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Break up trama
I don't have any guts when it comes to dumping a guy. Well.. OK I must admit this is my first time and we never went out on a date. I just don't want to be in a relationship right now. So, do you think it is ok to write a note to the guy I want to dump and say I don't want to be in a relationship? Or, does anyone know another way where I don't have to talk to him face-to-face. Or, do I have to talk to him like that! PLease help!
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i would talk to him..but when you are going to dump him make sure your truthful dont tell a lie..he might find out and it might get even worse..but you could write a note
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thats good and you should talk to him face to face
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It would be best to do it face to face. Though, if you dont want to then call him on the phone because in a note you can say stuff that u didnt meen to say. So deffinilty call him if u dont feel comfortable talking to him face to face.
~Brina~
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i have never dumped a guy my friends did it for me ALWAYS. so i suggest a note or face-to-face which is what i'm doing.but face to face is always better so he know whats going on and why your breaking up.hope i helped
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I think you should do it on the phone, or if you really dont want email or something. you may be able to get more out that way. and an easier way to do it is to tell him the truth. say you really like him but the realationship is to much for you at the time. tell him it was hard for you to do this but you dont want to hurt him more by pretending that everything is ok.
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there is nothing worse than a person that connot face there problem and be able to stand up for what they feel. You need to talk to him face to face, no notes. no friends. just you and him. you said that you don't have the guts, but stop thinking that way! you are a strong individul, don't be a push over. He had the courage to ask you out, show him that you have to courage to tell him that you have changed your mind,(and you have every right to cange your mind). just be calm, reherse what you are going to say, be nice, don't mud sling and give hime the same respect you would want if you were in his place. you will do fine.
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You can do it however you are comfortable...there is just one thing you absolutly can not do...and that is have his best friend or one of his friends do it...you can or one of ur friends but none of his...but if u want to do a note that works good too
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Email,aim,letter but it would be better if you did it in person because then he knows you have guts and one day this guy mahy be soo attractive and you might want to date him and if he knows you have guts and where not the girl who didnt have guts to dump me face to face he may not go for you..Just tell him that you have feelings for him but you just want to be single right now and be really good friends and maybe later have a relationship again..DONT SAY DUMP thats the worst word..thats mean!! lol good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))
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Dont write a note because if you say something'chessy' or something he has proof and he can act stupid and show it too all of his friends. Or he can rip it up in your face which wouldn't be good either. The best way is to talk to him face to face or on the phone say like Im not looking for a long term relationship right now im not ready. or something hope i helped
x3 spiCy xo hoTt
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you could write him but try having a friend tell it's over.
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well most ppl i've talked to think its "low' to do it any other way then face to face...but i think the next possible way is maybe over the phone and just tell him the truth dont give him any bs that "it not you its me" blah blah blah just tell him how u feel...
hope i helped!
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okay yea! write a note, and make sure your standing in the 3rd grade classroom! then hand him a pencil and ask him to check yes or no as to whether its ok or not! geezus. grow up, get balls, mature! stop dating if you can't manage to break it up after u've had enough. wow. ur cool. tell me what the note says. i want to know.
yours truly!
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you can do it over the internet, write a note like you said, you can have a friend do it, or something like that. good luck!
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Awww hunnie. I've been in this position plenty of times. It seems you're not ready for a commitment, which is understandable. Tell him face-to-face. It's better, and writing notes will make him think you were too shy. Which you are, but it's better to be face-to-face because it shows you were strong. Tell him that you're not ready for a commitment, and you want to try again some other time. I hope I helped!
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Tina
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I dumped my last boyfriend through a note.
XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21
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