i have the boy that i like number and i dont want to call it becuz im too scared. i dont know how will react to the fact that i got his number from my cousin. i took it from her phone. and i really don't know why i did it. and somehow i memorized it. i can't call it without my name being on the caller ID. and i dont know what to say to him. and i know what he's all about so i dont wanna do no mushy stuff if i do talk to him. and i dont want to forget about it becuz i think i would regret it. and most of my friends dont know him that well. and i really don't want to do three way with my friends anyway. so what do i do?
inlovewifnoone answered Friday June 10 2005, 10:46 pm: all i can say is talk to him more in person and after you get more comfortable around him then be like hey you wanna call me later? or hey can i call you later? or you can juss call him and talk to him about something he is interested in ya know? lemme know how it goes <3 Sabina [ inlovewifnoone's advice column | Ask inlovewifnoone A Question ]
pretty1 answered Friday June 10 2005, 8:07 pm: Ok well this all depends on how many times youve met with him...if it was only once or twice then maybe you should get to know him a lil better because you may come off as a lil desperate...and no guys like a desperate girl. But if you know the kid enough to where you know some in depth things about him...then its ok for you to call him. Definately DO NOT go on three way with your friends because if you do that then there is a huge chance of you coming off immature. Or your friends might get more words in than you and it will be a total waiste of a phone call. If you arent sure what you wanna talk about and you dont wanna get into a dead silence...then it would probably be a good idea to have a list of conversation starters next to you if you ever feel a silence coming on. I used to do this when i had a boyfriend that i was getting to know and he ended up asking me out. some good things to put on there are like what you did that day and maybe things that you are interested in...dont make the whole conversation all about you...make sure that after your done with a subject, make him tell you what he did or what hes interested in...because i think it looks a lil conceeded when a guy or a girl sits there the whole time talking about themselves...well i hope i helped...good luck...just remember to relax...youll do fine...bye [ pretty1's advice column | Ask pretty1 A Question ]
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