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okay well i think i'm in love with this guy i have been with for a little under 2 months. the problem is he never talks to me in person. and everyone says they think he dont like me. but he says he loves me what should i do?!?! love ya. (link)
okay, I think I know who you are, and if I'm right, then you should definitely believe him. If he says he loves you, he probably means it, and he might just be a little nervous about talking to you in person. you can always ask him about the whole thing with everyone saying he doesn't like you. hope i helped .. i/m me if you need more help


WHat are some good ways to lose weight. (link)
Some good ways to lose weight are exercising regularly *especially running and doing sit-ups*, playing sports, and watching what you eat. Be careful if you choose a diet, not all are safe! hope i helped!


Okay my period has been going on for 1 month and i don't know what to do. It this normal or is something wrong? i don't feel comterbal to talk to my mom about this only advice colums and my friend. i need help FAST!!!!! Because me my friend won a trip to hawaii and we leave in 1 week. F/13 p.s. if it helps this is my second period. (link)
Because this is only your second period, you are still adjusting. You may not be regular for 1-3 years, sometimes less, sometimes more. I would suggest that you see a doctor immediately. This is no problem you and your friend can work out. You could also talk to your mom about it and just forget about being uncomfortable, but I'm sure she'd take you to a doctor. hope i helped!


hi
i think i might have mild depression.
i have bn reading about it on the web and most of the symptons match up to wat im feeling so does this mean im depressed?
i just feel so lonely n isolated in my own little world and i cut my self sum times.. not so it bleeds though just enuf to make the pain disapear.
can some one please tell me wat to do because i dont want any one to know, especially my family because i dont exactly get on with them. my friends wont help either..
sorry its long.. i rate 5's (link)
It seems like you may have a mild case of depression. Try just looking up and focusing on the good/bright side of things. Don't take little things that go wrong in your day to heart. You can always talk to me. My s/n is xobubblegum25xo. If this continues, I would suggest informing/consulting your doctor immediately. I hope you get better !!


HOW do i become more outgoing?! I want to get more friends and be funny,instead of a shy good girl!! can anyone help? thnx! (link)
To become more outgoing, I would suggest expressing yourself while still being yourself. Dont act desperate for more friends, and just use your best judgement for cracking a GOOD joke, or just acting silly. hope i helped!


Any one no any style websites? i want cute ones not old ones! (link)
I know that most teen magazine sites have cute hairstyles that are 'in'. i suggest trying ::

www.teenvogue.com
www.seventeen.com
www.cosmogirl.com
www.girlslife.com

or any other teen magazines you might think of. these are also sold in stores, so for 2-3 dollars you can buy them yourself. hope i helped!

p.s.- if you have aol, go into the beauty and style message boards and im sure people have posted some cute hairstyles. also, you can always google it and get millions of websites.


Hey. I'm going on Islands of Adventure (a theme park in Orlando, Florida) on Thursday on a field trip. I was wondering if someone will give me some advice about it.

For example, how much money should I bring?
Do I need a bathing suit?
Or a towel?
Are there any specific souvenirs I should buy?
Can I bring a camera?
What are some good rides?
What's the best ride?
How long is the average wait ride?
And some other information would be helpful.

Thanks. =) (link)
Here are a few websites that should help you, and some ideas of my own.

http://themeparks.about.com/cs/universalparks/a/ioamain.htm

You should definately bring a bathing suit. Maybe wear it under your clothes? You should probably bring like, $60, depending on what your spending style is, plus the cost of admission. Things get expensive in theme parks, so bring your own lunch and a drink if your school allows it and if you want to. I've heard there are some pretty good roller coasters there, and the average wait for rides depends on the ride, what the weather conditions are, and what day it is (weekends are usually wayyyy more crowded than school days) hope i helped! you can always google islands of adventure and get there website or something if you want more information.


What are those so called "love handles"? (link)
Love handles are excess skin or possibly fat in a girl's hip area, usually above where low rise jeans/hip huggers are. hope i helped!


ok well... i have this pic on my xanga but my friend put it there a long time ago. i want to change it but dont know how. shes not friends with me anymore so i cant ask her again. someone please tell me how to do it! (link)
You have to go into your profile section. When you sign in it should be located on the 'left module' under the category "Edit" as xanga calls it. Click on that and once again, on the left it should "Edit Profile: Basics .. Contact .. Interests .. PROFILE PICS " you should click on the fourth one that says 'profile pics'. On the left side it should say "View Profile Pics >>" and "Upload Profile Pics". Click on "upload profile pics". Then, scan the picture you want onto your computer if you haven't already done so. Then, where it says "Choose Picture" click "Browse" and choose the picture you want and click "Open" on that window. Under the space that will have your pic address, make sure you have a check mark where it says "Make this picture your Default Profile Pic". Then click "Upload Picture". Sorry, I don't have any more pics that I can upload to finish helping you through step by step, but it's pretty easy after that. You just have to press save and stuff, if I remember correctly. Best of luck! hope i helped! my s/n is xobubblegum25xo if you are still confused or can't do it.


ok so i like this guy but the thing is everytime we get kinda close he asks some one else out! Err annoying and today i brought my best friend ty. A cookie and he comes up from behind me and holds my hands down and kisses my neck a couple or times and sometimes he hugs me,plays with my hair
out of no where he kinda annoys me sometimes. But i mean all my guy friends all like do u like him ..and i always say no because they don't like him but i really like him wat should i do !?? Please help i rate 5's if its good ,and i don't want people being dumb about it i just want your opinion. (link)
Okay, do you know why your friends don't like him? It could be because they know his past, or something you don't know, or he could be a jerk. I'm not saying he is, but before you do anything, question your friends about why they don't like the guy. If it's a lame reason, don't take it into consideration, go out with the guy!hope i helped. my s/n is xobubblegum25xo if you need more help and want to talk about it!


