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new years eve
On New Years Eve im going to my boyfriends house. I'm a virgin but that night i think i want to lose my virginity with him. I'm 14 almost 15 i know i'm young but i'm tired of being a virgin. We've only been going out for a week today but we went out for 7 months a while back. Please don't reply if your just going to call me a hoe or yell at me because i don't need that. Would i be making the wrong choice if i do? I already know about the whole getting pregnant thing im not stupid..but other than that am i making the right choice? thanks..
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well...you're not a hoe...but make sure you're REALLY ready...cuz if you do this..you might end up regretting it
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well im not going to call you any names because i don't think that's right and no one should be judged like that..but anyways, if you two really love eachother and your sure your ready then go for it, and if you've already considered the consequences ( which is good) then atleast you've thought long and hard about it,..if you feel your ready, then do it, but don't just do it to lose your virginity, do it cuz you love this person...xOx KT
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well i think if you think your ready to have sex with him then thats not wrong and noone should judge u for loving someone that much...justin...
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I think you should do what ever you want what ever you feel..if you feel that you ready go for it!!
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Well it's kind if late to answer that question but whatever you did, I hope it was the right choice. I hope you used a condom. ;)
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honestly, something like having sex shouldnt really be planned out to the certain day you will first have it. your first time should be a great first time. if it is planned out, it may not be as nice as it could be, and something might happen that will get in the way of your "plans". but please sweety, when you do decide to have sex, please be careful and please use some form of contraception (not including withdrawl). good luck with what you decide.
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Hey i will also be in d house wit my boyf of 4 months on newyrs eve and am wondering wether 2 loose my V with him. I think the fact that you have been together for 7months beforehand must mean there is something there between you, however you have to remeber why you finnished and wil this happen again. I think if you're totally comfortable with this person, see im not sure wether i am with my boyf yet, then go for it. You sound sensible and know about condoms n pregnancy so, You only live once.
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no one knows if your making the right choice except for you!, if you feel that your completely ready and you love this guy.. then go for it.. but you just need to make sure you aren't going to regret it later.. and also know that he LOVES you back and isn't just with you for sex! good luck!
xoXo*-Katie
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I think if you love him and feel comfortable with him then go ahead, but make sure you use protection! I wish you luck...hope I helped!
((*Becky*))aKa((*Lil QT*))
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you definantly are making a mistake...i know it seems hard but it is smart to save it unitl your 17 or older trust me it could save your life...but if you do use condoms...
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Well if you really want to then i don't see a problem. but like you said you know the consequences so if your comfortable with him and hes comfortable with him then i think it would work out fine. so if its really what you want to do then go for it! xOxO Katie**
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if you feel it is right, then it is. But since you have doubts, you obviously aren't ready.
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i think if you love him go ahead. i mean remember have protection!!! i know people that are 10 and lost there virginity so i think your good lol
xoxo
peace
Greek Ouzo
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hey-im gonna be point blank honest with you. The question is are you ready to have sex with him? I wouldn't let a bunch of strangers determine the outcome of my life. You need to sit down and think this over for yourself-know the risks, know what you are getting into. If you feel its something you really want to do, then by all means go for it (BUT USE PROTECTION)-if you don't think u're ready there are plenty of other opportunities to have sex. Just make sure its something you won't regret-if you have any second thoughts then just don't do it. Hope i helped
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Just my opinion, but I think for one you're too young. And one week ? It doesn't matter if you went out for 3 years a while back, PEOPLE CHANGE. Good luck sweetie ... hope u make tha rite choice! Luvs n hugs xoxo
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Personally, I think you should only have sex w.someone if you love them. I mean of course me and my friends always talk about how hott someone is and how we'd have sex w.them but when it really comes down to it, you should only have sex w.someone you truly love. And you have to be OK w.people calling you a slut bc it'll get around and people WILL call you that. He could have really changed since the last time you went out w.him, so you should probably know him a little better on the boyfriend level before you have sex w.him. Do you really want your first time to be when you're 14? If it was me...when I'm like 30, I wouldn't understand why I had sex when I was 14. You just have to think about 5 years from now, or when you're getting married (*to someone who ISN'T him) or when everyones talking about you being a slut, if it'd still be the right choice. There's definately conciquences and my advice is to NOT have sex w.him..you shouldn't have sex w.him bc you're tired of being a virgin, being a virgin is a good thing, not a bad thing, and you shouldn't have sex JUST to loose it, but if you do...new years eve is probably a good night!
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!
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Yes you are if you think your ready than you are
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i think it depends on how much you care about your boyfriend and think about it you might regret it later. you should be happy to be a virgin i wish i was. If i were you i would wait cause you probably will regret it later.
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how can you be tired of being a virgin??? you should be proud you don't have to lose your virginity just to show that you like your boyfriend don't go through with it!!!
