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my name is ashley! i don't really have anything to say except that i love volleyball...oh and my favorite color is pink!!! i can answer any of your questions! i will help you the best i can!
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Last Update: January 23, 2005
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i am doing a weight loss program and i told my friend and i think my other friends know and are making fun of me. what sould i do?
how do i know if there my true friends?
HELP ME
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Thanx for your help
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if they make fun of you then they are not your real friends. it is fine that you are doing a weight loss program, and if your friends don't respect that then they are not real friends. if you don't want to lose your friends though then you can try talking to them about it.


what if your not a good reader and you really want to get better what should i do.
tutoring?
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i have tunzzzzzzzz of trouble in math. i have a tutor and my grades are alot higher now.


I need a lot of money to get a god straightner because my hair is extremely FRIZZY!!! What are some ways to earn $$$? Or some hairstyles for FRIZZY PEOPLE??

Thankx a bunch! (link)
i earn my money by babysitting. it can be fun(sometimes) lol and you usually get payed a decent amount.


does anyone know where to get jeans that are a little below ur waist and are about $15-30? someone please help and i may rate you a 5! (link)
i get my'n at gap....some pairs are pretty cheap, also holliser and american eagle.


this might be confusing. but here goes. ok i liek this guy named matt and ive liked him since last summer and he likes me too. every time i talk to him im so happy and i cant stop smiling but the thing is he lives in denton and i live in flowermound. (texas) so i never ever see him so it sucks. but the thing is at my school (FMHS) theres this one guy ive liked since the beginning of football season and he liked me and all but nothing ever happened besides we kissed one time during truth or dare but thats not the point. i still like him and he told me he likes me but neither of us want a boyfriend or girlfriend. he told me he just wants someone he can be really good friedns with and flirt with and he wants it to be me. well heres the bad part, this other guy likes me and i talked to him on the phone last night for like 8 hours. it was amazing. so i kinda liek all three guys and all 3 liek me and i have no idea what to do!please help! ill rate you veryy high if you give a good answer (link)
whoa...thats a tough one, i know this might be hard, but try to pick the one that you like the most. also, you did say that you didn't want a boyfriend. so you could just have fun being friends with guys. but if you change your mind and you want a boyfriend then pick the guy that you like the most. hope i helped!


i really like this girl but i dont know if she as a bf or not if she doesnt should i ask her out (link)
sure, why not ask her out. if she doesn't have a boyfriend, get to know her and ask her!


Hi I'm an A level drama student thinking about going on to drama/dance scool in london and I've not done any auditions before has anyone got any tips to help with nerves and confidance?
Many thx Joolz,(i rate high) (link)
the first time i tried out for a play, i felt really really nervous also. try practicing in front of crowds. the more practice, the better. that should help you get rid of your nerves. i practiced alot, and i ended up getting the lead part!


theres this girl in my pe class that i really like but i dont know if she as a bf and if she doesnt should i ask her out
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get to know her a little bit more. then you will be able to find out if she has a boyfriend or not. once you get to know each other, you will find out more about her and maybe she will like you to! then, you can ask her out.


my bestfriend always calls me fat and everyone else tells me im not she is just jelouse what can i do to make her quite callen me fat it really bothers me?

shaiina (link)
well, if she is your best friend then she shouldn't be calling you fat in the first place. she probable is just jealous. tell her that if she is going to be rude like that, then ya'll shouldn't be friends. maybe if you tell her how you feel about her calling you names then she will stop.


hey..there is this guy who i have liked for a little awhile now. We say hi and smile at each other n stuff...and my friend who is friends with him said that she thinks he likes me and that he sed that he wud ask me out wen he gets to know me..but that was a few weeks ago and he had sed he would try to get to know me..i know hes really shy..and i imed him and he talked a little but i can't really tell if he likes me..what should i do? and do you think he likes me? (link)
it does sound like he likes u. he probably just needs a little time to adjust and get to know you. just talk to him more and get to know him. then things should start moving.


