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Hey y'all. I have been threw alot in the past sixteen years. From Family issues to Friends to Boyfriends. I can help on pretty much anything you need help with so ask me anything. If you dont want to post it on here you can always im me or email me. Or if you want to just chat, or ask more things related to what you have asked before.
Love always Jami//xoOx

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k well my ex boyfriend who was my first boyfriend, and first true love and first kiss. we went out for 4 1/2 months... him and my best friend might go ou and for all i know they probably already are.... well i dont aprrove at all! and even though we brok up 5 months ago i still like him, because if it wasnt for his friend telling me that he would treat me better i would have never dumped him, and my ex.. lets call him... james, james even told me about 1 month ago that if i never dumped him we would still be together, and for him to say that he has to have some kind of feelings for me, and also asked him last week 1-10 how much he likes me and he sais 6.5 and to me, thats pretty high! and now i find out my best friend, the person i though who was soposed to have my back, support me, and be there for me, is gonna go out with my ex... but the difficult thing is, i kinda did it to her, see, her ex richard and her, we will call my best friend rachel. rachel and richard went out for only 3 weeks, they didnt share near as much as me and james did.. k well richard asked me ut durring the summer and i never told him yes, and i never told him no.. he just assumed we were going out, but i never liked him... and my friend rachel knows that.... and i have told her over and over that i still like james... and she doesnt give a rip.. shes gonna go out with him, and to me it just sems like she isnt hearing me when i tell her she is risking our friendship for a boy who will eventualy break her heart and when he does whos gonna be there for her? not me, because i warned her... i just want to know.. and i making tooo big of deal about this, and what shoud i do?
if it helps im 15/f.... and i told my friend rachel i would do anything to be with him... and yet she still goes and does this to me... i mean he was there through think and thin, he was there when i needed him, when my grandpa got cancer, when my uncle died... hes been there.. and even after the breakup he has been the best of friend and he listens when i tell him stuff.. hes amazng!!!

Okay .. i kno how you feel on this. It happen to me. Talk to "James" about this and tell him how you feel. I mean you two seem to be open with each other so it couldnt hurt anymore. When it happen to me i flat out told my Friend Nichole that i didnt want her with him and yet she was still going for him. but when i talked to Corey about it he told me he wouldnt date her unless i felt comfertable about the whole thing. I'm guessing James would be the same. And your not making this a big deal. Its life it happens. It sucks but i promise you there is someone else out there for you. so if it comes down to James and Rachel dating stay friends with them both. as much as it hurts you dont want to loose good friends. altho Rachel doesnt seem to be a good friend but James does. Oh yeah and your always gonna have feeling for him. you just have to some how get over that and move on to someone else.

Hope i helped atleast a lil.

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lately, ive been thinking a lot about my first love. thes this other boy and we're pretty into eachother, but i havnt been able to stop thinking about my first love lately. its gonna be a year now that met and we fell in love over the summer. is this normal? is it just cuz he was my first love? or do i still have feelings 4 him? i really like this new guy. its just that i've been thinking about the first one. maybe, its b/c he represents a happy time in my life or hes very special to me or something. i dunno. do i still like him in a way?

yes you still like him in a way but its always gonna be like that.. i have only been in love two times.. my first love and then now i am in love.. and it took me alot of thinking to figure out if i still like my first love.. but its just one of those things you will never get rid of.. he was a very special part of your life so he is gonna stay in it. so yea you will be fine. just go out with this new guy and just remember that the only reason your thinking about your first love is because he was your first love.

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I have a friend i call a best friend. She doesnt feel like a best friend to me. Its hard to be friendz with her n stuff becuz shes kind of spreading my lil secrets like how i talk about ppls behind their bak, n mi favs. I hate that but shes a litto bit powerful than me and im only a weak person. Iuno wat to do...

its pretty easy.. just dont say anything bad about anyone and dont tell her things you dont want others to no.

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Friday night I was at the movies. Me,my 2 friends and this guy that likes me took some pictures. I sat on his lap. I have a boyfriend of 3 months. Is that cheating and is it bad and should I tell my boyfriend? I feel really bad! Please help!

no its not cheating but it is kinda bad.. i mean expecially if your boyfriend dont no.. tell him what happened so one you will feel better and two he wont find out from someone else..

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ok so me n my girlfriend have been going out for a little over 5 months and nothing feels the same like it did in the begining what should i do? thanks for the help
15/m/MI

well all i can tell you is figure out why it dont feel the same.. i mean talk to you girlfriend about it she prolly feels the same way..

