i am single in the 8 grade my best friends are nicky defrange, jessica woodall, stephanie baugh, destiny patterson aka toddndesbffene that is her column website thingy u know. im crazy wild funny cute skinny chick.
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Hi im Jess i love soccer very much and i enjoy it until my coaches ruin it. If i make one little mistake they yell alot. I hate when they do that because im having a great time until they come along and ruin it what can i do to avoid their annoyance to me. thx i rate high
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Let it go in one ear and out the other. Just agree with everything they say and act like you are listening to them. But the important thing just have fun again
good luck
Lisa and Des
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theres this guy at school that all my friends are friends with, but i havent really liked him from the start... maybe its b/c i hear all these bad things he says behind one of my best friends back... anyways what should i do...
i've tried being nice to him and talking to him more but, he just obviously doesn't like me eigher...if i could learn to be friends with him... that would be great, but he doesn't really want to be... or at least thats what i heard from one of my friends
One more thing... should i try to forget all of these mean things that he has said behind my friends back??
-confused
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NO try talking to your friends about that if that wont work then talk to him about how you dont like him talking about your friends behind their back. If your friends dont belive you about him talking about them behind their backs then get a tape recorder and record him. I had a problem like that and i recorded him my friends were thanking me cause of it.
GOOD LUCK
LISA
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Is it a turnoff if a girl asks a guy out???
And can you like kinda clarify... i really need help... anyone... i rate high
Gomesy (link)
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ok i calling a guy friend that i know im asking him he says no it is not he thinks it is kinda sexy for a woman to ask a man out. just call him ask him out or if you are shy then get one of your friends to do it for you as long as that friend doesnt like the guy or is two face it will be fine. Just be your self around him.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!
LISA
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hello ever one lol ummm i dont konw what do say ok i lost my cellphone 2 days ago and i didnt really worried about it cause i thought it was cheap about 40 dollar i got at cingular and my contract is not fininshed yet also i ask then how much is it they told me about 160 dollar icant offered that much and i think im gonna get kick out of my house if i dont find it ( i dont have my phone now but my dad still have to pay the monthly plan) oh my gosh what should i do can how can i get a free or cheap phone at cingular or is that possible?
sry i may write really messy or dosnt make ne since but plz forgive (link)
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ok first turn the cell phone off and go to the police station i dont know what to do about your dad kicking you out of the house, but i would tell an adult but i dont know what to do about getting kick out of your house. When i got kick out of my dad's house i went to my mom's i dont know if you can do that but if you need advice about getting kick out of your house then talk to one of my favorite columnist ToddnDesBffeNe she knows what to do about that her name is Destiny tell her that Lisa sent you.
i hope i helped
Lisa
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My friends birthday is tomarrow and i have no idea what to get her! shes not into makeup or anything like that...shes more of a tomboy....i have no idea what to get for her...shes 15....we dont really hang out alot so i wouldnt know stuff that she likes!! could somebody please help me? thanks (link)
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Get her an awesome birthday card and put some money in it so she can go get what she wants and you dont have to worry about getting something she doesnt like.
hope i helped
good luck
Lisa
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WILL RATE HIGH...i am lost...my best friend is going out with this guy that she knew liked and i told her it would be ok if she did go out with him (vice versa). he doesnt go to our school. i met him through my friend who knows him from outside activities. he liked her for a really long time, but she never liked him back, until now. this guy knew i liked him to but we both didnt know if would work out if we started dating. anyway, he asked my friend out and theyve been going out for a month now. i talk to him on the phone almost everyday and he confuses me.he's like leading me on, almost. he tells me he's gonna break up w/her for this and that reason, and i dont know how to respond. do i want them to stay together, and be a good friend, but i dont really know...i like him still...ive been out w/one guy since they've started going out and i broke up with him b/c i liked this guy...he says for me to wait for him...am i just wasting my time...waiting for something that will never be??? i really need help...WILL RATE HIGH. thnx!