14/f...theres a girl in one of my classes and she'll sit there the whole class period and talk about me loud enuff for me to hear..so she obviously wants me to. Shes so mean and i've told her to stop and shes just like "I'll do what i want" and the thing is...she seems like a nice person but for NO REASON she hates me..when i asked her y she hates me so much shes like "the question is why wouldn't i" so she doesn't have a reason..theres this one guy thats her friend and always sticks up for me whenever she talks about me and its really nice and i think it'll eventually stop bc he always tells her too and she'll get bored saying everything when he just tells her to stop talking about me. but the stuff she says is mean and sometimes she IMs me outta no where to say how weird i am or i have no friends (which is not true) any advice on thing is can say bak to her when shes talking about me?? I RATE 5'S SORRY SO LONG!! (link)
that is so mean! i'm so sorry. one of my friends knows this one girl who hates her for no reason also. she would just walk up to her and call her a bad name for no reason. first, just try to ignore her. also, is this girl kind of someone who no one, or not very many people like,if so, she could just be jealous of you. you seem like a very nice girl. she will most likely eventually get bored of making fun of you and move on. hope i helped!


My boyfriend went to my window yesterday but my mom was in the next room awake. Its now 2:15 and he left because it was really cold but is there anyway that i can get him inside without my mom or dad noticing i need to get him in my room! He is really nervous that he will get caught because if we do then most likley i wont ever be able to see him again and were next door neighbors! Help please!!! (link)
find another way to spend time with him. you will probable get caught...it may not be the first time, but trust me, you will.


heya~ well, i dont really know what kind of question to ask so im just gonna write some stuff. i think that this advice thing souds really cool! lol.
peace out*
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hey! lol well ummmmmm since u didn't ask a question i'll just say hey!


If I were going to get a cat or dog, I'd go to an animal shelter or pound or something else like that. But I'm not getting a cat or dog I want to get a guinea pig. Does anyone know of a place where I could get one that NEEDS a home (other than an ordinary pet store?)


JLH (link)
i have a guinea pig. i just got my'n at a local pet store. i don't know anything other than that though


okay ive babysat before before i moved to a new neighborhood and me new one has some little kids on it that i wouldnt mind to babysit so how should i let my neighbors no im avalible when they need me without being o like hi can i be your babysitter or yeah so any tips (and the kids i used to babysit were 2 boys ages of 4 and 6 and a little girl age 2-3 and the kids in my neighborhood are around that too) (link)
just tell them that you have babysat alot before and you would be happy to babysit whenever they want to go out


I started cutting my self about a year, and I just did it to see what it felt like and to maybe finally get some attention from my mom and now I cant stop... its like after every little argument I have with her I have to go up to my room and cut my self or it doesn’t feel right. I have tried to stop and I have even made promise to people but I just don’t know what to do any more it seems like its getting out of control and I don’t want to have to go see a therapist because I don’t know if I could come out and say I have a problem so basically I’m just asking what I should do...? (link)
you should really get help. i know someone who had that problem. somebody told on them and she finally stopped. you may not want to get help, but a theropist or whoever you get will keep everything confidential. so don't worry...just get help.




Hey sorry but does anyone have...I dont really knwo how to explain it...but you know how people have buddy profiles and all? Well I had this "abou me" section in one of mine but it got erased and I got it from a friend who doesnt haev it anymore...and I was wondering if any of you haev an "about me" section where you fill in what you're name is...and your birthday and fave things are and what can you live with and cant live without. Im sorry this is really confusing but if any of you have what Im talking about then can you please send it to me because I really want to put it in my profile...

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i made my'n at buddyprofile.com. you can pick colors and make your own profile and everything. its neat


My family believes very strongly about lots of things. One of those things is legal marajuana. They think if somebody in the USA wants to smoke pot, let them. Pretty much everybody in my family smokes pot except for me. I'm 15 years old. I think they're wrong. I don't think pot should be legal because it makes people do stupid things. But so does beer and other alchaholic drinks. But they're legal. So I think maybe they should not allow alchahol or pot. I'd like to point this out to my family but I don't want lectures. What should I do?

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you are so right to not smoke pot and all that other stuff. it can make people do stupid things. it is wrong that your family does it. if it were my family, i would definetely talk to them about it. i would not want my family getting hurt because i didn't talk to them about it. if it takes getting a lecture, but it stops them from smoking pot, then i would talk to them.


Im 13/f. I went out with this guy last summer but then we broke up. Recently I think that i made a mistake by breaking up with him. And i do want to go back out with him but he has a girlfriend now, but he told one of my friends that he likes me. What should I do?! Should I tell him how I feel? plz help! (link)
tell him how you feel. if you both have feelings for each other then go for it. but also, respect his feelings for his girlfriend. hope i helped!


Well my boyfriend and his ex friend want me to pick which one i wanna be with cause there so competitive between each other for me. but i don't think i should have to pick what should i tell them? (link)
if your ex or your boyfriend really cared about you, then they would tell you that you shouldn't have to pick. also, they should say that they would support any decision you make.




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