Okay here it goes, my boyfriend is really unexperienced, and really shy. I want to know if I should just go for it or wait untill he goes for it (it being the kiss) Or is it more of a "we both will know when its right" type of deal. I was the one to initiate most everyhting else such as holding hands and whatnot,...now what?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? youaskmeIanwser answered Tuesday April 26 2005, 12:13 am: Well normally when it comes to that sort of case I've never really known of alot of guys who are shy about kissing or showing affection, but if I were you I would just either kiss him, or maybe call him and ask him what he would do if you kissed him. If your shy about bringing it up just try using it as a game. Ask him if he wants to play 21 questions and in it you both get to ask eachother 21 questions a piece about anything and everything, and in the process of asking "what would you do if I kissed you?" to him, you can get to know eachother better and ask other questions about him that your dying to know. <33 [ youaskmeIanwser's advice column | Ask youaskmeIanwser A Question ]
Dear_Sammie answered Monday April 25 2005, 8:07 pm: I would say that you should just wait until you or he feels that it is the right time. Just let everything take it's own coarse and you'll know when it's right. Chances are when you know it's right...so will he. Just follow you instict. [ Dear_Sammie's advice column | Ask Dear_Sammie A Question ]
MyPaperHeartIsBleeding answered Monday April 25 2005, 3:56 pm: Well if your boyfriend is really shy like that, then he is probably going to be too shy to make the first move. You might want to go in for the first kiss, or talk to him about it. Or you can just lean in really close to him like your about to kiss, and see what he does.. Hope i helped! [ MyPaperHeartIsBleeding's advice column | Ask MyPaperHeartIsBleeding A Question ]
karenR answered Monday April 25 2005, 1:56 am: If you've been going out a while then go for it. If not, then you might want to wait just a little longer. You both will probably know when it's right, but if he's really shy, just go for it. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
Wild_Crazy_Chick answered Sunday April 24 2005, 2:39 pm: if you really want to kiss him then you should jump in and make the first move! but if it is one of those things were you want to kiss him but you dont really have to then i would just tell you to wait until it is a mutual thing and you both want to kiss each other!
you will know when it is the right time!
Mackenzie answered Saturday April 23 2005, 10:09 pm: If I weRe in youR shoes, I would just wait foR it to just happen. To me, it is just one of those "when the moment is Right" type of deals. I would say you'Re best if you let it Run that Route. Goodluck deciding! Take caRe! Hope I helped? =D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
gomesy1189 answered Saturday April 23 2005, 9:07 pm: OK... dont ask him to kiss you!! Its awkward my ex did and i wanted to slap him... you should let him come... the best kisses in my opinion are the ones you just look into eachothers eyes and know when its coming and know its right... sounds corny but most like it... i do atleats... just hang out with him one day and tell him how you feel about you and look into him eyes and such... hopefully you will get this kiss... good luck....
LoveNJstyle answered Saturday April 23 2005, 3:40 pm: i have a situation exactly like this. well against common opinion, im not going to make the first move b/c i would presonally feel kinda pushy. just do what you wanna do. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
mrs_radcliffe answered Saturday April 23 2005, 2:29 pm: Because he so shy he might feel bad about holding your hand and hugging you because he feels uncomfortable weather or not to do it. Mabe you should kiss him see what his reaction is.
ThugGirl041790 answered Saturday April 23 2005, 12:52 pm: Well if he's shy you might be waiting for a while.. so you should just make the move it doesnt sound like you have a problem with it so just go for it.. if i was you i would stick with kissing for a while..he'll probably loosen up after that then make moves on other things your ready for..much luv dez x0x0 [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
o0xbrianna answered Saturday April 23 2005, 12:47 pm: Just kiss him first. He will be relieved that you made the first move since he is shy. He will then be more comfortable around you!
tada answered Saturday April 23 2005, 12:40 pm: if you want to kiss then like when your hanging around with him and laughin just look in his eye and just make your move and if he knows he would fall in too hope i helped rate me [ tada's advice column | Ask tada A Question ]
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