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please help asap!
theres this guy at school that all my friends are friends with, but i havent really liked him from the start... maybe its b/c i hear all these bad things he says behind one of my best friends back... anyways what should i do...
i've tried being nice to him and talking to him more but, he just obviously doesn't like me eigher...if i could learn to be friends with him... that would be great, but he doesn't really want to be... or at least thats what i heard from one of my friends
One more thing... should i try to forget all of these mean things that he has said behind my friends back??
-confused
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if hes mean why would u want to be friends with him? if you hear the mean stuff he says about your friends screw him! but if you feel the need to kiss his ass and be his friend then just dont disagree with him and be nice.
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NO try talking to your friends about that if that wont work then talk to him about how you dont like him talking about your friends behind their back. If your friends dont belive you about him talking about them behind their backs then get a tape recorder and record him. I had a problem like that and i recorded him my friends were thanking me cause of it.
GOOD LUCK
LISA
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Dont try to be friends with someone cause everyone else is... just ignore him... his lost... he seems like a ass anyway... and it depends how your friend is with hima nd hw badd the thing he said was... if your friend thinks he awesome and such you shoulk tell em what he said so they wont get too into him... hope i helped
Gomesy
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don't worry about the mean things that he says, it doesn't matter what he thinks of you, but if you can be friends with him then that would be good if not, and you feel that you can't say anything nice about him, i've learned that as long as you don't say mean things in front of his friends then you won't have a problem. give it a try
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Hey, if you don't like him you just don't. Some people just rub each other the wrong way. Just be polite when you see him, but you don't have to be friends just because everyone else is. :)
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So basically you'Re saying he doesn't want anything to do with you? Well that's his decision, and I suppose you just have to come to teRms with that. It seems like you've done all you could. Don't woRRie about getting him to like you; it seems like you've tRied to bRidge the gap, but he just Refuses. I say just give it a Rest and don't conceRn youRself anymoRe. If he's Really that good of fRiends with youR fRiend, peRhaps he'll change his opinion of you, oR at least tReat you with Respect in the company of youR mutual fRiend. I wish you the best of luck. Hope I helped!
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