Question Posted Thursday February 24 2005, 5:37 pm
See, my friend has been going out with this girl since october, I'm very good friends with her, and liked her a couple months before my friend and her started going out. Me and the girl have known eachother for atleast 4 years, I'm friends with her brother, whos younger than me, Lately my friend has become annoyed with The girl (whos also my friend) avoiding her phone calls, stuff like that. Lately the girl has been flirting with me on IM, sending me kissy faces, saying I'm her best bud, always trying to be beside me in public places when (my friend, her BF is not around) hugging on me in a playful non shalont way, etc. But then she'll say something like i wish My boyfriend was here, or something like that. Which is kool, because i would never go behind my friends back, shes just a friend. But she asks if i could do stuff with her would I? If my friend wouldn't find out. I tell her no, not unless she broke up with my friend, and still probably wouldn't cuz he might be hurt. Whats goin on with this chick? Is she liken me? or my friend...or both of us? HaHa, shes acten weird, never has been like this before.
jAyMiLyNnE answered Friday February 25 2005, 10:14 am: Hey well find out whats going on with there realtionship before you start worrying about her liking you. Altho it sounds like she does but she might just be upset because of her boyfriend. And about the when your with her she will be hugging on you and stuff.. but then say i wish my boyfriend was here thats a way for girls to make it sound like they dont mean anything of what they are doing or what they have said. Just find out whats going on with their realtionship then go from there. but it does sound like she likes you.. hope i helped.
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ManDA_Lee answered Thursday February 24 2005, 10:28 pm: well` i would have to say i think shes a great friend to hang around with but don't get to attached because most likely she`ll play you.
mylinhthan answered Thursday February 24 2005, 6:47 pm: anonymous -
The vibe I'm getting from this girl is that she's trying to make your friend jealous by clinging to you. Because he's been avoiding her, she's upset and trying to get back at him. Either that, or she wants the attention your friend is depriving her of.
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