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Ok.. i'm going out with a guy and he smokes ..

i'm 14 and he is 15. do you think thats bad?

i rate high for good answers.

Honestly, its a personal decision for him to make, no its not legal, nor is it healthy, but like I said thats his personal descision. I personally don't think its bad because its his choice, and if i said it was bad I'd be a hypocrit, because I smoke cigarettes too. Well email me if you need any help.. x_pinupdoll_x@yahoo.com Good Luck!

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I think im in love with my ex. everytime i see him i wanna cry. I just remember all tha times we spent together and how special they were to me and i just wonder what i couldve done to keep him in my life. We've even tried to make it work again but some issuses came up. I just wanna know what i can do or say to get him back.

Sweetie your in luck, I can relate extremly with you on this one. Me and my ex dated for 3 years off and on, and now when i see him i just wanna break down. We broke up in Jan. 2004, and the only thing you can do is either tell him how you feel and see how he feels. Or you can hold it all back and just deal with it. Ive tried both and both results end up not coming out clear to me. But I would really like you to IM me or email me and we can talk more about this and maybe help each other out.

E-mail- x_pinupdoll_x@yahoo.com
AIM-NoFeAr4LyFe03
Yahoo IM- x_pinupdoll_x
MSN Messenger- cuteandlovableshorty@hotmail.com

I'm hoping to hear from you soon.

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Hi.

I am 14 years old, and lets just say my name is S. I am a girl, and a diabetic. I sometimes don't get my periods, its irregular and have went to the doctor about it. They said theres nothing they can do except give me birth control, which my mom did not want me on. I have about 9 or 10 lumps (size of tiny pimples) around my left and right nipples, and soreness around my breast. I really do not know if this is breast cancer related, but I am too afraid to go to the doctor. I am afraid to show anyone my body, so I won't go to a family member, or like I said, a doctor.. can one of you please give me some advice before I go to drastic measures such as my MOM?
sincerely,
S.

Honey, it happens to all girls when they're boobs are growing. Its completely normal. and they irregular period is TOTALLY normal too. most teenage girls periods arent regular till theyre twenties..if you have anymore questions my aim is NoFeAr4LyFe03 IM me anytime, Im on quite a bit. Good Luck!

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after gym i sweat a lot. you can see the sweat from my armpits through my shirt. whats a good deodorant or sumthing else that can help me sweat less (espeically my armpits)

Anything with antipersperant. that should help a little bit.

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I heard that you get more color when you're sun tanning while it's cloudy outside. I've searched all over the internet and can't find out if this is true or not. If anyone knows if this is true please tell me! I'll rate high. Thanks in advance!


P.S. Always use sunscreen!

How are you gonna get tan when the clouds block the sun...whoever told you that is effin insane! And they obviously dont know anything about tanning..fools..well the best way to SUNtan is in the SUN! lol..good luck..

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Ok i had a boyfriend..but we never talked one bit..sometimes online but not a very lightening conversation. So i dumped him on feild day. Then he says he has a different girl friend on that same day. He wont tell people who..but i still kind of liked him. The only real reason i dumped him is because we didnt talk..and it was weird when we did. Do you think i made the right choice? Should i just give up on him and fall for another?

I wouldnt say fall for another, but you definatly should move on beacuase he must not have cared for you very much if he got a gf the same day you guys broke up. Because once he sees you with another guy hell get pretty jealous Im sure. Well Good Luck..

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I used to be so outgoing, I would just totally be me, and go crazy and everyone loved me for that. But now I'm like constantly tryin to be popular and I'm to afraid of what people will think if I go back to my outgoing *personatlity* Any tips on how to go back to being the true me? I'Ll rate Lots

just try not to think about the other people, because when someone doesnt like something about your personality or looks its normally because theyre jealous, so just think of it that way, and just be yourself.

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hey i was thinkin of after my shower putting gel in my wet hair and scrunching it. do i need to blow dry my hair as/after i do this? can i just let it air dry? thanks

yes you can let it air dry, and you may even want to put some extra hold hair spray on it too, like hold it away from your hair and spray it like you would if yo uused a curling iron.

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does anyone know how metalolism works? like how much do calories do you burn a day? and how much running does it takes for you to lose some weight. how will 2 or 3 miles everyother day effect my weight after a month. what about every other day. i plan to run all summer and lift weights too.

well your fat will turn into muscle most likely and muscle weighs more than fat..and you cant really control your metabolism i dont think..but you can talk to a doctor aboiut how you can lose weight and theyll give you some options

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now that its summer and really hot out. i sweat a lot, especially on my face. does anyone know what i can do to prevent my make-up from smearing or any good cover-ups/foundation/concealers that will out-last the humidity and weather? thanks. i will rate you good. =)

waterproof mascara, umm and some good eyeliner, and Revlon Foundation works really good, its a bit pricey but it works.

