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im a really good listener im caring and loving but if u ask a stupid qoustion youll get a stupid answer i dont care what you think about me or anything like that but you can know that ill tell you the truth dont lie never had. im fourteen from bama baby i love the south, football, and nascar i know im a redneck but thats ok so need help on somethin ask me ~hugs and kisses~
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Well since grade 4 i have been writing books.. yah not long ones that i complete most the time i dont finish them and go onto a next book lool..

Well time i really do want to write and complete a book.. and get it published.

Any tips? I'm into reality writing like teen books, based a bit older than jaqueling wilson and like louise renninson.

How can i make characters base round my friends but not exactly like them etc.

I might write it on my life atm becuase its interesting actually...

I'm a good fan of cathy hopkins and any1 have any tips to write like her?
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AND -- any tips to keep me going and keep writing??
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Any good UK publishers for young people to publish there books?

THANKS I RATE***** 5'S *******

im a writer to im gonna tell u what i do. I normally write about my life becuase ive gone through so much. I sit in a quite room with aroma candles and classical music and begining writing i dont strop till i get atleast 4 chapters done then 2 days later i doo it angain and i normal have the book done in a week good luck

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Well dont laugh but i want to be a dolphin trainner/And move to america/I live in the uk right and was gonna' move to florida last year but begged mum not to because my of my life back here. When i am older id like to be a dolphin trainner.

But to be that i need to study and learn about them and other things. I have no clue what i need to learn though.. anyone can tell me like what i need to study?

Then in grade 8 i need to pick my subjects that i have to do coursework on.. well i dont know what subjects will get me to being a dolphin trainner or even an author..?

So any help and i rate ***** 5 *****
lush me x

you need to take, phisycal science, biology, creative writting honers english If u can. Becuase these will help you expand youre knowledege on these subjeacts

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I'm 13 years old and I have this friend named Allyson and an enemy named Roxy. Roxy has hurt both Allyson and mine's feelings and isnt a very..well...nice person but is extremely popular and draws much attention. Allyson tells me that she just wants to be my friend and that she doesnt like Roxy but whenever i see that roxy talks to allyson, allyson gets all happy and smiley. Later though, she denies to have done anything like that. Allyson has let me down before but promises to never do it again. Also, allyson talks to roxy's mom alot they have a good relationship and i think allyson tells her many thing...maybe too many..i dont know if to trust allyson again..i mean shes a great person/friend but...i dont know..if i should trust her again.

xPiinkMaScArax

honestly freinds are suppose to be trustworthy i know i couldnt trust my best freind for the longest becuase we would get into fights about things she said. she had to earn her trust back which took awhile but she did we took some time to think about our feeling we didnt talk for days when we finaly did we were closer then ever maybe yall should take some time apart then see fi yall could be freinds. freinds who last through that last through anything.

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One of my good friends, Libby, is a HUGE FLIRT! Last night, we went ice skating and she flirted with just about every guy there! She always goes up to them b4 any1 can reach them.... and sum me n my other friends like! Wat do i do?

---TinkerBelle---

tell her she needs to be more sensitive to others feelings especial about guys she needs to learn self control

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Hi,
I was just putting in some new clean bedding for my rabbit and I reached into the hay bag and a very sharp bit of hay got stuck in my hand, about 3mm in. I pulled it out and it bled. I've washed it and put a plaster on but I was wondering if I can catch any kind of infection from that? It's clean hay and I've had my tetanus jab. Should I put antiseptic cream on? And now or when it's healed a little?

i would put it on now becuase you never know what could happen

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I have a serious problem. I am a twenty one year old grown woman who can't make friends. I am happy with my husband to be and I love myself my dog and my family. I am a full time college student but I stay off campus. I just don't make friends easily. Never have. We just sort of fell into each other. I have no friends besides my fiancee. Can anyone suggest some hints or advice that can put in the direction of making some life long friends?

i meet my best freind at the begining of the school i complemented her on her nails now we are inseperable i know that sounds cheesey but it worked for my we were ment to be freinds i meet my sister in law the same way she married my brother. Now were related ant that funny

