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Im kalene im 15 years old And i D Love to answer any of your ?`sz ill do the best i can! Ive been threw alot in my life and i bet i could help you through alot..if you got`sz ne more ?`sz feel free to im me or email me or whatveer floats your boat!!
Love ya
--xO KalenE

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Well, I was on the way to school, and my girlfriend came up to me and said she likes another guy. So she is deciding whether to go out with me or the other guy. should I even still go out with her? should I like her anymore?

No dont waste your time on someone who wont waste their time on you more girls out there hunie
Good lucl
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I have a really hot boyfiend thats cute,funny,nice and caring but I have the biggest feeling that he's cheating on me and I don't wanna be hurt what should I do?

Well most guys that are like *perfect* are haha that sucks soo bad i know..but i d ask him abouot it be like i have this feeling your cheating on me and if you are dump me right now...no matter how much it hurts if he does it wonce he ll do it again..
goodluck babe
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Ok, there's this kid at my school, Drew. We sorta like each other, so on Sat. we had like, this 5 hour long convo, and we just decided to go to the Snowball together. (it's a dance). So anyway, today at school, I was telling my friends Jenny and Nicole (Nicole likes Drew) about it. Jenny was real happy for me, but I noticed Nicole just looked mad. So I just online a little bit ago, and my one friend was talking to her, and IMing me their convo, and turns out, she's real pissed about me going to the dance with Drew and just liking him in the first place, but I can't help it. I heard from Drew that he doesn't even like Nicole the way she does. So I IMed her saying I was sorry if I made her mad, but we both decided to go to the dance together. I told her to stop bein so weird about it cuz it has nothing to do with her. And then she signed off. Idk, I just want your opinion about this. Who's right and wrong here? And I want to go to the dance w/ Drew, but I don't want to upset Nicole either. What should I do?

Shes jealous but she ll get over it i mean i mean i no shes your really good friend but if she freaks out because you go then shes not a true friend this drew guy seems awesome dont let him down go and have an awesome time!!
good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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Ok thre is this guy that i like but he is 18 know and i am 15. And i just found out that his girlfriend is prenget and i like him really bad. but i have know him for since i was little cause he and my uncle were good friends. We use to party together but that was the old days. And i don't know if i should tell him bow i fell. But i hope some one can help me. Michy

Well hes 18 and hes got alot on his plate right now he might not really care so i would wait till he gets things all strait before you tell him and you never know he might marry her nd then you kno u have no chance...sorry..but good luck babe
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just wondering...but how old do you think is the "right" age to have sex?... my friends sister is like 12 and knows a bunch of people who have had sex at that age...i'm sorry but i think thats way wrong. what do u think the right age would be?

Well you have to love this guy and have to be with him for at least 9 months and i think 14 and older is okay but 16 and 18 is the best..good luck
((xO-Kalene-ox)) 12 is way to young!!

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Okay, I was at this party last night and it was with a bunch of my guyfriends/friends. The thing is, my boyfriend was with me. These two guyfriends of mine are particularly touchy-feely types, and they like to pick me up and toss me around and all that...I'm small, lol. This one guy, Aaron, dipped me back like he was about to kiss me, and my boyfriend was glaring daggers at him. He was doing that to both Aaron and Kevin through the whole night. He already doesn't like Kevin because he's my ex, but I think he dislikes him more now. My boyfriend isn't usually the jealous type. I talked to both guys and told them to lay off with the touching me, and I told my boy that it doesn't mean a thing, that they're just my friends and they've always done that to me, but I don't think it helped.
Okay, basically, what I'm asking is, is there anything I can tell him besides what I've already said to make my boyfriend stop with the jealousy?

Tell him their just your friends..but i mean how would you feel if he did that to other girls and stuff like that i bet you d get jealous it probaly really hurts for him to see you wit other guys...he must really love you..he might dump you if this stuff keeps happening so if youd ont wanan loose him then i d stop doing that..
good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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ahhh!!! im gonna go crazy. one of my best friends thinks her life sucks and it doesn't. because her boyfriend broke up with her and her parents don't treat her right. she said she's going to start cutting herself and that she's given up on God. I don't know what to do. and please don't tell me to talk to her. if you do tell me what to say. because i'm really confused...