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hi i am asian and i curl my eyelashes.. the thing is when i put on mascara, my eyelashes like overlap.. they dont clump together its just when i put on mascara the lashes overlap eachother.. how can i help this? i need helpful tips like not type of mascara to use

my cousin does that and she put the mascara on first then curls it and then you can wash the mascara off..and that helps her, cuz she used to have that problem...Good Luck..

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Is it ok to tell someone you like them cause for one they're moving to another state and you might never see them again.... but i have a boyfriend and i'm like in love with him but this other guy i like is leaving and i don't know where these emotions are coming from but i can't help it what should i do
signed,
hopeless romantic

Alright, just cause you have a boyfriend doesnt mean you may not end up liking someone else..you cant control your feelings..its physically impossible you may tell yourself you dont like him and what not but that wont change the fact that you do..so what i would do is write him a letter and tell him not to read it till hes on a plane/or in the car (whichever he is taking to move) and then tell him to write back and mail it to you or something. or you can always just tell him face to face or on the phone..let me know how things work out and good luck..

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My hair has been extra tangled lately. In the morning it takes 10 minutes to brush out my wet hair. Can anyone suggest some products to cure this problem. My first thought was Johnson & Johnson's No More Tangles shampoo, but isn't that for little kids?

I suggest buying a Shampoo and Conditioner that is for dry and damaged hair, because thats what causes tangles is when your dry or damaged hair rubs together and tangles itself..or buy a good professional shampoo..

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I wanna change
Im so sick of "me", I've had boyfriends but nothing worth mentioning. I wanna stand out, be worth lookin at, and I wanna be happy with myself.

1.I have deep blonde hair *almost a light brown* with some lighter highlites.
2.Im 5'2" I weigh 108
3. My hair is shoulder length, framed in front
4. I have a zit problem, my forhead is covered, and my nose has a few blackheads

I'll rate high on any good comments on how to become " The New Me"

well you could always dye your hair, change your style of clothing, maybe cut your hair a different way. Umm..they have some really good acne creams out there, they cost a little bit of money but they work..Good Luck and Let me know how ot goes..

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hi everytime im on my period i kinda get itchy down there. does anyone no what this means? is it serious? and is it normal?
thanxz

Well, it may be just your pads your using (if you use those) or it could be your tampons, whatever you use. You may be allergic to something in them, and you should try another brand. Thats the only thing I can think of since you say you only get it when your on your period..Maybe you can ask your mom or a grandma or something..Good Luck..

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i have the boy that i like number and i dont want to call it becuz im too scared. i dont know how will react to the fact that i got his number from my cousin. i took it from her phone. and i really don't know why i did it. and somehow i memorized it. i can't call it without my name being on the caller ID. and i dont know what to say to him. and i know what he's all about so i dont wanna do no mushy stuff if i do talk to him. and i dont want to forget about it becuz i think i would regret it. and most of my friends dont know him that well. and i really don't want to do three way with my friends anyway. so what do i do?

all i can say is talk to him more in person and after you get more comfortable around him then be like hey you wanna call me later? or hey can i call you later? or you can juss call him and talk to him about something he is interested in ya know? lemme know how it goes

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I really like supporting charitable organizations, and I want to buy bracelets for the tsunami relief, Livestrong, and breast cancer. I have heard the footLOcker and Sport Chalet sell them. I was wondering if this is true and where else I could fing these bracelets! Thank you!

I know you can get the pink Breast Cancer ones at Walmart for a dollar cuz IO got mine there.

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Hey me and my girlfriend just broke up she broke up with me in january a different girl dumped me and i got over her for a little while but when i started talking to her again i couldnt help but love her again i miss her so much i dont know if she likes me
what should i do should i ask her out or should i sit here and wish she would go out with me please help!?!?!?!?!

I think you should find out how she feels then if she feels the same tell her how you feel, and even ask her out if your up for it then...lemme know how it goes...

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Okay here it goes, my boyfriend is really unexperienced, and really shy. I want to know if I should just go for it or wait untill he goes for it (it being the kiss) Or is it more of a "we both will know when its right" type of deal. I was the one to initiate most everyhting else such as holding hands and whatnot,...now what?

Well if your comfortable kissing him first then go for it! But if not just wait till the moment is right and youll know when it is...

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I look absolutly dreadful in the mornings, like most people. I get big bags under my eyes, I tend to break out right when I wake up, my face looks oily and dirty, my eyes look small and tired. I wash my face every morning and night, put on lotion morning and night, and I use concelar and foundation. Most of it wears off after a few hours, but my eyes are the same most of the day. Of course if I'm getting ready at night, everything is gone. Please if anyone has any tips to looking better in the mornings, let me know! THANKS!

Well you could try an Oil-Free Based foundation...and an Oil-Free lotion for your face and stuff too that should help your breakouts..and as for the eye thing...just put like a very light eyeshadow on the bottom under your eye thats what I do...

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