Can eating a lot of yogurt make you fat?? Just wondering because I gained a lot of weight recently and I've been trying to figure out why. (link)
Yes, although yogurt is an EXTREMELY healthy food, you can gain weight from consuming it. Don't completely stop eating it though! If you don't already, eat the low or non-fat kind. Also, as long as you BURN more calories than you CONSUME everyday, you will be much healthier. hope i helped!


1. well i was wondering if a girl that is 15 turning 16 in 2 months is going out with someone that just turned 25, could that someone go to jail?
2. what if the girl is not a virgin and the cops find out and they try to accuse the boy and she denies it could they file charges???
Thank you! (link)
1. Yes, that someone could go to jail. It is illegal for an adult (someone older than 18) to date a minor (18 or younger) more than two years younger than him/herself. In your case, the someone is about 10 years older, so he can get in a lot of trouble.
2. They can do tests and if they question it tell the truth. The tests can ususally determine who the boy was. And yes, they can always file charges.


Okay.. welp the other day i dyed my hair dark and now it looks like it is black. I HATE having 'black' hair. My mom won't let me dye it again so is there anyway i can get it back to brown? I put that sun-in stuff in my hair but will that have any effect since my hair is BLACK!? (link)
Wow, be VERY careful with sun-in! It turned my hair orange'ish .. sort of. Lemon juice works pretty well, you can get that at grocery stores and such. Also, go out in the sun a lot. Even though your hair is 'black', the sun will probably dye it or bleach it in some way. Hope i helped!


Does anyone know any good websites (beside toneteen.com) that have effective ways to lose weight? I rate high! :) (link)
Some magazine websites, such as seventeen.com, sometimes have effective ways to lose weight. You can always google it, or buy magazines. The May issue of Seventeen has a flat ab workout, as most teen magazines usually have some kind of workout to help you keep fit. They also usually have some kind of diet thing where they have recommendations of what to eat for a week. You personally can just work out, and run a lot, eat healthy, and you should see results in about a month, maybe less! hope i helped!


oK well I don't really have that much time in the morning to do my hair for school and my hairs always the same either down or up..I really need some cute but quick hair styles to do to my hair..my hairs shoulder length and light brown..pLz help ill rate u high!! (link)
You can always shower the night before and braid your hair, and leave it like that until morning. Or you can scrunch your hair and put a pretty fair amount of strong gel in your hair the night before to make it stay curly, and touch it up in the morning! It looks soo cute .. and its pretty quick! hope i helped!

oh! and you can also put your hair half up, or in messy buns (all or half up) .. and you can also decorate it with ribbons that match your clothes for the day!


well i just got my period on friday (aobut 5 days ago) and i used these pads for a few days..but they are so long and fat in width! so then i went to the store and i got a thiner one width way but then its like really thick! and your can see it through my shorts that i have to wear for volleyball! are there any kinds or brands that i should know of that would work for my problem??? and i was wondering how long it normally takes a girl to learn to use a tampon..scince summer is coming up..i jus got a inground pool so all of my friends will be over here like 24/7! thxs so much! (link)
There is a brand called Always .. and there are pads that are called like slender or something. You can try those. Also, kotex is a brand that you can't usually see through your shorts. As for tampons, as long as you read the directions carefully and follow them, you should probably be able to learn by your 2nd or 3rd month. just watch the absorbency; ask your mom or consult your doctor about that. hope i helped!


i am 13 122pounds and five foot three is that overweight? also can someone tell me the average range of my weight? i am also a boy. (link)
If you have a lot of muscle, 122 pounds at your height and age is perfectly fine. You should definitely start or continue working out/exercising/participating in sports. Running is best; it helps you stay in shape. The average weight would probably be around 120-130 for someone your height and age. Hope i helped!


ok like all the guys and some of the girls at my school are really mean they tell me all the time that im ugly and that i have no friends or life and that no one will ever love me and this other group of kids at lunch came up to me and told me that they thought i was ugly and then laughed right in my face . i wanted to cry so bad .and all my friends tell me to just ignore them but thats easy for them to say because they are popular .and ihave already told the principal and he said that there was nothing he could do and i just want another opinon on this. (link)
Okay, your principal is totally WRONG! There IS something he can do about it. You can definately take the issue to guidance, or if it gets worse you could get your parents to press harassment charges (only if you feel it is EXTREMELY necessary) You can talk to me anytime about it; my sn is xobubblegum25xo. hope i helped!


Hi, well my names Jen and im 15 and a freshman. In gym class i noticed this boy Matt and he went to my middle school but we never actually talked. But today in gym he said "Hey Jen!" and i dont know i was kind of happy about it. I saw him alot that day and i tried to say hi and smile alot but i know he is extremely shy and everything but he kind of smiled but looked down saying hi. Hes sort of geeky, but i dont think i really care about that but im not sure what to do? Thank you so muchhhh (link)
I think you should become better friends with him. Get to know him and his personality well. If you think you like him, and he has a good personality and nice sense of humor, flirt with him. Hopefully he likes you back and asks you out. You can always give him hints, saying you like him and stuff. Or you could just ask him out yourself. Hope i helped! my s/n is xobubblegum25xo if you need more advice.


I really like this guy at my school, but i know for a fact that he doesnt like me, i want to really ask him out badly but i dont want to be turned down, what should i do? (link)
How do you know for a fact he doesn't like you if he doesn't know? If you want to ask him out, go for it. Just hope he'll say yes. If you get turned down, remember there are tons of other guys out there, and i'm ALWAYS here for you to talk to! my s/n is xobubblegum25xo if you need more help. hope i helped!




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