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My father and I cannot agree...
I have this boyfriend, he's 17 and I'm 14. My boyfriend's home situation and law situation aren't too good. He has outworn his welcome at my house because of my dad. My dad has tried to convince both of us to break up with eachother. How do I tell my father that I'm being responsible and love my boyfriend and age doesn't matter? Or is he right?
signed,
in need of help.
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You can sit down and talk to your dad. Tell him you are almost an adult and you can handle things perfectly and on your own. Best of luck.
~~~Brittany~~~
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I think that you guys should stick together, if you guys love each other. Don't let your father's choice get in your way! Be happy, hope it works out!!!!
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Dear Need Of Help, I say that age doesn't matter because my best friends mom married a 25 year old dude and she's 40! Trust me. Don't listen to your dad because he's wrong! Age totally doesn't matter. Love does! Stay together with him, O.K. Bets of luck.
~~~Kayla~~~
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he isnt right.. if you love each other enough then thats all that matters.. nothing else matters but you and him.. and if your father tries to seperate you then he musnt be very supportive... just try and convince your father that no matter what he does or says.. you will always be with him.. even if you need to sneak out to see him.. he cant stop you.. and eventually he will wear in and come to accept him.. well he should anyway.. otherwise hell just beat you and you send him to jail.. either way works fine :P
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if i were ur dad i would think ur a nut for going out with a 17 yr old too
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for one thing, he's not right for trying to make ya'll break up. or at least i dont think so. have your boyfriend try to show your father that he wouldn't do anything to hurt you or stuff like that. also, in my state, ya'll can legally date. once he turns 18, and ya'll are still together, and ya'll have sex or something like that (im not sayin that ya'll are going to) and your dad finds out, your dad can press charges against him. its called like statutory(sp?) rape. im pretty sure you know all about this stuff though.
~*Sarah*~
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well i understand you like your boyfriend but your dad is right .. if his home situation and law situation aren't good your dad's only looking out for you . your dad doesnt want you to get in trouble or get hurt ... you may be responsible but then again your only 14 this guy is going to graduate soon and leave if his homelife isn't good and you'll probaly never see him again . you dad loves you and would never want you to get hurt ... please isten to your dad .
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You need to find someway to prove to your father that your boyfriend isnt that bad. Maybe you could have him over for dinner so your dad could get to know him better
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dear in need of help
i think that with that big of a age differnt and that his law situation is not so good im afrade that im with your dad for this one i know that it might be hard but explane things to your boyfriend and if hes as cool as your talking about then he will still be friends with you im me or add somthing to my column when you make a disision i would love to hear back from you
-*Tori
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If this boyfriend of yours is up to no good..has a problem with authority, gettin into trouble all the time..chances are..hes not good enough for you! You probably dont see it because you like him. But your dad is just lookin out for you. Thats what he's there for! Listen to your dad hun! give up the boy. You'll thank your dad in the long run...trust me :)
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well if hes in trouble with the cops your dad is being a good father by trying to help you stay out of trouble, hes just looking out for you, dont dont mind your dad, try to convince him that hes a good kid, have him over for dinner and try to have your bf talk to your dad, have them become friends.. but hes a lil bit old for you dont you think? idk im just giving you my advice like i should, but if your dad doesn't want you guys together, respect him n break up, i'm sure you can find someone whos 14 or 15. 17's a lil bit old for you hun. x0
ok fine be a bitch about it
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I agree with you age doesnt matter..as long as ur both responsible and both feel the same way..try not to rush into things and maybe tell ur boyfriend..that he shold maybe even try sucking up to him..i dont know though..well hopei helped
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