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Age: 13
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Member Since: January 2, 2005
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Last Update: January 2, 2005
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I have this boyfriend, he's 17 and I'm 14. My boyfriend's home situation and law situation aren't too good. He has outworn his welcome at my house because of my dad. My dad has tried to convince both of us to break up with eachother. How do I tell my father that I'm being responsible and love my boyfriend and age doesn't matter? Or is he right?
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I agree with you age doesnt matter..as long as ur both responsible and both feel the same way..try not to rush into things and maybe tell ur boyfriend..that he shold maybe even try sucking up to him..i dont know though..well hopei helped


okay..well there is this boy i like...his name is mike..an well i was talking to him online not to long ago...an we pretty much just met. he probly only saw me like 2 times..an well i told him i like him just last week an we were talkin online the other day an he said he liked me too...an yeah but he wants us to meet up somewhere...an im okay with that its just that....what should i do...i mean he only saw me about 2 times this year an we onyl talk alot online...so yeah..what should i say to him....?? HELP ME PLEASE...i rate VERY good (link)
Wow thats a tuffy..umm try to get really dressed up..not necessarily clothes wise but like try doin ur make really good and then maybe he`ll like you..and just be urself..act like u normally would online..hope i helped..


Does anybody know what to do about pores? I have pores that show all over my face. If you know what to do, advice would be nice. Thanks. (link)
i dont even know what a pore is sorry


all of a sudden i got this horrible pain right below my boobs, like and when i breath deeply it hurts even more, i've eaten like 3 cookies since i woke up. do u think its that? and what do u think it is. thanks \
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umm i honestly dont know..maybe ur growing?..u should seek some professional help maybe


Hey, I have Insomnia. Every night I'm up late trying to sleep. I've tried everything!!! Reading, singing, counting sheep(lol), and I don't drink that much soda. Please tell me what's wrong,b ecause I've been tired lately and I'm getting bags under my eys. (link)
Has anything bad happened to you latly..cuz if so maybe its a distraction or depressiong thing..but i dont know much about this case so maybe you should talk to your parents or a doctor about it..sorry if this didnt help..Sarah


in about a month my family and i are driving to florida from ny. there are 6 of us and we drive an expedition. im afraid that my 3 annoying brothers (11,7, and 4) are going to make this trip hell..what are some ways i can prevent this from happening? Also..for anyone whos stayed at a disney resort..whats your favorite one and why? We love the Carribean Beach resort but in case we go somewhere else what do you suggest?
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Well for the last part i have no suggestion but maybe you could go to google n type some things in like disney resorts n they should have different things n pictures to show you..but for the first part..maybe try not talkin to them even if they talk to you and maybe take the portable CD player with ya n crank the head phones up loud..hope this works Sarah


I am a girl and 13 and i'm obsessed with a 41 year old actor, (Johnny Depp). Is this a bad thing to want to be with a man that much older than I am?
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Well some people find him very attractive..its just diferent with some ppl..like kenny chesney is very fine n my opinion and hes what 35 40 and im 13 too..so i dont think its necessary bad or unhealthy but i mean..dont get any desires or anything cuz sorry but it prolyl isnt gonna happen.Sarah


14f. I really really want to get my nose pierced I think they're so cute!! My mom said I'm not allowed any piercings until im 16, what can I do to try and convince her that I really want it done!!! & I can't do it myself, it'd be way to difficult/. (link)
Hey..well maybe try bribeing her..tell her you' maybe do the dishes for the next two months or some other chore or somethign that she needs to be done..n be sure to show her ur responsible..n make sure shes in a good mood when u lay all this on her other wise forget it..hope i helped
Sarah


i don't experiment with my hair. usually just keep it straightened and long. but anyways i feel like doing something new with it and i just took a shower so it's still pretty damp but with my actual question: what does mousse do to your hair? i've been trying to get that like crimped *but not so crimped* like.. wavy/curly look. and when i talk to girls who do it they say their hair is naturally like that and they just gel it up. but my hair is like.. just small wavy when it's gel'd and my best friend said just put mousse in it but problem is i don't have any mousse and i'd like to know what it looks like before i go borrow or buy some. (link)
Umm..maybe you could try using some of your friends mousse..all it does really is helps u to style ur hair better..to wear it actually stays n place..n some types are better than others..try expiermenting with a variety of them..you dont have to worry about your hair being damaged..just take a shower after...and if mousse still doesnt work out for you you could maybe try sprunch spray or gel by aussie hope i helped..Sarah


i have a Question. The guy that beats me. His brother likes me and he said that if i do anything with his brother he will kill me. His brother is not like my ex he is a lot nicer and i really like him what should i do? Michy (link)
Well i think that your first issue is your boyfriend now?..he beats u..and harms you ..well any guy that harms you or does anything to make u feel uncomfortable you need to something about...you need to seek serious help..try callin the police..or a social worker..because u do not deserve to be abused no matter who you are..and once that is taken care of..his brother should be urs like that..because i wouldnt wanna date someone infear of someone elses threat of killing me! hope i helped..Sarah


do you think its better to fit in and go agianst yur own beliefs OR to be a little ""less popular"" and do what you want to do? i am stuck in between. (link)
Well i have never really been a follower..cuz in my opinion if someone doesnt like you or the way you are then tahts there problem..cuz u shouldnt have to change urself to satisfy someone else..and trust me if u act like yourself eventualy other people will most likely think that your pretty cool..and start following you..and that way you'll getta b urself and still have friends..hope i helped Sarah


how do u get them midi clips with like usher and everyone singing instead of them dumb old song they have on picture trail for free? (link)
Hey..im really sorry but i have no idea because i just started this thing lol sorry..Sarah*


Okay this isn't really a serious problem. But okay i like this guy. And well u know i am always lookin at him and stuff, and there is so many times that i catch him lookin at me. All i want him to do is like me... Can ne one tell wat wat this means?? Please help!! (link)
okay..its fine we will take any problems lol..well i think i know where your coming from..cuz thats how me n this one kid were but i had liked him so much before and now were just friends..and he would always look at me n i would think does he like me or is he lookin at the girl behind me or w.e n then i relized that he was probably just looking to see if i was havin a good time without him cuz we had broken up cuz we had gone out before..but anyways..in your case he either yes does like you..or just wants to see how are you..or how you act..when in that case probably wants to get to know you better but..if things are still a lil fuzzy try havin one of your friends talk to him or one of his buddies..but make sure there people that you trust..otherwise you`ll have some people being annoyed n thats never good. well good luck n write back n tell me how it all turned out..xoOx*Sarah


How old do you think a girl has to be to sleep over at their boyfriends house, say if their boyfriend was the same age or 1 year older? (link)
Well it al depends on the people involved..if u guys were going to do stuff then make sure that both of you feel the same and that neither of you is presurring eachother to do something cuz if theres any amount of pressure i dont think that you two should stay the night together..so it really doesnt matter the age n our opinion ..just basically the amount of maturity and pressure involved..hope we helped a lil xox`Sarah.Aly


I have the weirdest problem. Everytime I have a little sickness, I think it's huge. Like if I have a headache, i think it's a brain tumor. If I have a stomach ache I think I'm gonna hurl or that I have the flu. Yes, I know it's weird and freaky. But I need help!! i wanna stop. Please help me (link)
Hey .. that doesnt sound too good and its never happened to either of us so maybe u should consider talking to someone in your family about it or your doctor..sorry if it didnt help that much
xox Sarah*Aly




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