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If you ask me move on this guy is being a real jerk he is going out with your best friend and he is telling you to wait for him. It sounds like to me that this boy thinks he is a player. He thinks he can go from one best friend to another it aint going to work belive me i had this problem before. If you do get them to break up then your friend is going to be mad at you for it. Tell me is this guy worth to ruined a good friendship over if you ask me no so do what you think is right follow your heart
hope i helped
lisa
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For the last few days a bunch of boys in my class have been looking at me funny. At first I thought that I mite have had somthing weird on my face or maybe my outfir looked redicules to them. Then they all started talking to me. Not at once, but boys would come up to me all threw out the day and talk to me. This one boy even said that his best friend (one of the boys who wouldn't leave me alone) had a crush on me. I didn't belive him. Another one, was always trying to make me laugh, anouther one was always starring at me. The boy I have a crush on is really cool and always talking to me too. I can tell he has a crush on me. I think all the other boys have crushes on, and it really freaks me out!!!!!! A bunch of girls have been giving me the cold shoulder, or being really mean. My crush is my best friend too, and we are always together, some stupid boy calls us the love birds. I really don't know what to do. Should I just stay away from all boys in general. (link)
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no do not stay away from all boys. Those boys all have crushes on you i bet. So if you ask me if you want them to leave you alone then ignore them or just walk away they will start to leave you alone after a while
Good luck
hope i helped
Lisa
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i'm 13 and not allowed to wear make up. my mom thinks i'm too young (what's the big deal, though? it's not like i'll turn into a slut or something!). my dad.... anyway! i was wondering if there was something kind of like make up or something or whatever any tiups on how i can look prettier like i would with make up but is not very noticable (except it makes me look a little better). ways to make my lashes longer, little bit rosier cheeks, whatever. but as long it doesn't make me look cheap or anything. if this helps, i'm a brunnette, darkish beige skin, lightish brown eyes, full (but not huge) lips. i'll rate 5's to everyone who helps. (link)
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i say just listen to your mother and if you dont want to then get your friends to bring make-up to school and put it on there and just take it off before you go home
good luck i hope i helped
Lisa
i think that you sound like you are really pretty as you are and i dont think that you need make-up to make you pretty. i know you might think that you do but you should learn to like your natural beauty and like your self for who you are on the inside! it doesnt matter what someone looks like on the outside. if someone thinks that you are ugly then that is there problem and they are probably just saying that to make them self feel supiorior (i dont know how to spell that but you get the drift of it i bet)over you and is just trying to put you down! you shouldnt let anyone put you down because if they do then they are ugly on the inside! no matter how pretty they are on the outside!
hope i helped
good luck
signed:~Des~
p.s. if you need to you can ask me advice on my column and it is ToddnDesBffeNe.
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I'm a fourteen-year old female I have a girlfriend that I really love but never see. When she talks about sex, she reminds me of my rapist so we haven't had sex yet and I don't think I want to. Every time we talk about getting together she talks about sex, but she writes me poetry and she's really loving. She's suicidal and I feel like protecting her. She hasn't come out to her parents yet and I think she feels safe with me. What should I do? She sort of creeps me out, mostly because she cares about sex so much. I'm a virgin save for my molestation when I was 7 through 8. I don't think she gets that I'm touchy about it, no pun intended (dark humor, sorry). I used to cut myself but I stopped, and she still wants me to. I told her I stopped and she asked me why not. She still does. Her mom's always on heroin and she does pot. I want and don't want to dump her at the same time. Should I break up with her? (link)
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Tell her to quit talking about sex because it is kinda creepy You out if she doesnt respect Your thoughts then you shouldnt be with her. In relationships you should always be open to each others feelings if she doesnt respect you. Then you know she is not the one.
Good luck hope i helped you out.
lisa
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Hey i my girlfriend broke up with me becasue i have something like bio polar anger problems and we got in a fight and i fought back 4 once and she dumped me me and my friend thought she kinda liked me a little but i just found out she doesnt me but i really really still love her and i didnt mean to scream and theres no hope to get her back but i love her still and cant get her out of my mind
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well if you really love this girl then NO MATTER WHAT she will always have part of your heart and you will NEVER EVER forget about her.. so the best advice i can give you is to stay at your friends houses on the weekends and just try to hold a friendship still going.. and you should really learn to control what you do when you are having one of your bi-polar moments.. believe me i have an ex that is like that but he got over it when he really puts forth the effort..
Good Luck!
hope i helped
lisa and des
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Okay here it goes, my boyfriend is really unexperienced, and really shy. I want to know if I should just go for it or wait untill he goes for it (it being the kiss) Or is it more of a "we both will know when its right" type of deal. I was the one to initiate most everyhting else such as holding hands and whatnot,...now what? (link)
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if you really want to kiss him then you should jump in and make the first move! but if it is one of those things were you want to kiss him but you dont really have to then i would just tell you to wait until it is a mutual thing and you both want to kiss each other!
you will know when it is the right time!
good luck!
lisa
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Ok,here goes: My friends and I are starting a dog sitting biz but now I'm not sure we can get any customers cause none of us live in a neighborhood and no one wants to drive so far to my house. And the moneys for a really good cose! Any one have any ideas to get customers or raise money? (theres only 3 of us so no car washes,too hard!)
Please don't delete!I will rate! Thanx for your help!
~*Tiffany*~ (link)
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none of us will probably be able to answer this because last night me and my friend tried to answer 2 or 3 questions taht had computer language on it and it said "chat speak detected. speak english please" so if you really want to be able to have answers then dont use computer language.