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Alright, I moved to this town 3 years ago.. and before i moved her. My bestfriend had just broken up with her bf [Ian] of 4 years, and the next day he started going out with her cousin for 2. I secretly liked him but kept in a secret because i didnt wanna ruin there relationship, but the summer before 9th grade they broke up. I KNEW THIS WAS MY CHANCE. So we started talking alot more, and i slept over his house.. like twice. & we started going to party's together, and basketball games. We were in love & everything was great, untill about 6 months had gone by and i felt like we were never going to go out. so i started talking to a new boy, we went out for like a month and broke up because he told everyone i was just a booty call. But now me and Ian are talking again, and hes all ive been thinking of and im just scared to get back into the relationship with him, But i cant stay away from him at the same time. I dont know if i should give up... Or try one more time





Thank you.
Kristina

hey kristina just give it a second chance it wont hurt to just try it one more time.. this might be what it takes to make or break the realtionship..

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In my school people get picked on school temas basically because they are friends with the coach. they could be not as good as one person but if they know the coach they will still make it. well i dont know the coach and im trying out for basketball but i dont know if i should because they probally wont pick me cause i dont know the coach cause im ok at basketball im not the best but im not bad (sorry if this is confusing) my question is though should i try out or not?

Try out.. the same thing happened to me.. only i didnt make it but now the choach is my teacher and it dont really matter just while at try outs make sure the choach notices how good you are at the sport...

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my and this guy are just friends now. hes really nice and sweet and i like him a lot. the other day, i spent all of my class time talking to him. not romanticly, we were talking about what was going on that day. we didnt say anything about us well i didnt. he talked about his mom a little and we talked just talked like friends. i do like him a lot becuz he seems like a nice guy. so what should i do. becuz if he doesnt like me in that way, i dont want to screw up our friendship and i dont want him to break my heart

just stay really good friends with him and then maybe it will go another way and maybe not but trust me its better to be just friends then rush into things..

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Ok I'm in 8th grade and my one of my friends said that I should ask out this 7th grade girl, she kinda hot and a little sluty and i know she likes me but I dont know if I love her, and what if she already has a boyfriend. And why am I stresing out over this girl I should just end my pain right here and now! Please help!!!

just go for it.. you like her you wouldnt be this stressed out for nothing..

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How do I get my gf to think im "sweet" and really hang out with me alot? movies? talk on phone alot? what should i do?? I RATE REALLY HIGH!


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Hey well just call her for like no reason at all. just be like i called just to talk to you.. and buy her flowers one day for no reason at all. trust me she will like it.. hope i helped..
Jaymi Lynne

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14/m i kinda like this girl but i don't know if i want to go to go out with her. The reason i don't want to go out with her is that i don't know what my friends will think. I know that sounds bad but i don't know if i can choose her over keeping my reputation with my friends. I think she might ask me out and i don't know what to do. please help.

Hey well first off you shouldnt care what your friends think of her. I mean yeah there your friends but shes just one chick you like and theres gonna be more. And if you like her then go out with her. Dont say no to her because then the reason why you wouldnt go out with her will come out and no girl will want to do out with you. so just go out with her and find out i mean so what they might not like her but its not like there gonna really care.
Hope i have helped
Jaymi Lynne

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See, my friend has been going out with this girl since october, I'm very good friends with her, and liked her a couple months before my friend and her started going out. Me and the girl have known eachother for atleast 4 years, I'm friends with her brother, whos younger than me, Lately my friend has become annoyed with The girl (whos also my friend) avoiding her phone calls, stuff like that. Lately the girl has been flirting with me on IM, sending me kissy faces, saying I'm her best bud, always trying to be beside me in public places when (my friend, her BF is not around) hugging on me in a playful non shalont way, etc. But then she'll say something like i wish My boyfriend was here, or something like that. Which is kool, because i would never go behind my friends back, shes just a friend. But she asks if i could do stuff with her would I? If my friend wouldn't find out. I tell her no, not unless she broke up with my friend, and still probably wouldn't cuz he might be hurt. Whats goin on with this chick? Is she liken me? or my friend...or both of us? HaHa, shes acten weird, never has been like this before.

Hey well find out whats going on with there realtionship before you start worrying about her liking you. Altho it sounds like she does but she might just be upset because of her boyfriend. And about the when your with her she will be hugging on you and stuff.. but then say i wish my boyfriend was here thats a way for girls to make it sound like they dont mean anything of what they are doing or what they have said. Just find out whats going on with their realtionship then go from there. but it does sound like she likes you.. hope i helped.
Jaymi Lynne

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I feel as if i'm doing nothing right family friends relationships how can i change things?