Tel her that if she starts cutting her self people will dislike her more because they will think shes a freak and she could kill her self and then she d go to hell and regret that boys are ass holes your going to get more broken hearts but you gotta move on LIFE sux everyone knows that and offer it up people have it worst then you..tell her to get up stop crying and getting people too pitty her and do something abouot it tell her to talk to her parents tell her to find a new guy and smash it in his face and tel her to get makeup or some new clothes and make her feel soo great about her self when she looks in teh mirror good luck!!
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okay,well,me and my ex-boyfriend went out. Then broke up 6 days later. Then got back together. then broke up a week later. Then made out sooooooooooooo many times. Then we went back out. Then a rumor got passed and we broke up. then we went back out because we still liked each other. Then we broke up because i cheated on him. Then we got back together becuase i broke up with the other guy. And now we are broke up again because he liked my cousin but he doesnt know shes from across the country! okay...how do i get him back? I think i still like him! Ha! Ha!

You guys play to many games with eachother if you want to go back out you have to promise eachtoehr this is going to stop or if it was me I'd just move on and be really good friends bc if you cheated on him and he cheated on you not good..if he did it once he ll do it again..you cheated on him bc u liked anotehr guy which ment you didnt like him which ment you dont like him enough anymore to be with him..and it seems like you always have a boyfriend be single for awile and have the time of your life before you have to settle down good luck babe
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I like my boyfriend, and i like to be around him. but im not sure if i really like/love him. Im 15/f. He says he likes me too, but we dont really have that much in common. I had my heart broken in the past and well i really dont want it to happen again so i was wondering if maybe thats why im not really into this guy. I want to be because he is awesome and one of the nicest guys i have ever met, but sometimes i think about things to much and then i start thinking he really isnt that interested in me. What would you do in this situation?

Well never be afraid of dating a new guy because you think hes going to break your heart..you got a move on even thought it kills i know how it feels but anyway if your questioning your relationship I dont think you really like him i think you like him as more of a friend so I'd nicely break up with him and be really good friends and when you hang out more you might grow closer and get lots more feeings for him..good luck though
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How do you write something on a virgin mobile k9 phone on the main screen? like where it says Virgin Mobile and the time and stuff cause i wanna put my nick name there. Thanks.

Go to settings then banner well thats what it is on my verizon phone i know there not the same but ther both cell phones and thats how it is on Nokias to..and you can look at manuels on the internet i bet look there and see how? good luck
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My friend and I went to the movies at the mall and after it was over, we saw my crush and his friend there too. I know that he saw me, because he knows who I am because he goes to my church and all that stuff. Well, after we went to the bathroom, he was still there. I know that he looked at us a few times. What would that mean? And, my friend and I were smiling and whispering to eachother and looking back at him. She doesn't like him though. Anyways, what would that have said to him, us smiling and looking at him. Would it have told him anything? And why was he looking at us (me)? Thanks and I rate. Oh, he's a year older and we're in jr. high.

Hes was probaly looking because if you saw him looking you were looking at him to lol and he probaly thought he reconized you try to get his s/n or something and talk to him online and see what he thinks of you and stuff and he probaly thinks you were talking about him ..haha and he probaly wants to know what you were saying..Or maybe he thinks your attractive and may have a crush on you also never know but let im know how you feel believe me if you dont do it now you might not ever be able to!!
Good luck babe
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Ok I have a question?? I was at this party... and this guy was there and he waited until I was all messed up. I fell asleep and he woke me up and all the sudden I feel an arm goin around me! He wouldn't stop touching me when I told him to. I tried to move but he wouldn't let me! I told my friend and stuff and then I talked to his girlfriend about it and she doesn't believe me!! And then a couple days later I found out he was labeled as a sex offender before!! I wouldn't let anyone call the police cuz I didn't want to get involved in that! Now,to tell you he was 20 and I am 15 and the sick part is he was like my brother, he was a family friend and was always there for me. Tell me how come I miss him and still cry about what happened. Will someone please tell me what to do and I rate high! THANKS

It sounds like you have feelings for him but he does have a girlfriend and girls can get bitchy so try to move on and find another guy by your age who will touch you like hold your hand and hold you and make you feel good about yourself..good luck hun..hope everything works out
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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I don't have any guts when it comes to dumping a guy. Well.. OK I must admit this is my first time and we never went out on a date. I just don't want to be in a relationship right now. So, do you think it is ok to write a note to the guy I want to dump and say I don't want to be in a relationship? Or, does anyone know another way where I don't have to talk to him face-to-face. Or, do I have to talk to him like that! PLease help!

