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14/f...theres a girl in one of my classes and she'll sit there the whole class period and talk about me loud enuff for me to hear..so she obviously wants me to. Shes so mean and i've told her to stop and shes just like "I'll do what i want" and the thing is...she seems like a nice person but for NO REASON she hates me..when i asked her y she hates me so much shes like "the question is why wouldn't i" so she doesn't have a reason..theres this one guy thats her friend and always sticks up for me whenever she talks about me and its really nice and i think it'll eventually stop bc he always tells her too and she'll get bored saying everything when he just tells her to stop talking about me. but the stuff she says is mean and sometimes she IMs me outta no where to say how weird i am or i have no friends (which is not true) any advice on thing is can say bak to her when shes talking about me?? I RATE 5'S SORRY SO LONG!!
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shit if i was you id be snappin on a bitch. dont let people treat you like that. stick up for yourself. obviously she has her own insecurities and feels like she needs to diss on people that are better off than she is. treat that chickenhead.
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probly cuz your better looking than her and shes jelous
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bring a bat to school and fucking beat her iwth it ....or just give her what she desevers !
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Deffinitly tell her to go screw a cow. Also be like stop wasting your time on being a bitch and go get a life!!! That one will deffinitly work. Dont listen to her theres a girl thats like that in my school and no one likes her and she thinks shes so cool you just gotta brush it off ur shoulders. Your probably a great person and doesnt derserve shit like that.
~Brina~
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just ignore her. she's looking for a reaction and attention, and you're giving her it. don't give her the satisfaction of knowing she succeded in annoying you. if worst comes to worst, get your seat changed. she's being immature and you dont need to hear that in your class. if you need anything else, send me a message!! ♥
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my advice is that you should just try to ignore her and stop caring. when she's talking about you, pretend you dont hear her and that she's not there. when she tells you that you're weird or that you're a loner, just say ok, or alright. if you talk back to her, it'll make her insult you even more. just ignore her and stop caring, and she'll soon be too bored to bother you or talk about you.
just dont start cursing at her or shoving her, or give her a big attitude cuz I did that once and it got me into a lot of trouble..
anyway, I hope I helped. Dont fight fire with fire, just be mature about it and ignore her
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I have the same problem last year just ignore her and avoide. Shes probly just mad becuase that guy is sticking up for you dont worry bout her eventualy shell get bored a get a new victim
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okay i had the same exact problem with this girl last year! you have to try to avoid and ignore her. she's trying to get to your nerves and you can't let her. she wants to see you feel bad and get annoyed. i did this last year and it eventually stopped. also, what helped me was all of my friends were nice enough to stick up for me and they all went up to her saying how much of a bitch she was and that she has no reason to hate me. you should try to get your friends to do the same thing. also, in class when shes talking about you really loud go up to her and the people shes talking with and be like i dont care if you talk about me so stop talking so loudly like you want me to hear because you kno what i could care less what you think of me because i know that at least im not the one who has no friends. it will be you who has no friends if you keep bitching at me, so go on hate me, because you know wut this doesnt mean anything to me.
hope i could help!
-mallory
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Ok. My first plan won't work. My first plan's NEVER work! s Anyways, on to plan B. Tell this girl she has no reason to hate you and to back off. Tell her that if she wants to act like that, she needs to go back to kindergarten and that she's just jealous. Her bitchy attitude isn't gonna work. She's gonna wonder when all her friends are gone because she had no reason to hate them. Actually, what'll really piss her off is if you are just realllly nice to her. I mean, no matter how mean she is to you, in class, just be like, "how are you today?". Don't be sarcastic, be as sincere as possible. Trust me, it will piss her off and it might make her even be nice to you.
Hope that helped.
~K~
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that is so mean! i'm so sorry. one of my friends knows this one girl who hates her for no reason also. she would just walk up to her and call her a bad name for no reason. first, just try to ignore her. also, is this girl kind of someone who no one, or not very many people like,if so, she could just be jealous of you. you seem like a very nice girl. she will most likely eventually get bored of making fun of you and move on. hope i helped!
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ignore her and if she ims u block her
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well jus ignore her..but i wouldnt wanna go out like a punk either.. jus tell her how it is..she's very childish for her age..and she needs to grow outta the second grade kiddy shit.. cause thats very immature for a 14 year old girl.. she must not have no life to jus pick a random person to talk some stupid bullshit..so jus say that then see what the girl has to say..hope i helped~*DEZ*~
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Well, I think that you should just try and ignore her as best you can. Its just like having a younger sibling, the only reason why they mess with you is because they want your attention, and they want to see your reaction to what they do. If you dont give her the attention that she wants, then maybe she will get bored and back off! <3 aLySsA
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