this might be confusing. but here goes. ok i liek this guy named matt and ive liked him since last summer and he likes me too. every time i talk to him im so happy and i cant stop smiling but the thing is he lives in denton and i live in flowermound. (texas) so i never ever see him so it sucks. but the thing is at my school (FMHS) theres this one guy ive liked since the beginning of football season and he liked me and all but nothing ever happened besides we kissed one time during truth or dare but thats not the point. i still like him and he told me he likes me but neither of us want a boyfriend or girlfriend. he told me he just wants someone he can be really good friedns with and flirt with and he wants it to be me. well heres the bad part, this other guy likes me and i talked to him on the phone last night for like 8 hours. it was amazing. so i kinda liek all three guys and all 3 liek me and i have no idea what to do!please help! ill rate you veryy high if you give a good answer
crazyblonde0514 answered Sunday January 23 2005, 2:56 pm: Okay well first of all thats so weird that you go to flowermound because i live in ohio and one of my best friends moved there like 4 years ago and she just came back last year so thats so strange!! Lol, i guess it is a small world after all... well anyways getting back to your question, you said yourself that you don't really want a boyfriend right? So, if you really ment this then i don't think that you have anything to worry about! Just date around and have fun, thats what high school is for! : ) That way you can go out one night with your guy from another school, flirt with your boy that you've liked since FB season and talk for hours on end with guy #3! Lol, trust me, its sooo much more fun to be able to hang out with different guys all the time rather then to be held down by one guy. That way no one gets pissed at you for talking to other guys. But if that isn't really what you want and you really do want a boyfriend then make a list of pros and cons for each guy, and then anyalize it and figure out which guy would be the best one for you. Which one makes you feel the best about yourself and one that you can see yourself with for a long time who will treat you like the princess i'm sure you are ; ) Hope i could help. Go Jags! haha ~Ash xoxo [ crazyblonde0514's advice column | Ask crazyblonde0514 A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Sunday January 23 2005, 2:28 pm: I would say just go with the guy you can see with for a long time and that cares about you more and would put effort towards seeing you more. Because you need to see your man. Otherwize that just sucks if you cant. So just go for the guy that treats you better, and you can see with for awhile-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
mysterycocomix answered Sunday January 23 2005, 2:27 pm: Well, it depends on what kind of relationship you want! Do you want a long distance, great friend, or lets say total BF relationship. Who do you like the MOST. Make a little "get to know you quiz" for each guy. Whoever rates the highest is probably a good match. If you are not ready for a relationship, I would chose, 1st or 2nd guy mentioned. What do you have in common with each guy. Who do you think would be a "perfect match?" Complete opposites, slightly in common, or two peas in a pod? Hope I helped!
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