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You've got your whole life ahead of you. I don't think you should do this. Yes, you could get pregnant. A condom isn't 100% reliable, and you never know what could happen. Sex is something you should save for the person you truly love, later in life. Your first time will always be in your memory, whether you like to admit it or not. Don't just give up your virginty because your sick of being a virgin. Sex is a major decision. You say you've gone out with him for 7 months before. Well what broke you up? And who's to say it won't come up again? Imagine your life in 10 years. Do you see him in it? Right now he may seem like Mr. Prince Charming, but your going to date many guys before you find the right guy. If you are questioning whether or not you should, then you aren't ready. If you wre ready there would be no doubt in your mind or your heart that this is what you want to do. Following that way will help you avoid regrets. Maybe not now you won't regret it, or maybe not 6 months away, but you WILL. I'm not trying to yell at you or be your mother, I'm just trying to save you from making a big decision so soon. =)
♥ lAuRa
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I'm not trying to control you, but I think you should wait. You're still a little young. If you become pregnant, kids will tease you. You should know the guy REALLY well enough to have sex. But if you really feel you're ready, then do it.
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I personally think that you aren't ready... if you were ready you would be 100 percent sure, have no doubt in your heart, & not be askin for advice... when have doubts about sumthing... it's usually not good to go thru with it... always remember that... when your ready... you'll know it...
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You could be. And how do you know if he wants to? You are right you are young. And you might later regret that.. so.. i would really think about this.. long and hard-trix
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its youre choice im not gonna try to swa you if u want to do it if u dont then dont but youre best decision should be waiting
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I've been in situations like that and i'm in 7th grade------and i know a lot of girls that have lost their virginity, but none of them have gotten pregnant. Even though this is very risky, i think they try to scare us in heath class that condoms dont work. I don't think thats the reality of it, but I wouldn't have sex anyway---because I'm not ready~~~~it might not be that fun anyway, cuz ya boy might not know how to do it and I bet it would be awkward. I was scared shitless just to tounge kiss a boy like 2 years ago. So just think how scary it it to do him. But if ur comfortable with him, then I don't see why not. Just dont regret what the outcome turns out to be.
$$$Babii D$$$
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Its all about you hun, YOU Have decide, you cant really ask people whether u should or not ( sorry if that sounded mean), if YOU want to do it, and if YOU think your READY...READY being the key word, then do it...but if your bf is pressuring you, which i dont think he is, but IF he is, you shouldnt do it unless you WANT too...hope i helped hun! byeee
-Jenn
JSIMT
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Hmm.. This is a tough question.. but honestly hun if you're asking us on this site if you're making the right choice.. I don't think you're ready.. You have to be comfortable with this and don't just do it cause you're tired of being a virgin.. I'm glad you know you're young so just really think about it before deciding you're ready to do this. And if you do make sure you're protected and you trust this guy... Good luck and be careful! If you need anything let me know..
Hope I helped!
~Lana
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I really think that you would regret it if you choose to sleep with him. You are very young and will no doubt date many many more guys before you settle down to get married. You have dated this guy before yes but something must have happened to make the relationship split the first time. How do you know that the reasons for the first break up wont come up again? There is no way for you to know that you will still be with this guy next week. Wait until you are older and able to handle the repercussions of your decision (yes you could get pregnant and being a 14 or 15 year old mother isnt a fun thing) before you do it. Remember, once you do this there is no taking it back. Dont do something that you might regret. Give yourself time to enjoy your teen years first. Best Wishes!
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you are way to young to be having sex. i know some people want to lose there viginary early but you are way to young and so you would be making a big mistake! if hes not pushing you thats good but if yall have only been going out a week thats not to long and i think you should wait! good luck!
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If that's what you want..i guess you can do it, im not stopping you, but I do honestly thikn oyur too young, and what would happen if you WOULD become pregnant, what would you do?
I just think that you should wait because later on in life you'll regret it, you want your first time to be special dont you? I dont think that you'll want to look back and remember that your first time was when you were only 14...
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if you think that you are ready.. then you are ready. the thing is.. do you want to loose it to him?? it is all your choice.. if u feel ready then you are. but if something went wrong and you got pregnant.. wouldnt you be really upset? but it is your choice, and if you feel ready.. then do it!!
i hope i helped!
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x0x0 abbey x0x0
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if you think your ready go for it, just make sure that you wont regret it. if you think your going to make the wrong choice dont do it, any doubts about anything dont do it. if u think your ready go for it, use a condom too hun! hope you make a good decision, xox starzzz789
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Only you can decide if you're making the right decision. If you truly feel like you're ready for this then just make sure you know all the precautions and consequences. You should also make sure that you're comfortable being with him and having him be the person that you did this with and will remember for the rest of your life. You need to make sure you feel safe with him and that if by some chance sumthing does happen (like if you get pregnant) that he will be there for you. But, in my opinion, it doesn't seem like you're 100% ready because you are questioning whether or not this is what you really want to do. Don't have sex just to have sex and not be a virgin nemore. You should have sex because you're in love with the person you're with and you want it to be special.
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I don't think you're making the right choice sorry :-( If you went out for 7 months, and didn't feel ready - what's changed so dramatically that you feel your ready now?
I know when I was a teenager - I dumped somebody because they wouldn't sleep with me after 6 months - but looking back, it was a really stupid thing to do. Your virginity is an important and valuable thing - dont just throw it away - wait until it feels so right that there's no question about it!
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If you are not totally ready then no. You should have no doubt in your mind if you are. I know its probably not what you wanted to hear but truth isnt always going to be candy-coated. You're still young. Just stick to making out. *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*
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No, I do not think you are making the right choice. If you have to ask if you are ready, then you are not. "If you doubt, don't."
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