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Well out of the blue, starting after winter vacation, my old best friend is coming back to my school. We were best friends growing up till third grade when she lefty for a Catholic school well now she's comign to my public school and she was nervous and called me up for the first time in 4 years. NOw that I am the only one she knows it means that sjhe gets to "shadow" me for her first week till she learnes where everything is. I kinda don't want her around anynmore though, she immature and I have outgrown her and made new friends. Yet i feel stuck becuase her mom called my mom and said how excited she was and stuff and i can't just bum her off on someone.... What can i DO?
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Hey sweetie,maybe she changed!Give her a chance.Cathlic School is very strict give she probably changed!So just give her a chance to make friends but while she does that let her stick around with you.Hope I helped and it works out!!XoXo Nicole~
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Things do chance. Over 4 years.. wow thats a long time you may not know how much she changed. it could be a awful lot.. or not so much. Things happan just give it a try. If things dont work out just tell her you need to spend some time away from her-HaPpY nEw YeAr!! pLeAsE rAtE mE!! -trix!
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as you haven't seen her for 4 years she may have changed, not be so immature. Just see how it goes for the first few days then if shes annoying you suggests suttely that she makes her own way in the skool, e.g her own freinds. Or you could jus pretend to be completely different and then she will want to not hang round with you. try it. x
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All you can do is tell her the truth it may hurt her but still you have to tell her
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Just be there for her. Maybe she's not so immature anymore like you think. It could turn out to be kinda fun. Try looking at it under a more positive light. Your new friends will see what a great caring person you are to take this on. Then as time goes on, your old friend will also find new friends like you did, and you can watch with a smile as your little chic makes her way into the waters.
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Maybe your old best friend really needs you. What would you do if you were going to a school where you only know one person that you were best friends with a while ago. Would you call that person to help you or would you sit at home being really nevous and having no one to tlak to about it? You should let her shadow you and see if you want to be friends with her and if you dont then just help her out with finding her own friends and just live the life that you did before you herd about her coming back. Make sure you dont ditch her becuase you could need her in the future. "what goes around comes around"
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Think if u were in her spot. this has gotta be tuff on the girl, so for when shes shadowing you just go with it and let her get used to everything, and then after that dont just ditch her but start hanging out with your friends. She'll get used to things, and hopefully will find her own clique.
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Well you have to let her shadow you and who knows mabee she matured a lot more..all you have to do is deal wit her for a week then your own your own i bet she ll meet some new friends soo she wont always be by you but i mean be nice to her she mite not be that bad..i mean how would you feel if you were new and you didnt no anyone but one person? think about it like that
good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))
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