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ok well my grandmothers neighbors grandson was my good friend when we were younger, like 10 years ago, and well until last april, i hadnt seen him in a REALLY long time. and when i saw him i fell head over heals. i was hanging out with him sister and my cousin, ((this was at a fmaily function, my grandfathers birthday party)) and me, his sister and my cousin were on the trampoline and he walked up and i was like, ohh whos the hottie? and his sister was like, thats my brother you retard! and i was like, omg thats little geoffy, my first friend??? and she was like, uhm, yeah i guess.. and so i went over, and i was talking with him, and he was like, woah u grew up, i havent seen you in forever. and then we had to go inside to sing happy birthday, and i didnt get to see him again before he left because i was stuck talking with everyone. and now i have to go to his birthday party, and i really wanna make a good impression again, and i dont know what to wear. so i guess my question is, what should i do to make myself look good i guess?? if it helps, i have wavy brown hair that frizzes easily, and i guess thats the only thing i dont know what to do with. i already know what im gonna wear pretty much. and my other question was, do you think he likes me?

who knows if he likes you the only way i could tell would be to see how he looks in youre eyes and the way he talkes to you. Understand something guys like classy girls you know the ones who dress nice and are kinda booksmart but thats not the point ask him be forward and straight be like i need to know if u like me becuase i like you and its okay if you dont but i just really wanted to no. the worst thing he could say is no and that ant as bad as you think

~*luv leah~* p.s. dont worry and have fun Good Luck

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In choir I've noticed this guy staring at me for awhile. In Spanish he fools around and I think he tries to get my attention. When I'm at my locker he waits for the kid next to me and I can sense he's looking at me. He also catches my eye in the hall. Well today in my locker I noticed something on the top shelf. It was a small piece of paper that only said i love you. It was written sloppily like a boy's handwriting. I'm hoping maybe he wrote it. I never talk to him but I really want to. Any ideas on how to do so....because I'm really shy. :-/

you could ask him if he could help u in spanish on some word then be like so r u goin to the movies friday im going to be there if you wanna talk or somethin

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For health class i have to pick an anti-drug..like yeah kno...sports.. my anti-drug, but i can't think of any. I don't wanna use sports cuz sum1 already has it? does any1 hav some ideas? thnx

ytou could do writing giving advice whatever youre good aat.

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Okay.. I'm 14 and a female.. I've had my period since like 6 or 7th grade now I am in 9th.. It's been pretty regular for the most part! Well like the week before new years I got my period.. then I went to my friends house on new years and my ex bf was there. He still liked me and he was acting pretty fricken horny.. well hey it was new years so I got really drunk.. I only remember parts of what happened! Anyways I felt kinda weird the next day.. I thought it was just like the hangover or something because I mean I didn't know.. I don't get drunk a lot!! Well anyways.. it's now February..almost March and I haven't got my period at all!! I don't know what happened between me and my ex.. I have a bad feeling he took advantage of me when I was drunk and took my virginity! The thing is if I am pregnant by any chance... it wouldn't be rape.. at that time.. I might have wanted it! Does anyone know what I can do.. I am going to take a pregnancy test and all I just don't know if I should be looking for signs.. I have gained weight since then too.. not a lot but like 5 pounds! I am really small too I went from 89 to 94 in the past month and a half! Should I be having any discharge or what?? Someone help please!

okay maybe he did take advantage of ou but its not youre fualt the dick could have at least used a condm. but thats not the point have you had any weird cravings? or anything like that first and formost you defintly shouldnt panic theres no tellin. some times ur periode can be weird and u could miss one or three.

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Well I dated this guy for 2 and 1/2 years, and he dumped me in october! I still like him so much, and everyone tells em to get over him but its really hard. He doesn't like me at all, or he acts like he doesnt. Im really depressed and i cry alot, i dont know how to get over him!

it takes time youre heart has to heal and it will take you a while just give it time you were in love

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I havent been eating lately, not because im anorexic, im just depressed. My parents think i am anorexic and their really worried. i try to tell them im not but, they dont believe me. What should i do?

if youre just depressed tell them you are theyll understand as much as they can

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I am in love with my ex boyfriend. He broke up with me and is well and truly over me and I know that for a fact, so there is no chance of us getting back together. We're still friends and alot of people know I still have feelings for him and people have told him but I always deny it when he asks me. There is no point in me telling him how I feel because he doesn't want to get back together but he keeps asking me if I still have feelings for him. I want to tell him the truth because I hate lying to him but it might make things uncomfortable. Should I just tell him?