Well what kind of things are people saying your not doing right?
Email me at lildevilchic35@yahoo.com i will be happy to help i just have to the answer to the question.

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So my best friend from 5th grade meets up with her friends from forever in 6th grade. Which is really good cuz there really popular and they introduce her to all new friends and she introduces them to me so everything is great right? Wrong now its seventh grde and everyone talks about everyone and they leave me on the curb. I talked about my old best friend from 5 grde and she talked about me then told all of who i thought were my new friends that I was talknig aobut them. NOT COOL. Then they all blow me over tell everyone to hate me. So now im on the curb with 3 friends tops and everyone else is always making me miserable. So what do I do? I try to make up with them be really nice. But it kills me cuz they dont give and it get wrose...fat cow!Go home!...god....so now im misrable and have like 3 friends. But the girl doesnt know why im mad at all. My life is a mess and im out of controll and cant fix it im done I give up and I need help......so help me

Hey hun dont be so hard on your self. there not worth it. Just make new friends. the same thing happend to me after 6th grade the people who were my best friends turned out to be bitches and so i just didnt let them get to me and i made new friends. You dont have to be popular. Just be your self and you will find that life is alot easier. I am now a freshman in highschool and everyone thinks you have to be popular but you dont. just find the people that you know will always be your friends and never backstab you. I no its hard but some times you just have to put on a simle and get threw it. Just try making new friends.
Hope i helped. if you have anymore questions or need more help.. you can email me at lildevilchic35@yahoo.com or you can im me at xiloveyoux35

Much love
Jaymi Lynne

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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about three months. We havent kissed yet, but i think i want to. How should i tell him??

well first off how old are you? i mean its nothing really really have to come out and say just start up the topic about your realtionship and kinda bring up that you wouldnt mind if he kissed you. i mean you dont have to call him and be like i want to kiss. just get into a conversation and it will all work out.
hope i helped

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Ok, me and my best friend have been getting in a bunch of fights for no reason. for example, i wasn't really sick "bad" yesterday (we spent the whole day together) and this morning, i felt like i was going to throw up (And i did later). and today, she got all mad about me not showing up at school and that i was playing hookie and all this stuff just cause i didn't finish my algebra homework??? Thats just one of the pointless things she's been getting mad at me about for the past two weeks... We've been best friends for over three years so.... what should i say/do?

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hey well hun talk to your friend... me and my best friend get into stupid things all the time... and we are still best friends to this day... we just got out of a fight but yeah just talk to her.. tell her how you feel.. you might fight for a day about it but then she will get over it or you may just end up fine... hope i helped...

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What are some signs that a guy is going to break up with you?

if he is always going to do something besides talking to you. if he seems like he dont want to be around you at all. if he dont answer his cell phone when you call. theres alot of signs..

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i have a guy friend that i am really close to we cant go out 1) bc of distance 2) bc he has a gf right now. anyways his gf is always a bitch to me. i think it is bc she jealous bc i am so close to him and that he cares about another girl(me) and she says shit that he will never do me and that i shouldnt be wastin my time and callin me a skank and trash.... and she says all of this to my best friend well she says shit when she doesnt even noe who the fuck i am and idk what do bc he is a great person and i dont wnat to lose him over s stupid bitch like her?

just let her talk her shit.. but you need to tell your friend that you wanna hang out with him some time just you too. and who cares if she hates you just as long as he dont.

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i know this girl, and i care about her more than anything in the world, but i can tell shes going down the wrong road, i can notice changes in her that i've made, in a good way, but its not enough, shes getting into alchohol now, and that could lead to anything, i've tried talking to her about it but i just cant let out how i feel, PLZ HELP!!! SOS

hey well you need to tell her that you care about her and that your afraid she is goin down the wrong road.. does she have a really close friend that feels the same as you do?(that shes goin down the wrong road) if she does talk to them they might be able to help you alot. if not just sit her down and tell her your scared and worried about her. hope i helped. if you have anymore questions ask me n i will help.
Jaymi lynne

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my n my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months... im 13/f and well valentines day is coming up.. and i have no idea what to get him... hes sorta a prep, he plays football, and umm idk hes just like a normal 13 year old guy.. please help!!

just ask him what he wants.. its not that hard.. i mean just be like i dont really no what to get you give me some ideas..

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