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WILL RATE HIGH...i am lost...my best friend is going out with this guy that she knew liked and i told her it would be ok if she did go out with him (vice versa). he doesnt go to our school. i met him through my friend who knows him from outside activities. he liked her for a really long time, but she never liked him back, until now. this guy knew i liked him to but we both didnt know if would work out if we started dating. anyway, he asked my friend out and theyve been going out for a month now. i talk to him on the phone almost everyday and he confuses me.he's like leading me on, almost. he tells me he's gonna break up w/her for this and that reason, and i dont know how to respond. do i want them to stay together, and be a good friend, but i dont really know...i like him still...ive been out w/one guy since they've started going out and i broke up with him b/c i liked this guy...he says for me to wait for him...am i just wasting my time...waiting for something that will never be??? i really need help...WILL RATE HIGH. thnx!
....stuckinthemiddle...
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If you ask me move on this guy is being a real jerk he is going out with your best friend and he is telling you to wait for him. It sounds like to me that this boy thinks he is a player. He thinks he can go from one best friend to another it aint going to work belive me i had this problem before. If you do get them to break up then your friend is going to be mad at you for it. Tell me is this guy worth to ruined a good friendship over if you ask me no so do what you think is right follow your heart
hope i helped
lisa
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a guy is something to wait for... but to an extent. not if he has another girlfriend (especially a friend of yours). if this guy really wanted to be with you then he would have broken up with her already or not even have asked her out! i think you should move on babe! there are plenty!! of guys out there for you! dont hold yourself back from meeting them just because of this jerk!!! good luck!! x's and o's!!!!
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stuckininthemiddle.
Ask they guy hwta's going on. He shouldn't be keeping you in the dark like this. If he's going to break up with your friend ask him when. Don't tell your friend. And after her does break up with your friend, don't just in. It'll make your friend hate you.
♥ *ad0rkable* ♥
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wow! that happened with my friend and me too! we both decided not to like him and she broke up with him! if it is going to conflict with you and your friend then he is definalty not worth it! please rate!
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Well, it is really wasting your time talking to him on the phone and whatever. Chances are he won't break up with her. If he liked you, why would he go out with her in the first place. Also, if you do go out, think about this... he is telling you that he wants to break up with her for this and that, don't you think he will do and say the same stuff about you when he talks to another girl. Most likely he will! Also, if he did like you, he wouldn't want you to "wait" for him. What are you waiting for anyways, he would've dumped her for you by now!
GOod luck.
-Brianna
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Let him keep his promise first and that's to break up with her before you start a relationship with him. He might date you both with his girlfriend because he doesn't want to hurt his girlfriend. Let him make a decision and if he decides to be with you then he'll keep his promise. If he chooses his girlfriend then let go. you'll just get hurt.
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Oh boy, you are stuck in the middle aren't you?
If he is the one you want then I guess you just wait. You can't really encourage a break up, that wouldn't be nice nor would it look to good. Your girlfriend will probably be mad when he asks you out...be ready for that. Maybe not, but most likely will be. If you want him though you don't have much choice. Wait, but not to long. Don't let him string you both along for months or anything. :)
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