Lisa and Des
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WILL RATE HIGH my ex boyfriend is really worrying me. i broke up with him because he started to make me think that all he wanted from me was sex. im 14 hes 15. he was asking me if was a virgin (which i am), if i would leave him a sexy message on his messge maching, and he wasnt actualy talkin to me on the fone, it was all thr txt msgs.when i tried to talk to him he wouldnt pic up. and i cant stand relatiotships where there is no communication and he knew that was important to me. i went out with him once before and he broke up with me "because he thought i didnt like him" which didnt make much sense because i always made the first moves, he seemes like a whole different person now. anyway, i knew he drank occasionally and what i thoguht used to do some drugs. but i dont know, he says he has an anger problem and that he's going to get homeschooled. i think that would be worse for him. i know he has problems at home, but his parents are still marrried. he hurts himself, like he beats himself up and i dont understand. i dont think its anger problems i think he nees counsoling. i still care about him and i dont want him to do this to himself. i dont know what i should do...i dont want him to hurt himself (link)
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i think that if i were you i would tell an adult about it. i mean you do care about him and i know that going to an adult doesnt look really popular, but sometimes what is right isnt always popular and that is what i would do.
good luck!
lisa
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anybody know where i sohuld go if i want to get a picture in my advice column i will rate. (link)
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i think you have to go to your profile settings and it says something like photograph link (url) or something like that and that is where you put the file name and all that good junk!
good luck!
lisa
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I have liked this kid since like 8th grade... im a sophomore now... my friend told him and he said that we were both busy... him with basketball and me with winter track... this was in the winter and now its spring... i have spring track and soccer but i have no problems... he asked my other friend about me and when im not in class or school he asks my friend where i ama nd the next day he always ask if i was sick and just seems concerned... but i dont know if he likes me or if its just me... i really wanna hang with him as friends but i dont know how to ask or even how to see if he likes me... i need help like crazy...
crazy and confused
Gomesy
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just walk up to him and talk...i mean if you really like this guy then it shouldnt be that hard to talk to him. and if you are just really nervous about it have one of your friends do it for you and just have them ask if he wants to go to the movies or something on a weekend and just hang out with yall. i mean that is what i would do but that could just be me..
good luck!
lisa
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ok so i have this friend and she went to this one school untill the end of 6th grade and then she moved to my school and she is my friend now (im in 8th grade now) and so we went to the track meet and i met some of her friends from her old school and so i talked to them and then when i got home i taked to them on the internet and asked them who they thought was hotter and they said that i was and so when i went to school the next day she wanted to know what they said about who was hotter and i told her that they said that i was hotter then she was and so was like no seriously what did they say and i told her that they said that i was hotter and she goes stop lying and i was like im not lying b/c that is what they said and she was like no tell me and i said it again and she was like oh well then they must have just said that to make you feel better about yourself and i was like no b/c i talked to them on the phone too and she was like im sure that they were just making me feel better and they thought that i was hotter and my friend (lets call her Lee) well lee isnt that pretty she weighs more then me and her hair is all frizy and i am 5-2 1/2 and weigh 105 and my hair isnt frizzy oh and she has acne too and i dont ppl keep telling me that i am prettier then her and her boyfriend told me that too so i dono y she would say that they were lying to me and i am a teen runway model can someone tell me whats wrong with her? i rate 5's for good and not stupid answer
Wow (link)
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She is just saying that because you r prettier then her and she is just jealous of you so dont worry this thing well just blow over so just wait.
Good luck i hope i helped
Lisa
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can someone help me. its finally raining here after not raining in about 2 weeks and now that its raining..its heavy raining! I can't go outside..nothing on TV..nothing good to do on-line..i can't go to the mall or the movies..and I doubt I'll be allowed to have anyone over..can someone help me? btw im a 15/f (link)
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how about you get one of this columns things and help people with their problems you wont be bored.
good luck
lisa
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hey... my boyfriend and i just had a big talk and he wants to be in "time-out"
i have no clue what that means just that theres no kissing at school (so he said). now i dont know how to act around him or what to say to him
My questions are ... what do you think time-out is and how should i act around him at school???... im so confused and lost in all of this (link)
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that he wants to take a break from u right now.
At school just say hey have a little smalltalk then just walk off. He might want You back if YOu act like You dont need him.
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okay, on thursday...we walked by this guy and i said "wow, hes hot" and he looked over, but it was like a slow turn not like he heard or anything. but then he smiled at me when he saw me...
Friday- he saw me playing cards w/ my friends. and walked over and asked me if he could play. I think he said 1 secntence to the other girls. And he would stare at me and act emmbarrassed when we BS-ed him (we were playing BS) and talked only to me...
Anyway, my other friends like him and so do i. And it bugs me when my friends like the same guy
MY QUESTION-- do u think he likes me? And how can i get over my problem w/ friend liking the same guy? (link)
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yes i think he likes u. make sure it is ok for u to go out with that guy so she wont be mad at u.
good luck
lisa
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So my boyfriend and I started officially "going out" on wednesday. Whereas before we were just dating and such. We were never really talked on the phone before other than for him to call and make plans and to tell me he was coming to get me. So anyways I would really like to talk to him, I texted him yesterday but he hasnt called me yet. Do I just wait untill I see him again or untill he calls or do I just get over it and call him.....(thanks) (link)
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call the boy i bet he would be happy to talk to you. He might be nervous to talk to u because he dont know what to say to you.
good luck
lisa
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