tell him what have you got to lose

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There is this guy that use to go to my school lets call him "S" and "S" was so nice to me and everthing and when i went out with this one guy lets call him "J" and broke up with "J", "J" started threatning me and stuff so "S" beat "J" up because "J" was threatning me so "S" got expelled for fighting and i really miss him and i want to go out with him but i havent seen him since he got expelled and "S" is in 8th and im in 7th and im 13 and i wont be able to see him until i get in 9th but all my friends have been trying to hook me up with alot of guys and the guys have asked me out and stuff but i say no because im really depressed and only want "S" but i cant have "S" until 2 years and i dont know if "S" will still like me so what should i do

call him or invite him to the movies he will probely still like you if he beat a guy up for you

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I got a nipple ring about 2 years ago, boy did it hurt!! haha, I followed the directions of the piercer and did everything properly and as often as you were suppose to, but basically ever since then on and off I keep getting this gross crusty stuff, its like a yellowish color.. and sometimes when i move my ring i can see white sutff on the ring, ha i know this is totally gross!! Well yea my boyfriend got a nipple ring about a year ago and his did that too, but then it went away and it never gets crusty's anymore! I dont get it, why is mine still doing it? Do i have to clean it more? I was wondering if anyone knew what I have to do to fix it without going to the piercing place cause I got it pierced once i dont want them to see my boob a second time! haha SO anyone have any tips or experienced the same thing that can help me?

its like an earing its puss thats still coming out give it some time it should go away

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I think I have depression, I've got almost all the symptoms on this website, and I've felt like this for about 5 months. I don't know how to tell my mum; she's so old fashioned and she thinks that young people can't get depression, and I'm 14 so she won't believe me. I started crying this morning for a stupid reason but I was feeling depressed, and she just said, "oh, here we go." She won't believe me if I tell her. I don't know who to tell, my friends are immature and won't understand - or they'll laugh about it, 'cos I'm good at hiding how I feel and I smile when I'm feeling bad so no-one notices. I can't make a doctors appointment myself, and I don't know how to get a counsellor, and anyway I also think I've got social anxiety so I wouldn't be able to say anything for them to help. How can I get rid of this depression because lately I've been considering suicide and looking on the net for ways to go about it. Thanks xo

you have toi tell youre mom and if she dont belive her then tell her to look at the symptoms you have i have been diagnosed with depression and its not a fun thing to have so i no how you feel but youre mom has to get you help before you do something you have to tell her

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There is this guy that use to go to my school and he was so nice to me and everthing and when i went out with this one guy and broke up with him he started threatning me and stuff so the guy that liked me beat my x up because he was threatning me so he got expelled for fighting and i really miss him and i want to go out with him but i havent seen him since he got expelled and hes in 8th and im in 7th and im 13 and i wont be able to see him until i get in 9th but all my friends have been trying to hook me up with alot of guys and they guys have asked me out and stuff but i say no because im really depressed and only want him but i cant have him until 2 years and i dont know if he will still like me so what should i do

omg are u stupid the guy threatend you thats like future wifebeater right there im not trying to make you feel bad or anything but gurl you dont need to see his sorry ass

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okay well im going out with this guy for a year ( im 14 he's 15) and like we've never had sex or anything but like his PARENTS bought him condoms and said "i know what you kids do now " SHouldn't i take that offensivley..because IM not that kind of girl I aint going to have sex till im about 18 or something. I dont know what should I do? I feel weird around his parents now, and he's mad at them for doing that hes ignoring them. What should I do please help!

dont feel offended becuase parents are idiots sometimes becuase they think they know it all but there also thinking about what they did at his age.

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ok I really like this guy ever since... whenever and everyone says that he wants a girlfriend really badly cause he's so desperate. thats why the girls he asks out break up with him cause hes not really worth it. well I really like him i really do and he started flirting with me the other day in one part he said "i'm afraid to ask you out cause you might say no" then i started giggling and he said "what do you have a thing for me" and we just started flirting. then i asked one of his close friends about it and she said that he usually does that when he wants someone to ask him out. and the flirting was like for only one day. after that my best friend asked him if he liked me and he said "no i dont like anyone right now." soo he is desperate but i really wanna go out with him cuz i like him. should i tell him? what about the flirting? please help! thank you soo much!!
-shy girl

go ahead and ask cuase the wors thing that can happen is hed say no and that ant that bad

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What different things can I do to lose weight in my face, stomach, legs, butt, I guess everything..?? I can't really go out and run though because there's kind of snow on the ground :p but..so what can I do to lose weight? People recommend like jump roping and stuff but would that even work? I mean it sounds kind of worthless because you arent really doing anything..your just jumping..but once again what can I do?? Please help :o) Thanx!!

if u think it wont work try walkin in place that away you keep youre heart rate up

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