11:17 pm
Hey yeah.....My best friend likes my boyfirend...and shes trying to brake us up and I dont know what to do...cause i love my boyfriend to death and I don't want to lose him....and my best friend I dont want to lose her either I don't know what to do please help...I rate high!!
AskColleen answered Thursday January 6 2005, 10:49 pm: Have you tried talking to your friend? Because that should be what you should do before you do anything too extreme. If you have tried talking to her about it and she still tries to break you up, I'd try setting her up with someone who you think she'd like because maybe then she would forget about your boyfriend.
I really hope I helped because I'm kind of inexperienced on this level.
Jentic17 answered Thursday January 6 2005, 8:30 pm: well,to me a best friends doesnt try to do something like that,so maybe you should think twice about her,or talk it over with her and tell her how you feel about this. [ Jentic17's advice column | Ask Jentic17 A Question ]
X0Xbrittanymariex0x answered Thursday January 6 2005, 5:36 pm: That seems like a problem... tey talking to your friend explaine that you want to stay with your boyfriend and if she doesnt realize that you are going to stay together then maybe you shouldnt be friends with her, she obviously is not that good of a friend if she wants to break you guys up [ X0Xbrittanymariex0x's advice column | Ask X0Xbrittanymariex0x A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Thursday January 6 2005, 8:33 am: Talk to your boyfriend that way he knows whats going on. Talk to your bestfriend that way she knows how you feel. You can't expect it to be a shock to both. You just got to talk it out. Your bestfriend should already know the limits of her and your boyfriend. If she doesn't understand. Then thats a whole new question. Just sit down and talk with her.-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
amelia12290 answered Thursday January 6 2005, 8:29 am: ok see the thing is you have to put your friend in her place you have to tell her that yeah you and your boyfriend are happy and that yeah you know she likes him but you guys have been going out and you dont want anything bad to happen and you want everything to go smoothly in the relationship so she should just back off and that if she breaks up the relationship then she isnt the true friend that you thought she was. [ amelia12290's advice column | Ask amelia12290 A Question ]
bob745 answered Thursday January 6 2005, 4:16 am: here is how you solve both those problems at the same time.....you need plan out a way to get your boyfriend and girlfriend in the same house but have some activity going to get all you in the mood.....then have your soulmate leave the room for a little and tell him you have a surprise for him when he gets back, while he is gone seduce your girl into bed with you and get her naked just in time for your boyfriend to get back and if he does not jump inbetween you two, i don't think he is the one for you and i will gladly take his place....holla bak yongin [ bob745's advice column | Ask bob745 A Question ]
Anjela answered Thursday January 6 2005, 3:45 am: That's obviously not a very good best friend if she's trying to break you guys up...tell her to respect whats yours or else she'll loose a friendship over a guy that you'll still have.
~Anjela [ Anjela's advice column | Ask Anjela A Question ]
angel411 answered Thursday January 6 2005, 1:12 am: That's very immature, mean, and untrustworthy of your best friend. A true best friend wouldn't do that. As for the guy, try to trust him. If you don't think you can then you need to either talk to her and him, or choose. Most likely you'd prefer not to choose. So try to talk to her about it and tell her that you don't appreciate what she's doing and that you two are a couple and are going to remain that way but you want to remain her friend as well. Then talk to your boyfriend also and tell him what she is doing so is aware and won't give in to anything or believe any lies she might make up. ♥ [ angel411's advice column | Ask angel411 A Question ]
kevin413 answered Thursday January 6 2005, 12:53 am: Your best friend doesnt sound like much of a friend to me. If she breaks you up,then the guy fell for her crap and hes a loser too. You stick with the guy only if he doesnt go out with your new found enemy. [ kevin413's advice column | Ask kevin413 A Question ]
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