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Hey my name is alexandra and im 16. I like lots of different kinds of music. If you ask me a question I will get back to you when i can.
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hey you might know who this is. i just wanted to say i would like to be friends again. it would be nice to talk again. things got out of hand befor i know you were upset. it was fun while it lasted. if you get this give rob a note if you want to talk. and yes i ment it. (link)


My friend likes to have sex with guys a lot, I am worried she will end up pregnant or with an STD. What shoulkd I do? (link)
talk to her and make sure she is being safe and tell her not to have sex with lots of guys.


ok my boyfriend and i had oral sex. i fell like i have betrayed everyone and now i dont know if i was ready. is this normal?
Thanks
Lauren (link)
it is normal so dont freak out cuz you cant go back you'll be fine ok. You didnt betray anyone by doing what you did so its ok


On New Years Eve im going to my boyfriends house. I'm a virgin but that night i think i want to lose my virginity with him. I'm 14 almost 15 i know i'm young but i'm tired of being a virgin. We've only been going out for a week today but we went out for 7 months a while back. Please don't reply if your just going to call me a hoe or yell at me because i don't need that. Would i be making the wrong choice if i do? I already know about the whole getting pregnant thing im not stupid..but other than that am i making the right choice? thanks.. (link)
i think it depends on how much you care about your boyfriend and think about it you might regret it later. you should be happy to be a virgin i wish i was. If i were you i would wait cause you probably will regret it later.


ok i have these white dots on my nails. there in any random spot, anywhere on my nail. does anyone else have these or know what they are?? thanks (link)
its from not having enough calcium thats all it is. they'll go away if you get more calcium in your body


Okay, I recently had sex and the next day I forgot to take my birth control. (We didn't use a condom and i've been using it for about 4 months) the day after that I forgot and for about the next week after that I didnt take it. Is there a good chance that I could be pregnet??


-Scared :( (link)
there still a chance even when you remember to take birth control but if u took it before you should be fine. so dont freak out cause it doesnt matter after you have sex as long as you took it before ok


Ok, well, right now, i'm in 7th grade. Well, a couple of weeks ago, i got bored and well, i fingered myself...i kno pretty desprit, eh? Well, anyway, me and my boyfriend r ready to go to the next step, and he wants to finger me. Well, see the only thing that's stopping me is that I don't know if there is any transmitted disease i can get. Id there any transmitted disease i can get or can i get hurt in any kind of way?


thnx for the help>> roxy (link)
You won't get any disease from getting fingered.You wont get hurt in any way


I just have a quick question, shouldn't take long.

See, I'm wanting to lose some weight in the tummy area, but... I've heard that if you work out a lot, your breast size drops. I'm a C cup, and I like it that way. Any tips on things I can do that will drop weight in the stomache and nowhere else?

Thanks! (link)
just do crunches thats what i do. i do like 100 or more each day. It helps only in the stomach


what are signs that you are pregnant? (link)
The biggest sign that is your period is late. Not feeling well and stomach hurting a lot is another sign if u have morning sickness and gain weight those are two other signs. Your period late and gaining weight are what u should really watch for if you think you are pregnet


ok well im stuck between 2 realli great guys. Both like me and i like both of them. guy #1 is cute and very poetic i know its kinda bad but he is also my recent ex boyfriend but i have feelings for him still. guy #2 is very cute and sweet but also my boyfriend from last summer. I dont kno which one to choose its very hard!!! there is also another problem, well guy #2 has a goodfriend that has liked me for a long time and i think if i date guy #2 then he and his friend will be fighting and his friend will hate me and of course i dont want that but i realli care about guy #2 he is very special what should i do??? (link)
i think you should go for guy #1 then you will have less problems with #2 and his friends and if guy #1 there is always #2. Just #2 that you would go out with him but you dont want to mess up him and his friends relationship. Just talk to him


so. my best friend introduced me to a guy she dated about a year ago.He ended up falling for me, and then he got me to fall for him. and..we were in love. Seriously. The feeling is just to hard to explain. We basically did everying except sex, and oral sex. I look back on it, and it makes my skin crawl. So, he ended it with me about a month ago, and he let me down pretty hard. It hurt so bad, but then I found out what an ass hole he was. (He cheated on my best friend) I'm finally over him, but the problem is, sometimes, when I'm alone I can't stop thinking about him, and it makes my cry so hard. I just can't forget how he made me feel. I hate it because I'm dating someone else now, who is so great, and treats me so much better. I feel unfaithful almost. What can I do to forget him!? I'm 15, and a girl...obviously. Rarr! I can't handle this! (link)
Just stop thinking about him and if you start to think about him just think about the guy you are dating now think about how he makes you feel. That all you can really do trust me im tryen to forget about my ex who i still love. ok


okay i've been telling this guy i like him and he's been showing interest! one of my good friend's says he likes me because well she talked to him! and everyone in my class is telling me that he likes me! we are talking more and i aam getting to know him better! any ideas for him and i to move forward and maybe move into a relationship?! people say i flirt like crazy and especially him! what else can i do?! (link)
i have the same problem now but just tell him how you feel and see what he says and if you find out he doesnt really like you then just move on and find someone better. Plus never listen to your friends find out for yourself.


my exbf just broke up with me and now im looking for people. well i didnt know this till yesterday but i met his cousin and his cousin was flirting with me and i was flirting back. his cousin even knew i was his exgf but he still flirted but i didnt know so i didnt think i was doing something wrong. now i feel like im doing something wrong! can i go out with my ex's cousin?!?! im so confused and his cousin seems intrested in me and he knows a couple things i never told any1 bfore. is it right to go out with him? i really like him and i know he likes me so please tell me or should we just stay friends? i think my exbf would get mad but he broke up with me. kk

thnx


signed,

CONFUSED (link)
i think it doesnt matter if he is your ex's cousin you still can go out with who you want to.Your ex can not tell you not to date his cousin cause he cant control you. There is nothing wrong with it. Do what ever you want gurl cause your ex broke up with you so he shouldn't care who you date.


whats the gynocologist do? Is it painful? what age do you go at? how often do you go? once a year? twice a year? what? and why do we go? (link)
well i hate to tell you this but they stick like this plastic stick thing up you and they the usually stick three fingers up you to feel your overies.I thought it was painful but try not to think about it think about something else something funny it help. There is no sertain age you do this at.you go once a year unless you think you could have some kind of disease when you had sex then you can go again. You just go to make sure your overies are ok and if you have been having sex to make sure u have not gotton a disease. I had to go when i lost my virginity and my mom found out so there is no sertain age when you have to go. it gets easier to go every time. Its not that bad also you can get your regular doctor sometimes to do the same thing as a gynocologist.




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