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Q: Me and this guy are friends right now and I feel we have a close connection since he always seems to want to talk to me. But he has a girlfriend....so tell me please, how do I get him to like me as more than just a friend OR ask me out? Please help it would be greatly appreciated.
Hey he's gota girlfriend. You shouldn't be trying to get him to like you. If he does like you in that way its up to him to break things up with his girl not you. -x-

Q: ok... there is this guy at school and I called him once and from then we started talking every night and he started to like me and I started to like him too.. so then he asked me out.. and I said no, because with the nights we were talking we talked about not going out with ne body until Highschool.. so then we just keep talking and he asks me out 2 more times after that and I said no to both.. so we were supposed to meet eachother and he ditched me.. the next day he told my friend that it was over between us.. I still like him.. What should I do????? PLEASE HELP???
if you like him hunny go tell him, he asked you out enough times so he's gota still have feelings for you. However, he ditched u? make him yours and then teach him some manners! -x-

Q: Well out of the blue, starting after winter vacation, my old best friend is coming back to my school. We were best friends growing up till third grade when she lefty for a Catholic school well now she's comign to my public school and she was nervous and called me up for the first time in 4 years. NOw that I am the only one she knows it means that sjhe gets to "shadow" me for her first week till she learnes where everything is. I kinda don't want her around anynmore though, she immature and I have outgrown her and made new friends. Yet i feel stuck becuase her mom called my mom and said how excited she was and stuff and i can't just bum her off on someone.... What can i DO?
as you haven't seen her for 4 years she may have changed, not be so immature. Just see how it goes for the first few days then if shes annoying you suggests suttely that she makes her own way in the skool, e.g her own freinds. Or you could jus pretend to be completely different and then she will want to not hang round with you. try it. x

Q: Hey! I didnt know what to put this under so ya..I am going to be 14 on Febuary 23rd and I dont know what to do for my party? anyone have any good suggestions on what we could do to be kept occupied? lol I have a big *green room* aka living room that we could hang out in but i just dont know what we could do? I am in the country but not like farm country and have a nice size backyard! I will rate high if you give party tips!! thx much!! ♥Andrea
personally, because you live out of the city you have less people to annoy. I would get a bunch of your mates round, boys and gals, get loads of junk food and movies. Play your music real loud, chill outside for a while then go in and watch movies all night. hope this helped. x

Q: i wrote this question befor but i left out somethings. I'm like a tomboy and boys think of me as one of the guys. One of my best friends is the guy i like. People say he likes me. My friends that are girls say he likes. they say they can tell. i cant they say im not girly anough to like a boy. People pick on me about it and some are my crushes good friends. im cunfused can anyone help me.
hey if u get on with this guy then why shouldnt you go for it, it doesn't matter what you are ( e.g tomboy) you are obviously interested in the same things and because of that you are probably a bigger turn on for this guy than your other girly girl friends. hope i helped. x

Q: I didn't know what to put this under. My mom and I want to help out with the tsunami disaster by sending $, but my mom doesn't think it'll help. Like it won't be enough. What do you think? Should we send the money or no?
Thanks
ovcourse, every little helps, even if it doesn't help the people directly it will contribute to the 'bigger picture' xx

Q: Well, I got into a fight with my friend , shes been my friend since 1st grade. and i'm in 9th grade now. I got into a fight with her because she gave my purse to someone without asking me, and she wouldn't tell the person to give it back. so i said until she gives it back im not talking to you. she started flipping out swearing, calling me fat and ugly and i couldn't get a boyfriend. THEN, i was going to forgive her until she told my other ex-friend marie that i talk about her all the time, and told her everything i said about her (which was true), but i don't think she should do that, i can't trust her or anything . i don't think i can forgive her.. what would u do?!
hey, ur freind dusn't sound like a true freind. U should b abe to trust her saying as you have known eachother for so long, she seems extremely childish for the way she acted. go find a new freind! xx

Q: If you are trying to lose weight (say, 15 pounds) what is the best way to exercise...should you do, say, 30-40 minutes of cardio a day? Or should you do cardio AND do strengthening and toning exercising...can someone give me a good schedule to help with weight lose and still tone
i looked on the internet and typed in bikini body, a few website came up, i looked at the bikini body plan. You do 30 mins of exrcise 3 times a week for the first wekk. IN this 30 mins do, for example, 3-5 mins of walking thenr un for 3-5 mins and continue. This helps burn fat and push your body harder. The second week do 3 sessions of 15 mins of excercise and then do stretches for 15 mins, this eliminated cellulite. You have to stretch legs mainly, deep and hard, this will hurt! the third week is aimed at toning your body. Do 30 mins of exercise, 15 mins of stretchin and then do 15-30 mins of toning excercises targeting specific problem areas. Hope this helps!

Q: On New Years Eve im going to my boyfriends house. I'm a virgin but that night i think i want to lose my virginity with him. I'm 14 almost 15 i know i'm young but i'm tired of being a virgin. We've only been going out for a week today but we went out for 7 months a while back. Please don't reply if your just going to call me a hoe or yell at me because i don't need that. Would i be making the wrong choice if i do? I already know about the whole getting pregnant thing im not stupid..but other than that am i making the right choice? thanks..
Hey i will also be in d house wit my boyf of 4 months on newyrs eve and am wondering wether 2 loose my V with him. I think the fact that you have been together for 7months beforehand must mean there is something there between you, however you have to remeber why you finnished and wil this happen again. I think if you're totally comfortable with this person, see im not sure wether i am with my boyf yet, then go for it. You sound sensible and know about condoms n pregnancy so, You only live once.

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Hey, i'm a 17 yr old female and live in England. I love music (all types but mainly R&B), films, sport and being with my friends. I play the guitar and love going on holiday! ;-) xx

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