Email,aim,letter but it would be better if you did it in person because then he knows you have guts and one day this guy mahy be soo attractive and you might want to date him and if he knows you have guts and where not the girl who didnt have guts to dump me face to face he may not go for you..Just tell him that you have feelings for him but you just want to be single right now and be really good friends and maybe later have a relationship again..DONT SAY DUMP thats the worst word..thats mean!! lol good luck
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Well I am kinda in a long distance relationship and it is hard because i dont get to see him like everyday. I am only 13 and i am a female and I think he is the one and I love him every much. Do you think this will last forever????? NEED HELP FAST!!!!

Im in a long distance relationship and I see my boyfriend once or twice a month and im 14 and we ve been together for 8 months and when we do see eachotehr its soo great..so i say yea stick with him expecially if he treats u soo great when your with him...if he doesnt then find a guy that will there..good luck to you both!!
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tomorrow is my birthday but im not having a party cuz my parents r strict like that. family is coming over n stuff but see i havent talked to my best friend alice since the day before yesterday. i mean she knows its my b day tomorrow but idk if shes gonna come. should i invite her ne way? but i mean what would we do? its gonna be really gay ..please help. i rate even for effort. and i haven't even called her today, i dont know how to bring it up. ok thanks in advance! =)

Call her and say hey do you know what tomorow is and she ll prob say your birthday if not dont invite her and say mi fam is coming over tommorow and im going to be very bored please come and hang wit me and i betcha she will..good luck and happy birthay
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I love having sleep overs they are so much fun but sometimes I wish that I could have them where i live and not feel nervous becuase i live in an apartment. No one has ever said anything bad about living in an apartment but where i live thei rare very few and everyone i know lives in a house well most people do. I get embarresed when people come over becuase i kno they think that im poor and everything and they dont expect it becuase i always buy expensive and really nice stuff pluss clothes because my mom has more money to give me than when we used to live in a house . Should i be ashamed of this?

No not at all people dont care about that believe me...and if they do then their not true friends..good luck hunni
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My friend and i had a fight last summer. And then when school started she acted as if the fight never happened. Shes all like" Hey Buddy!!"
I dont belive she just be mad then be all nice.
She then made most of my friends turn against me. I'm not her friend anymore but she insists on being friends. How can i get her to leave me alone?

Telll her * Why would i want to be friends with someone who made all my friends turn against me there is more people out there that will be my friend who wouldnt do that..so just leave me alone and go hang out wit other people...* she was mean to you do the same to her!good luck
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ok I'll start from the beginning,
one day I ask this girl out. I tell her a few nice things. then I ask her out. she says let me get back to you. well she goes and and tells her friends what happened. so they go hide & talk.
well after lunch shes yes. two days after shes yes she breaks up with me. now thats been about 6mons. ago. and I still have feelings for her.
I also hear she still has feelings for me.
but I'm scared that if I ask her she'll say no.
what should I do?

you *hear* she has feelings for you you gotta find out from he if she does..and if she does ask her out and hopefully she ll say yes..good luck hun
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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my sister gets white stuff in her under wear what is it I mean I get it too but I dont want to ask her

Discharge hunni hahah...something that happens to all girls..
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Well My ex-boyfriend (Jake) and I dated for about 7 months off and on last year (2003) well...He use to say he loved me but never meant it...He hurt me alot but I'm madly in love with him and the other day he said I love you and says he means it and I really think he does...Im just not sure what to think or do....i need help...what should i do???? should i ask him out should i believe him what????

If he does *love* you he ll ask you out dont ask him out and dont throw yourself at him let him call you and talk to you and stuff bc the more you run after him t he more hes gunna push u away i learned that the hard way
good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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